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chaiii



sorry

My parents are heavily overburdened by my siblings responsibilities. my mom waybills garri to us from time to time and always tell me to be strong that all shall be well soon and I believe.

Listen to your mom

it sounds like the same stories I here at busstops everyday...

if u need help and u want to render a service to get a paid job, u should come up with ur strengths and interests... Nigeria is tough and people don't get easily swayed anymore by stories riddled with motions of pity...

and lastly, I for one hate people who wave suicide like its a threat... if u kill urself, u alone will die and go to unending oblivion, I believe u won't want to suffer here and suffer there too, so be wise, keep struggling and keep praying. God is ever faithful!

You should drop your credentials. Leave out personal details if you must.
I'm sure there are HR guys on here that can be of help.
This too shall pass, it always does.
Focus on your strengths not your weakness and channel your energy into going for what you want.

God will definitely see you through. Your case is better, at least ur parents are still alive, what of us that our parents died donkey years ago

Help is on the way. Don't give up

pressplay411:
You should drop your credentials. Leave out personal details if you must.
I'm sure there are HR guys on here that can be of help.

this is not a matter of credentials. Everybody has credentials. He has to add personal details to stand out in the crowd

suicidal because u have no job

bros sometimes I go to bed on empty stomach
hungry don't kill

keep searching sha
or u can be doing conductor work, for now

lofty900:
this is not a matter of credentials. Everybody has credentials. He has to add personal details to stand out in the crowd

Well what do you suggest?

My dear be strong life is full of challenges,killing yourself is a waste,your testimony is on the way,that time it seems so tough comes the victory

pressplay411:

Well what do you suggest?

help him if you can. Simple

this is bad, really bad

so in summary you are not suicidal you are Only a beggar
can you please shift there are real People who need help

Evaberry:
so in summary you are not suicidal you are Only a beggar

can you please shift there are real People who need help

Dear, There's no dignity in begging, but if begging is what will help... Let me do it in peace. Thanks for your comment

DAntivirus:
it sounds like the same stories I here at busstops everyday...

if u need help and u want to render a service to get a paid job, u should come up with ur strengths and interests... Nigeria is tough and people don't get easily swayed anymore by stories riddled with motions of pity...

and lastly, I for one hate people who wave suicide like its a threat... if u kill urself, u alone will die and go to unending oblivion, I believe u won't want to suffer here and suffer there too, so be wise, keep struggling and keep praying. God is ever faithful!

Bro, your comment makes it look like I'm making this up to scam people but that's not true. I know it is not everyone that would help but if you know you cant help me.... It would have been nice you encourage me. Anyways thanks

MRONEDAY:



Bro, your comment makes it look like I'm making this up to scam people but that's not true. I know it is not everyone that would help but if you know you cant help me.... It would have been nice you encourage me. Anyways thanks

try to read through again without any form of bias... I simply just gave u a better approach but in a blunt way though

I see no reason you had to open another acc.....are you scared that peepz might know who you are?if you really need that help,go back to ur old acc and open this thread.....u can't just jump on nairaland and open such and u feel peepz will respond positively

step outside the picture your current situation paints right now and you will see ur current issues are surmountable, even minuscule compared with the great life you got ahead of you if only you'd embrace possibilities instead of negativity-thinking and quit the brooding self-desturcitive soliloquiys.

Once heard the story of a fella, who in this type of your situation sat down and dis his own SWOT analysis. It looked so bleak he decided first and foremost to guarantee steady meals and a little t/fare at least to keep life ticking. Hence, he went to look for work as a server-boy in a buka, you're getting the flow of the gist , right?

He would eat there, get paid there, made friends there amongst the customers, cut a distincitvely stylish/bubbly/dependable brand for himself there to the point that, when opportunity arose for the Edo-madam was to travel out to Italy to go meet her oyinbo oil-comp expat lover, he was able to raise venture capital on partnership basis from one of the most affluent clients, who he'd been catering for on the side be4, to buy over the place.

That was the secret of his rise. But, that rise start right from the moment he decided not to get jettisoned offship when bottoms-fell-out; guy, look up, look around and you'll see more you're yet to do, take and make!

And pls, don't scam anybody o; slows ur roll and invites bad karma for you to stay struggling longer. Engage true creativity/sincerity, expect God to fight ur battles or kuku go join evans and wait for your future day of shame, no middle lines!

MRONEDAY:
Please nairalanders, I have to open this new account to ask for help before depression kills me.

The fact that you've opened a new account shows you're neither sincere nor honest, so no one in their right minds will take you seriously.

What are you hiding / afraid of?

If all of us become suicidal every time life throws us a challenge, maybe, just maybe Naija go better for the few brave ones left.

