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Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 4:23pm On Jul 12, 2017
Hi nairalanders,please I need your candid advice on how to solve this issues at hand now,Please insults are not welcome ooo i take God name beg una.Hmmm,okay i went to my guy's shop as usual to discuss business with him and i met one beauriful lady going out of his shop heavily pregnant,I went in there,asked my guy who she is,he told me that d lady normally comes to his shop to beg him for some money for food and i asked him who she is,he said according to d girl,she came from east to work here in lagos and she met a guy and they started dating,along the line she got pregnant for the guy and d guy chased her out and threatened her never in her life to come near him again and since then she has been feeding from hand to mouth.I felt so sorry for this girl and wanted to hear more from her so i asked my guy for her number and he promised to get it from her when next he sees her.Later on,about two weeks my guy called me that the girl is in his shop now so i have to rushed down to his shop to meet her,luckily for me,I met her when she was about going,I stopped her,introduced myself and asked her if she don't mind going to any cool place with me so that we can sit and talk she agreed on the condition that I have to first of all take her to where she will eat,i took her to a restaurant, after eating,we dashed out to one quiet place and i started asking her questions on what happened,she told me same thing as my guy told me but that her main problem is that she dont have anywhere to sleep.she told me that she has been sleeping at anywhere she sees with her seven months pregnant.I almost shed tears seeing such a beautiful young girl at her early 20s suffering like this.I begged her to go back to her village she said no that her parents will kill her,that she knows the kind of people she has especially her elder brother.That day I collected her mother's phone number,lodged her in small cheap hotel for three days,fed her and in fifth day we decided to call her mum and tell her what happened but this girl begged me to tell her mum that am responsible for d pregnancy,that I should tell her mum that am only sending her down so that she will take good care of her till the day i will come and see them because if i dont say this to her mum,she will kill her and out of pity I told her mum as she said and her mum accepted that she should come down.I gave her some money,bought some things for her and she was so happy and next day she travelled down. The problem now is that everyone is now calling me from her side saying they want to hear from their inlaw which is so embarrassing but the girl keep telling me to please play along to avoid problem but her parents now sees me as their inlaw to d extent of sending small thing to them sometimes.please house am very confused here,how can i solve this issue.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Stevengerd(m): 4:32pm On Jul 12, 2017
This Wan Weak Me I Swear!! Bt Dis Ur Epp Go Get Repercussion. Just Use Ur Brain Bro! May God See U Thru.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by LalasticSeun(f): 4:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
Someone should read and summariz for me pleasesad
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by smartty68(m): 4:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
You did what you did to safe her ass from getting kicked by her family! But Bro there's nothing you can do at this juncture because you played along and accepted responsibility out of pity!

If the said girl doesn't know your house then fine you're kinda safe. I'll advise that you change your phone number for the main time.

Cheers
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 4:38pm On Jul 12, 2017
Stevengerd:
This Wan Weak Me I Swear!! Bt Dis Ur Epp Go Get Repercussion. Just Use Ur Brain Bro! May God See U Thru.
Amen bro,I was only trying to help who was in great need.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Homeboiy: 4:39pm On Jul 12, 2017
Chineke eee why u no get sense nah,

A girl.used ur brain, was her brain paining her when she opened leg for the so called guy. what kind of work was she doing in Lagos before the incident?

Bros u don fûck up, better go down to d village and explain things truthfully or u will enter more trouble


Watch as things will unfold when she finally puts to bed

sorry if I sound harsh

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 4:39pm On Jul 12, 2017
LalasticSeun:
Someone should read and summariz for me pleasesad
hey beauty don't be lazy.read
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by awomike4u(m): 4:41pm On Jul 12, 2017
This is too big for me, ELDERS please come and help him.
My only advice for you is to be smart, favour/giving/helping has a limit. All the best sir
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Stevengerd(m): 4:42pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
Amen bro,I was only trying to help who was in great need.
I Knw! You Knw Dis Ur Epp Fit Land U Into Big Problem?
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by yomi007k(m): 4:48pm On Jul 12, 2017
Homeboiy:
Chineke eee why u no get sense nah,

A girl.used ur brain, was her brain paining her when she opened leg for the so called guy. what kind of work was she doing in Lagos before the incident?

Bros u don fûck up, better go down to d village and explain things truthfully or u will enter more trouble


Watch as things will unfold when she finally puts to bed

sorry if I sound harsh
grin

Op don swallow another person bone....
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 4:56pm On Jul 12, 2017
Homeboiy:
Chineke eee why u no get sense nah,

A girl.used ur brain, was her brain paining her when she opened leg for the so called guy. what kind of work was she doing in Lagos before the incident?

Bros u don fûck up, better go down to d village and explain things truthfully or u will enter more trouble


Watch as things will unfold when she finally puts to bed

sorry if I sound harsh
Thanks bro,but my conscience will kill me had it been I didn't help her.she didn't know NY house at all.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Homeboiy: 4:56pm On Jul 12, 2017
yomi007k:
grin
Op don swallow another person bone....
He don enter gbege
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 4:57pm On Jul 12, 2017
awomike4u:
This is too big for me, ELDERS please come and help him.
My only advice for you is to be smart, favour/giving/helping has a limit. All the best sir
OK sir,I will not make the mistakes next time.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by yomi007k(m): 4:59pm On Jul 12, 2017
Homeboiy:


He don enter gbege
grin

He lost his senses after seeing a fine girl, now he will lose his peace n money.....wat a dull boy
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Homeboiy: 4:59pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
Thanks bro,but my conscience will kill me had it been I didn't help her.she didn't know NY house at all.

