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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by abelokanlawon: 4:57pm On Jul 12, 2017
May b she eat beace wey don sawa
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Freshsnoow2(m): 5:00pm On Jul 12, 2017
Pardon but i have to tell you the truth.. You should run culture test on her.. Her periods ceasing could be a sign of infection.. Both of you should get tested and thank me later.. Don't forget to email me.. So u will connect me Cox I need to get out of nigeria too.. Thanks
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Zizicardo(f): 5:05pm On Jul 12, 2017
desrie:
Are you a magician?yiu have not seen patient to take full history and examine her.Aint you going to send for investigations such as hormonal profile and abdomino-pelvic ultrasound at least?What if the woman is having uterine myoma?Oga abeg take your wife to the hospital for the doctor to see,examine,take detailed history and send for necessary investigations.
. you're very right. but I said pcos coz I've had such experience b4 (exactly d same symptoms). it's better he took her to d hospital
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Laralag: 5:05pm On Jul 12, 2017
It could be symptoms ffrom the drug she is taking to help her fertility. Must fertility drugs or supplements comes with its baggage.
Another reason could be that she needs to detox especially since the last time she was sexually active is abt 3years. N this was after a child.
Also please check for infection like uti. Some sti can delay pregnancy.
N lastly pray. It is God that gives children. Dont get it twisted
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by tee83: 5:07pm On Jul 12, 2017
Zico5:
Op if u won't mind I have a woman in Ibadan along Lagos express road that's very good about woman fertility or any issue relating with women health sickness. All the issue of doctors when we talk of infertility doesn't work at times. u will just continue to waste ur time for nothing sake. if u are ready let me know. The woman is purely on roots and herbs but very efficient. nothing like juju or diabolic issue. God bless.


Please can you give the full address of the woman in Ibadan. Thanks.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by salt1: 5:08pm On Jul 12, 2017
Phantom pregnancy.
Poor woman. I hope you're not leaving her to travel soon
As others have said, go to a gynae let them run some tests. If you go to a teaching hospital, the tests won't be as costly as private hospitals.
Please let her avoid self medication.
Don't complicate your life by getting another woman pregnant.
Good luck

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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by MEGA4BILLION(m): 5:09pm On Jul 12, 2017
Let her go for a scan, her fallopian tube need to be check
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by conscienceman4(m): 5:09pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby:
Hello Doctors in the house. I have a pressing issue that I want the advise of qualified medical practitioners on this great forum on. please, I really need your candid advise on this issue. For the sake of being anonymous, I had to created a new account to post this.

I'm married to the best woman in the world and we are blessed with a baby boy almost 4 years ago. I left the country and didn't return until after 3 years. We are trying to have another baby but it seems not working. We tried everything we could, yet, she cant get pregnant. My wife is very good at calculating her ovulation period and I'm not a 1-minute man either.

Now to what I need the advise on. Since the very first month after I returned, she was having some signs of pregnancy. She gets tired easily, her breasts were tender and each time she wore bra, she complained of discomfort. These are some of the symptoms she had when she was pregnant with our first child. We were happy and waiting on conducting preggy test, hoping for a positive result. Lo and behold, it was negative. We thought maybe it was too early for such test, we did the test again 4 days later, it was still negative. A couple of days later, her menstrual period came. We were devastated but we didn't lose hope.

After her period, we seek a medical advise on how to boost our chances of conceiving and we carried them (advise) out to the letter. Mind you she was still having the symptoms that I described earlier and it even got worse that she started having mild morning sickness. Fast forward, the day she was suppose to see her period came and she didn't see it. We were happy that maybe, God has finally answered our prayer only for her to see blood the following day. The period was heavy and it lasted 7 days, 3 more days than what she normally had. We became worried about the prolonged menstruation and didn't know what to do. Prior to her having the period, for about 3 days, she was having difficulties urinating. Each time she was to urinate, she experiences an excruciating pain inside her vagina for the whole period the urine is coming out and once she's done urinating, the pain stops. It went on like that until the period came and the pains stopped.

Just this month, while the pregnancy symptoms persisted, she had her period again. But this time around, the period was delayed for about 3 days. It came heavy for 2 and half day and then stopped only to return 2 days later with another round of heavy flow which lasted for 1 day. All this period, we kept on carrying out preggy tests, thinking maybe she was pregnant. We just did blood test for pregnancy today and it came out negative as well.