Many jobless Nlders at the jobs/vacancies section but they are still struggling and holding on. No sob story. If I had a job placement or money to dash, OP will be my last choice. The data and time used to compose this story (which might not be true) can be utilized on other positive ventures.

Life's tough, deal with it.

MRONEDAY:
Please nairalanders, I have to open this new account to ask for help before depression kills me.


My name is Chimaobi(not real name), I'm the first child and first son in the family of 7. I graduated from the University last year waiting for NYSC. My parents trained me with their last kobo.


I'm very depressed now, I think I'm becoming suicidal. What I'm going through might not be enough suffering to some people but to me....it seems like the end of world because I'm in a deepest pain that if nobody helps me. It won't end well.


I left village February to Asaba where my immediate younger Sister does sales girl job to see if I can find a job before NYSC NOVEMBER. From then till now... I have not seen a job even if it's 12k so I can manage. I have gone to schools and even hotels here in search of a job no vacancy.



My little sister has been the one feeding us with her 15k monthly salary. All effort to get help from people failed as they keep giving me excuses no matter how hard I tried to explain my predicament to them.


My parents are heavily overburdened by my siblings responsibilities. my mom waybills garri to us from time to time and always tell me to be strong that all shall be well soon and I believe.



Now for one month, my sister has not been paid, we have been borrowing to eat.....life has been hell. my sister has really tried for me. When I was in school she sends me money even from her little earnings.


I think she's now tired because she speaks to me with so much disrespect....hurtful words. I feel so helpless and frustrated now. I smile outside and cry inside almost every time. I'm dying inside.


So many thoughts has been running through my head from killing myself to committing crimes but I don't want to do any of those. I know one day this sufferings will end anyway.



I know things are hard for everyone now....please I really need help. I'm ready to travel any part of the country to work if any is available.
If there's any other way you people can assist me be it financially and words of encouragement I will be more than welcome to have them.


I know Nigerians can fabricate any stories to make sure people part ways with their money but everything I have written is here true. I can provide proof if any need be for it. Please, don't harden your hearts. Save me....give me hope.... Give me life....


This is my phone number: 0909 722 9599


LALASTICLALA  seun  MYD44

YOU ARE A FOKKING SCAMMER!
If not, why are you hiding your identity by opening a new account?
LAZY THIEF... OLE!

ifyalways:
If all of us become suicidal every time life throws us a challenge, maybe, just maybe Naija go better for the few brave ones left.

Many jobless Nlders at the jobs/vacancies section but they are still struggling and holding on. No sob story. If I had a job placement or money to dash, OP will be my last choice. The data and time used to compose this story (which might not be true) can be utilized on other positive ventures.

Life's tough, deal with it.

Ifyalways....u r too tough!!!! But u know what I like ya. U don't mince words.

IdeyFindWife:
step outside the picture your current situation paints right now and you will see ur current issues are surmountable, even minuscule compared with the great life you got ahead of you if only you'd embrace possibilities instead of negativity-thinking and quit the brooding self-desturcitive soliloquiys.

Once heard the story of a fella, who in this type of your situation sat down and dis his own SWOT analysis. It looked so bleak he decided first and foremost to guarantee steady meals and a little t/fare at least to keep life ticking. Hence, he went to look for work as a server-boy in a buka, you're getting the flow of the gist , right?

He would eat there, get paid there, made friends there amongst the customers, cut a distincitvely stylish/bubbly/dependable brand for himself there to the point that, when opportunity arose for the Edo-madam was to travel out to Italy to go meet her oyinbo oil-comp expat lover, he was able to raise venture capital on partnership basis from one of the most affluent clients, who he'd been catering for on the side be4, to buy over the place.

That was the secret of his rise. But, that rise start right from the moment he decided not to get jettisoned offship when bottoms-fell-out; guy, look up, look around and you'll see more you're yet to do, take and make!

And pls, don't scam anybody o; slows ur roll and invites bad karma for you to stay struggling longer. Engage true creativity/sincerity, expect God to fight ur battles or kuku go join evans and wait for your future day of shame, no middle lines!