Iam.not saying u did bad by helping her o BT u shouldn't have accepted being responsible for the pregnancy


Her parents can't kill her because she got pregnant outside

in law oya prepare they go village

one more thing.. why u use ur direct numba call them.

block them now..Their daughter is with them

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by IamLEGEND1: 5:03pm On Jul 12, 2017
pray she doesn't die "mysteriously" during childbirth.
Dem go force you to marry the dead body or you die mysteriously too.
#IgboKwenu
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by tosyne2much(m): 5:05pm On Jul 12, 2017
This one too big for me oooo.. Let the ELDERS come and do justice to the OP's problem
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by ikp120(m): 5:07pm On Jul 12, 2017
Wow!
Well done bro.
Just take up the pregnancy. Go ahead and marry her if you like her.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 5:09pm On Jul 12, 2017
yomi007k:
grin

He lost his senses after seeing a fine girl, now he will lose his peace n money.....wat a dull boy
bro am not dull ok?,she doesn't know my house, she doesn't know anything about me and beside I was only trying to help her.she knows am innocent but out of fear she wants me to just play along till she deliver because of the shame. am planning to even change my sim as the other person said. By Gods grace if she deliver,I will them tell d people what happened. so its now a taboo to help.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 5:13pm On Jul 12, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
pray she doesn't die "mysteriously" during childbirth.

Dem go force you to marry the dead body or you die mysteriously too.

#IgboKwenu
why u get bad mouth like this,I called the mum now and told her everything and she was surprised,she said she will call me back after talking with her daughter.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by ikp120(m): 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
bro am not dull ok?,she doesn't know my house, she doesn't know anything about me and beside I was only trying to help her.she knows am innocent but out of fear she wants me to just play along till she deliver because of the shame. am planning to even change my sim as the other person said. By Gods grace if she deliver,I will them tell d people what happened. so its now a taboo to help.
Bro just relax.

She will deliver in a month and some weeks' time.

What you did is exactly what I would have done, just to make sure she's in safe hands.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 12, 2017
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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by jieta: 6:30pm On Jul 12, 2017
op you have done well, it may sound stupid but you did what you felt was right. you never can tell what that child she is carry will be, just play along GOD will reward you in the long run.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by dayleke: 6:32pm On Jul 12, 2017
OP,
Has the mom cald you back?
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by dayleke: 6:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
How did it go?
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by tifany89(m): 7:02pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
bro am not dull ok?,she doesn't know my house, she doesn't know anything about me and beside I was only trying to help her.she knows am innocent but out of fear she wants me to just play along till she deliver because of the shame. am planning to even change my sim as the other person said. By Gods grace if she deliver,I will them tell d people what happened. so its now a taboo to help.
Bro don't mind these people making rubbish comments. It's a pity how much nairaland has gone to the dogs abi is it monkeys and hyenas lol. anyway you really tried. I mean going all out to help in this country that it's now all about dog eat dog. But like someone commented earlier have u thought of getting closer to her? Seeing she will be delivering soon u can go n see her parents live u promised if u v the means. You convinced her to go home and it wouldn't be fair to abandon her at this critical period of her life. I will advice you finish wat you started.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
why u get bad mouth like this,I called the mum now and told her everything and she was surprised,she said she will call me back after talking with her daughter.
You have a good heart. You did the right thing.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by yomi007k(m): 8:31pm On Jul 12, 2017
Emychina:
bro am not dull ok?,she doesn't know my house, she doesn't know anything about me and beside I was only trying to help her.she knows am innocent but out of fear she wants me to just play along till she deliver because of the shame. am planning to even change my sim as the other person said. By Gods grace if she deliver,I will them tell d people what happened. so its now a taboo to help.

Ur not doing anything but covering up the truth....no matter how hard u try, it will come out.

Carry ds secret in ur heart n ur heart will be heavy or speak d truth..sharp guy.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by MARX77(m): 9:30pm On Jul 12, 2017
See bro before things get out of hand eh,call the girl's mother and explain things to her in a way that her wrath would not fall on d girl.Otherwise wen itz 2 late,u go get pikin by force and it wud be too late 2 deny

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 9:49pm On Jul 12, 2017
MARX77:
See bro before things get out of hand eh,call the girl's mother and explain things to her in a way that her wrath would not fall on d girl.Otherwise wen itz 2 late,u go get pikin by force and it wud be too late 2 deny
Her mother called me dis night and was asking why i did that,i apologized to her,told her the reason why I did that,she told me that she asked her daughter about me and she sworn that she only met me just like that,i was hearing the father talking in d background that he wants to talk with me,he told me that he has never in his life see dis kind of thing but he dont have anything to say but its only God will bless and replenish my pocket.he said he would killed her daughter had it not been d way I played d whole game.he thanked me and hung d phone.yes I don't regret doing it and by d special grace of God I will visit her if she delivered.

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Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by ashewoboy(m): 9:57pm On Jul 12, 2017
LalasticSeun:
Someone should read and summariz for me pleasesad




lalasticlala and Seun in the same name. you should be banned. your name is promoting gay marriage.
Re: Please My Fellow Nairalanders,your Advice Are Needed. by Emychina(m): 9:59pm On Jul 12, 2017
tifany89:

Bro don't mind these people making rubbish comments. It's a pity how much nairaland has gone to the dogs abi is it monkeys and hyenas lol. anyway you really tried. I mean going all out to help in this country that it's now all about dog eat dog. But like someone commented earlier have u thought of getting closer to her? Seeing she will be delivering soon u can go n see her parents live u promised if u v the means. You convinced her to go home and it wouldn't be fair to abandon her at this critical period of her life. I will advice you finish wat you started.
bro by d special grace of God I will go and see her,I won't stop since I have started.let all glory be to God alone.

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