Doctors, please what should we do at this stage?. Its getting out of hand and I just want my wife to be OK. Even if the baby(ies) do(es) not want to come now, all I need right now is to have my wife healthy and confident again.

I know some people will say Nairaland is not a hospital, yes I know but I still want to seek opinion of different people on the issue.

Thanks.

Sorry for the epistle and please pardon my blunders.

Please, can you get a bottle of TREVO for her and end all these imbalances. You will thank me for it later.

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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by amba2017: 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2017
(1)both of you should run infection test, pains urinary track may be sign of infection(2) go and do semen analysis and culture(3) let your wife do hormone profile test. (4)let your wife do a scan for fibroids (5)pray to your God.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Boyooosa(m): 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Before I give my diverse suggestions,

Have you asked yourself the question I want to ask you?
For the 3years you were away from her...who serviced her?
Are you trying to tell me for the 3years nobody treated her sores?
I really doubt that.

Some tribe's deities frown against wife-adultery and offenders are punished with childlessness.
This could be the spiritual cause.

Anxiety could also be a factor....when you are so eager for something; it rarely happens and once you take it off your mind, it comes naturally.
This could be the psychological cause.

It could also be the Lord seeing your future and helping you plan. The country is in a recession, don't you think one child is good enough?
Some people don't even have any. You have one yet you are complaining.
This could be the economical cause.

When you were away from the country were you promiscuous? It's possibly you were and contracted an STI that has made you sterile.
Or you were very rough and have used up your own 15litres of Semen.
This could be the biological and physiological cause.

You can only be sure via one way.
Get a sidechick and see if you are still fertile.
Or get a trusted ally to sleep with your wife when she is most fertile..(the day her 'egg white' is transparent and most stretchy)
Either way, you'd have another child.

What's the fuss anyway? If you're so desperate, you can go to an orphanage and adopt a baby or ask your wife to visit a baby factory at Umungasi in Abia.
This is the logical option.
THIS ONE IS JUST WRITING AS IF HE IS A FARMER OR SOMETHING. WHEN DID HE TELL U DAT HE IS DESPERATE TO HAVE A BABY, FOR HIM TO BE TESTING THIS AND TESTING DAT, THAT YOU ARE TYPING HERE (I NO BLAME YOU SHA, NA THE OP MAKE MISTAKE BY SEEKING UR ADVICE, YOU WEY U DEY WATCH NOLLYWOOD ON YOUTUBE WHEN THE POST CAME IN). HOW CAN YOU MENTION DAT HE SHOULD TEST RUN WITH A SIDE CHICK OR VICE VERSA? DO YOU EVEN KNOW THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE undecided WELL @OP, MY ADVICE IS TO CONSULT A MEDICAL EXPERT ON THIS, NO AMOUNT OF GOOD ADVICE YOU GET HERE, YOU WILL STILL NOT BE SURE OF WHAT TO DO... B4 SOMEBODY GO COM BREAK UR HOME WITH MYOPIC DIRTY ADVICE.

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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Hydrolysis(m): 5:14pm On Jul 12, 2017
I must confess this is bigger than me and what my blog www.myhealthytip.net can proffer solution to. I advice you gat to caste a few devils out somewhere undecided
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Ojoibadan: 5:23pm On Jul 12, 2017
She needs to be seen urgently by a Gynaecologist to exclude PID which if she has, starting when you came back, may be a result of any sexual indiscretion you had while away even if you don't have any symptoms yourself. Urgent attention is needed so that your wife will not end up with long term pelvic pain and possible infertility. Act fast for her to be seen by a proper gynaecologist. If she is confirmed to have PID, you also need proper antibiotic treatment even if you have no symptoms as you will be harbouring infection which you will continue to give her.
All the best.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by hatchy(f): 5:25pm On Jul 12, 2017
Since Nairaland have turned to consulting place for medical solutions, I have a problem too.

My case is that I trek up to 10km daily before taking a Cab to my destination before which I must have eaten about 10 gala on the way.

I need candid advise please.

No insults biko kwa!
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by bimbotua(f): 5:25pm On Jul 12, 2017
this might be the case of pseudocyesis or better still false pregnancy where you have all the symptoms of pregnancy without being pregnant actually... the cause might be psychological-a thing of the mind-maybe you should see a psychologist...
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
conscienceman4:

Please, can you get a bottle of TREVO for her and end all these imbalances. You will thank me for it later.