Chai!! The guy asked for help not grammar na

This is why parents need to instill that manly nature in guys... We really have weak men running around these days. Any little thing they will shout slay queen like they are rubbing shoulders with ladies.... Mtcheeew. I'll train up my kids to b independent ryt from start. Pls parents should give birth to kids they can take care of abeg

ImaIma1:


Chai!! The guy asked for help not grammar na

Sorry ma, as hin say hin be graduate...i come tink say a little "crinkum-crankum-gargantuan-GaGa" is needed in order to catalyze his morosely-oriented temperamental psychology.../sorry, am doing it again/

Nma27:
This is why parents need to instill that manly nature in guys... We really have weak men running around these days. Any little thing they will shout slay queen like they are rubbing shoulders with ladies.... Mtcheeew. I'll train up my kids to b independent ryt from start. Pls parents should give birth to kids they can take care of abeg

Come again?!
Spot On Babe, spot-on!
Not running the dude down but always assuming the worst and getting ready to end-it-all without realizing you have the world at your fingertips is one of the banes of the mollycuddling and softbelly upbringing some of us got. And nothing like crisis, adversity and #daStreetz to clear your doubt on first contact.
But am determined to get my kids hitting-the-ground-running. Yes, we may not be eleumelu's or dangote's. Yes, we may be comfortable enough to have whatever we want, within reasonable bounds, thank God. Yes, you may even see me spending but if you my kid, best believe you are in for some tough lessons; this is Sparta, life on the overall is not a playful joke...and such lessons are best learnt early so that you get to do what you like after having done what is necessary enough to blow!

IdeyFindWife:


Sorry ma, as hin say hin be graduate...i come tink say a little "crinkum-crankum-gargantuan-GaGa" is needed in order to catalyze his morosely-oriented temperamental psychology.../sorry, am doing it again/



Come again?!
Spot On Babe, spot-on!
Not running the dude down but always assuming the worst and getting ready to end-it-all without realizing you have the world at your fingertips is one of the banes of the mollycuddling and softbelly upbringing some of us got. And nothing like crisis, adversity and #daStreetz to clear your doubt on first contact.
But am determined to get my kids hitting-the-ground-running. Yes, we may not be eleumelu's or dangote's. Yes, we may be comfortable enough to have whatever we want, within reasonable bounds, thank God. Yes, you may even see me spending but if you my kid, best believe you are in for some tough lessons; this is Sparta, life on the overall is not a playful joke...and such lessons are best learnt early so that you get to do what you like after having done what is necessary enough to blow!

Good one. You still dey find wife? My cousin is available. A graduate and a nice girl.

A lot of Nigerian parents raise their kids to be timid: to scared to go into the world and mingle. They are too protective when the child is growing up...wanting them to sit at home.
I worked in 2 different places before i went to university. During holidays, i worked also. Before going for service, i worked. I just wanted to have small change and not always asking my parents or older ones for cash. And it also helped build a network of people.
My parents allowed us to mix up with people not protecting us from the world. Parents should learn.

Poster there are many things you can do. Mingle with the right people, package yourself well. God will see you through.

Nma27:
This is why parents need to instill that manly nature in guys... We really have weak men running around these days. Any little thing they will shout slay queen like they are rubbing shoulders with ladies.... Mtcheeew. I'll train up my kids to b independent ryt from start. Pls parents should give birth to kids they can take care of abeg

I do not agree with you @ bold...there's no correlation between poverty and manliness....People don't brag about poverty...enduring poverty does not show that you are manly....The dude is depressed...In a sane world, unemployed youths got paid some stipends...I mean that's where most tax payers money goes to...

Do you know what would have happened to unemployed youths in Australia, US and UK and other parts of European countries if their government ignores them? There are high rate of suicide in some of this nation, so can u imagine when they were unemployed and broke..when a nation got the services of a suicide hotline in place, Does that mean the majority of the citizens are not manly?

What he is passing through is temporal which he will use as a story one day...the funny thing reading this is that he hasn't done NYSC yet and he is like this.... there's still much more waiting period for him.

Richy4:



I do not agree with you @ bold...there's no correlation between poverty and manliness....People don't brag about poverty...enduring poverty does not show that you are manly....The dude is depressed...In a sane world, unemployed youths got paid some stipends...I mean that's where most tax payers money goes to...

Do you know what would have happened to unemployed youths in Australia, US and UK and other parts of European countries if their government ignores them? There are high rate of suicide in some of this nation, so can u imagine when they were unemployed and broke..when a nation got the services of a suicide hotline in place, Does that mean the majority of the citizens are not manly?

What he is passing through is temporal which he will use as a story one day...the funny thing reading this is that he hasn't done NYSC yet and he is like this.... there's still much more waiting period for him.

My dear, I feel he's still sucking from his mum's breasts... Haba! We have Onitsha there, he could easily go to main market to hustle, or buy palm oil from his village and sell in Asaba. Or travel down to Lagos to scot for jobs or Abj to scot for jobs. He could render his service as a waiter at events @5k per event and from there get a better job. Or he could meet a car dealer and negotiate, snap pics of the cars and upload on NL auto section for sale... After d transaction, he gets his commission.

lofty900:
God will definitely see you through. Your case is better, at least ur parents are still alive, what of us that our parents died donkey years ago

Help is on the way. Don't give up