He won't take you seriously, he thinks you want to sell market.

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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Sterope(f): 5:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
Still wondering why you can't walk into a teaching hospitalundecided
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 12, 2017
The painful urination is usually a sign of an infection, unless she has been having painful sex. Ask her if your thrusting hurts her, might help with the urination if she's not infected.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Sterope(f): 5:35pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby

If it turned out to be sexual indiscretion, don't excuse yourself o. I pray it isn't.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Mouthgag: 5:47pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby:
Hello Doctors in the house. I have a pressing issue that I want the advise of qualified medical practitioners on this great forum on. please, I really need your candid advise on this issue. For the sake of being anonymous, I had to created a new account to post this.

I'm married to the best woman in the world and we are blessed with a baby boy almost 4 years ago. I left the country and didn't return until after 3 years. We are trying to have another baby but it seems not working. We tried everything we could, yet, she cant get pregnant. My wife is very good at calculating her ovulation period and I'm not a 1-minute man either.

Now to what I need the advise on. Since the very first month after I returned, she was having some signs of pregnancy. She gets tired easily, her breasts were tender and each time she wore bra, she complained of discomfort. These are some of the symptoms she had when she was pregnant with our first child. We were happy and waiting on conducting preggy test, hoping for a positive result. Lo and behold, it was negative. We thought maybe it was too early for such test, we did the test again 4 days later, it was still negative. A couple of days later, her menstrual period came. We were devastated but we didn't lose hope.

After her period, we seek a medical advise on how to boost our chances of conceiving and we carried them (advise) out to the letter. Mind you she was still having the symptoms that I described earlier and it even got worse that she started having mild morning sickness. Fast forward, the day she was suppose to see her period came and she didn't see it. We were happy that maybe, God has finally answered our prayer only for her to see blood the following day. The period was heavy and it lasted 7 days, 3 more days than what she normally had. We became worried about the prolonged menstruation and didn't know what to do. Prior to her having the period, for about 3 days, she was having difficulties urinating. Each time she was to urinate, she experiences an excruciating pain inside her vagina for the whole period the urine is coming out and once she's done urinating, the pain stops. It went on like that until the period came and the pains stopped.

Just this month, while the pregnancy symptoms persisted, she had her period again. But this time around, the period was delayed for about 3 days. It came heavy for 2 and half day and then stopped only to return 2 days later with another round of heavy flow which lasted for 1 day. All this period, we kept on carrying out preggy tests, thinking maybe she was pregnant. We just did blood test for pregnancy today and it came out negative as well.

Doctors, please what should we do at this stage?. Its getting out of hand and I just want my wife to be OK. Even if the baby(ies) do(es) not want to come now, all I need right now is to have my wife healthy and confident again.

I know some people will say Nairaland is not a hospital, yes I know but I still want to seek opinion of different people on the issue.

Thanks.

Sorry for the epistle and please pardon my blunders.

You wife may be using birth control pills.....



Thank me later.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby:
Hello Doctors in the house. I have a pressing issue that I want the advise of qualified medical practitioners on this great forum on. please, I really need your candid advise on this issue. For the sake of being anonymous, I had to created a new account to post this.

I'm married to the best woman in the world and we are blessed with a baby boy almost 4 years ago. I left the country and didn't return until after 3 years. We are trying to have another baby but it seems not working. We tried everything we could, yet, she cant get pregnant. My wife is very good at calculating her ovulation period and I'm not a 1-minute man either.

Now to what I need the advise on. Since the very first month after I returned, she was having some signs of pregnancy. She gets tired easily, her breasts were tender and each time she wore bra, she complained of discomfort. These are some of the symptoms she had when she was pregnant with our first child. We were happy and waiting on conducting preggy test, hoping for a positive result. Lo and behold, it was negative. We thought maybe it was too early for such test, we did the test again 4 days later, it was still negative. A couple of days later, her menstrual period came. We were devastated but we didn't lose hope.

After her period, we seek a medical advise on how to boost our chances of conceiving and we carried them (advise) out to the letter. Mind you she was still having the symptoms that I described earlier and it even got worse that she started having mild morning sickness. Fast forward, the day she was suppose to see her period came and she didn't see it. We were happy that maybe, God has finally answered our prayer only for her to see blood the following day. The period was heavy and it lasted 7 days, 3 more days than what she normally had. We became worried about the prolonged menstruation and didn't know what to do. Prior to her having the period, for about 3 days, she was having difficulties urinating. Each time she was to urinate, she experiences an excruciating pain inside her vagina for the whole period the urine is coming out and once she's done urinating, the pain stops. It went on like that until the period came and the pains stopped.

Just this month, while the pregnancy symptoms persisted, she had her period again. But this time around, the period was delayed for about 3 days. It came heavy for 2 and half day and then stopped only to return 2 days later with another round of heavy flow which lasted for 1 day. All this period, we kept on carrying out preggy tests, thinking maybe she was pregnant. We just did blood test for pregnancy today and it came out negative as well.

Doctors, please what should we do at this stage?. Its getting out of hand and I just want my wife to be OK. Even if the baby(ies) do(es) not want to come now, all I need right now is to have my wife healthy and confident again.

I know some people will say Nairaland is not a hospital, yes I know but I still want to seek opinion of different people on the issue.

Thanks.

Sorry for the epistle and please pardon my blunders.


By now you should have taken her to see a doctor! I am sure a scan is important at this stage to see her uterus if at all there was a miscarriage since you said her last flow was heavier and longer.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Zico5(m): 5:56pm On Jul 12, 2017
gazilion:


Op, please be mindful of the advice you get and where you go for help.
Do not complicate issues for yourself.
That's the problem of some of u in Nigeria. u have nothing to offer him I guess but u can discourage him not to take the right step about his life. if the woman die today u will be among the first people to type RIP. I just need to advise u to face ur life and leave the rest to God. I'm a born again christian, a CAC for that matter but I don't joke about my life acting as a dummy literate that knows it all. Ask about mama olomitutu in felele junction Ibadan and see what people will say. God bless
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Tatutu(f): 5:56pm On Jul 12, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Before I give my diverse suggestions,

Have you asked yourself the question I want to ask you?
For the 3years you were away from her...who serviced her?
Are you trying to tell me for the 3years nobody treated her sores?
I really doubt that.

Some tribe's deities frown against wife-adultery and offenders are punished with childlessness.
This could be the spiritual cause.

Anxiety could also be a factor....when you are so eager for something; it rarely happens and once you take it off your mind, it comes naturally.
This could be the psychological cause.

It could also be the Lord seeing your future and helping you plan. The country is in a recession, don't you think one child is good enough?
Some people don't even have any. You have one yet you are complaining.
This could be the economical cause.

When you were away from the country were you promiscuous? It's possibly you were and contracted an STI that has made you sterile.
Or you were very rough and have used up your own 15litres of Semen.
This could be the biological and physiological cause.

You can only be sure via one way.
Get a sidechick and see if you are still fertile.
Or get a trusted ally to sleep with your wife when she is most fertile..(the day her 'egg white' is transparent and most stretchy)
Either way, you'd have another child.

What's the fuss anyway? If you're so desperate, you can go to an orphanage and adopt a baby or ask your wife to visit a baby factory at Umungasi in Abia.
This is the logical option.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by room089: 6:00pm On Jul 12, 2017
Bros, I think her problem is more spiritual than medical. I think she needs prayers and deliverance from able men of God.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Tatutu(f): 6:01pm On Jul 12, 2017
She need to see a gynaecologist for jag to make sure tubes aren't blocked and you need a semen analysis as secondary fertility occurs.Google Endometriosis.Im no Dr but iv seen exactly the same situation occur a few times.
For the individual talking about promiscuity and rubbish,we Nigerians have a long way to go.Tomorrow you will hear it's water spirit husband and jealous people in the village!.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Zico5(m): 6:04pm On Jul 12, 2017
tee83:


Please can you give the full address of the woman in Ibadan. Thanks.
The woman is mama olomitutu at felele junction, Lagos express road in Ibadan. mobile no 08037129523. If by are not a Yoruba man, find somebody that can speak for u very well. Don't hide anything for her, who knows God may help u through her. But call her first before anything. I'm a living testimony from that woman
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Cityguy: 6:05pm On Jul 12, 2017
If her period runs a 28 days circle, you would need more than 2, e, or 7 days to talk of pregnancy. It's only suspected after amenorrhea of 6weeks when there's history of unprotected sex. You also don't need all day sex to be able to impregnate a woman, so this 'one minute man' stuff is irrelevant. Like advised, go see a doctor for hormonals, scans and HVS for microscopy, sensitivity and culture. Those would guide on what next step to take. Calm down, everything will be alright. Stay positive and wish you the very best.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by scentpepper: 6:10pm On Jul 12, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Before I give my diverse suggestions,

Have you asked yourself the question I want to ask you?
For the 3years you were away from her...who serviced her?
Are you trying to tell me for the 3years nobody treated her sores?
I really doubt that.

Some tribe's deities frown against wife-adultery and offenders are punished with childlessness.
This could be the spiritual cause.

Anxiety could also be a factor....when you are so eager for something; it rarely happens and once you take it off your mind, it comes naturally.
This could be the psychological cause.

It could also be the Lord seeing your future and helping you plan. The country is in a recession, don't you think one child is good enough?
Some people don't even have any. You have one yet you are complaining.
This could be the economical cause.

When you were away from the country were you promiscuous? It's possibly you were and contracted an STI that has made you sterile.
Or you were very rough and have used up your own 15litres of Semen.
This could be the biological and physiological cause.

You can only be sure via one way.
Get a sidechick and see if you are still fertile.
Or get a trusted ally to sleep with your wife when she is most fertile..(the day her 'egg white' is transparent and most stretchy)
Either way, you'd have another child.

What's the fuss anyway? If you're so desperate, you can go to an orphanage and adopt a baby or ask your wife to visit a baby factory at Umungasi in Abia.
This is the logical option.
Nwamaaikpe yaff kill me with laughter here grin
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by vickylincon(m): 6:12pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby:
Hello Doctors in the house. I have a pressing issue that I want the advise of qualified medical practitioners on this great forum on. please, I really need your candid advise on this issue. For the sake of being anonymous, I had to created a new account to post this.

I'm married to the best woman in the world and we are blessed with a baby boy almost 4 years ago. I left the country and didn't return until after 3 years. We are trying to have another baby but it seems not working. We tried everything we could, yet, she cant get pregnant. My wife is very good at calculating her ovulation period and I'm not a 1-minute man either.

Now to what I need the advise on. Since the very first month after I returned, she was having some signs of pregnancy. She gets tired easily, her breasts were tender and each time she wore bra, she complained of discomfort. These are some of the symptoms she had when she was pregnant with our first child. We were happy and waiting on conducting preggy test, hoping for a positive result. Lo and behold, it was negative. We thought maybe it was too early for such test, we did the test again 4 days later, it was still negative. A couple of days later, her menstrual period came. We were devastated but we didn't lose hope.

After her period, we seek a medical advise on how to boost our chances of conceiving and we carried them (advise) out to the letter. Mind you she was still having the symptoms that I described earlier and it even got worse that she started having mild morning sickness. Fast forward, the day she was suppose to see her period came and she didn't see it. We were happy that maybe, God has finally answered our prayer only for her to see blood the following day. The period was heavy and it lasted 7 days, 3 more days than what she normally had. We became worried about the prolonged menstruation and didn't know what to do. Prior to her having the period, for about 3 days, she was having difficulties urinating. Each time she was to urinate, she experiences an excruciating pain inside her vagina for the whole period the urine is coming out and once she's done urinating, the pain stops. It went on like that until the period came and the pains stopped.

Just this month, while the pregnancy symptoms persisted, she had her period again. But this time around, the period was delayed for about 3 days. It came heavy for 2 and half day and then stopped only to return 2 days later with another round of heavy flow which lasted for 1 day. All this period, we kept on carrying out preggy tests, thinking maybe she was pregnant. We just did blood test for pregnancy today and it came out negative as well.

Doctors, please what should we do at this stage?. Its getting out of hand and I just want my wife to be OK. Even if the baby(ies) do(es) not want to come now, all I need right now is to have my wife healthy and confident again.

I know some people will say Nairaland is not a hospital, yes I know but I still want to seek opinion of different people on the issue.

Thanks.

Sorry for the epistle and please pardon my blunders.

check doctorshub.com.ng. am sure you will have a sound advice there
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by Odani: 6:14pm On Jul 12, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Before I give my diverse suggestions,

Have you asked yourself the question I want to ask you?
For the 3years you were away from her...who serviced her?
Are you trying to tell me for the 3years nobody treated her sores?
I really doubt that.

Some tribe's deities frown against wife-adultery and offenders are punished with childlessness.
This could be the spiritual cause.

Anxiety could also be a factor....when you are so eager for something; it rarely happens and once you take it off your mind, it comes naturally.
This could be the psychological cause.

It could also be the Lord seeing your future and helping you plan. The country is in a recession, don't you think one child is good enough?
Some people don't even have any. You have one yet you are complaining.
This could be the economical cause.

When you were away from the country were you promiscuous? It's possibly you were and contracted an STI that has made you sterile.
Or you were very rough and have used up your own 15litres of Semen.
This could be the biological and physiological cause.

You can only be sure via one way.
Get a sidechick and see if you are still fertile.
Or get a trusted ally to sleep with your wife when she is most fertile..(the day her 'egg white' is transparent and most stretchy)
Either way, you'd have another child.

What's the fuss anyway? If you're so desperate, you can go to an orphanage and adopt a baby or ask your wife to visit a baby factory at Umungasi in Abia.
This is the logical option.


Must everything be spiritual? Sometimes these are just medicaly related
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by repent4christ: 6:18pm On Jul 12, 2017
Pls sit her down and ask with all seriousness, when you were away for three years did she use birth control pills? If yes why? Let her be sincere, if positive (unfaithfulness), pls forgive, three years is not three days.
Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by InvertedHammer: 6:21pm On Jul 12, 2017
mrhubby:
Hello Doctors in the house. I have a pressing issue that I want the advise of qualified medical practitioners on this great forum on. please, I really need your candid advise on this issue. For the sake of being anonymous, I had to created a new account to post this.

I'm married to the best woman in the world and we are blessed with a baby boy almost 4 years ago. I left the country and didn't return until after 3 years. We are trying to have another baby but it seems not working. We tried everything we could, yet, she cant get pregnant. My wife is very good at calculating her ovulation period and I'm not a 1-minute man either.

Now to what I need the advise on. Since the very first month after I returned, she was having some signs of pregnancy. She gets tired easily, her breasts were tender and each time she wore bra, she complained of discomfort. These are some of the symptoms she had when she was pregnant with our first child. We were happy and waiting on conducting preggy test, hoping for a positive result. Lo and behold, it was negative. We thought maybe it was too early for such test, we did the test again 4 days later, it was still negative. A couple of days later, her menstrual period came. We were devastated but we didn't lose hope.

After her period, we seek a medical advise on how to boost our chances of conceiving and we carried them (advise) out to the letter. Mind you she was still having the symptoms that I described earlier and it even got worse that she started having mild morning sickness. Fast forward, the day she was suppose to see her period came and she didn't see it. We were happy that maybe, God has finally answered our prayer only for her to see blood the following day. The period was heavy and it lasted 7 days, 3 more days than what she normally had. We became worried about the prolonged menstruation and didn't know what to do. Prior to her having the period, for about 3 days, she was having difficulties urinating. Each time she was to urinate, she experiences an excruciating pain inside her vagina for the whole period the urine is coming out and once she's done urinating, the pain stops. It went on like that until the period came and the pains stopped.

Just this month, while the pregnancy symptoms persisted, she had her period again. But this time around, the period was delayed for about 3 days. It came heavy for 2 and half day and then stopped only to return 2 days later with another round of heavy flow which lasted for 1 day. All this period, we kept on carrying out preggy tests, thinking maybe she was pregnant. We just did blood test for pregnancy today and it came out negative as well.

Doctors, please what should we do at this stage?. Its getting out of hand and I just want my wife to be OK. Even if the baby(ies) do(es) not want to come now, all I need right now is to have my wife healthy and confident again.

I know some people will say Nairaland is not a hospital, yes I know but I still want to seek opinion of different people on the issue.

Thanks.

Sorry for the epistle and please pardon my blunders.

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Re: My Wife Has Pregnancy Symptoms But Not Pregnant, What Could Be Wrong With Her? by repent4christ: 6:29pm On Jul 12, 2017
Op I hope during your three years abroad you were faithful? Go for std check if you know what I mean both of you.

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