I met a pretty girl about a month and half now..at first she snubs me often, then after somewhile we got along, I do call her almost all time, though she calls but not as I do.. The plane truth is that am madly and deeply in love with her, I want to date her... But she keeps telling me she has a boyfriend and it kills me.. Ive done everything possible to get her off my mind but it just keeps burning around my head and I can't get her off. I just don't want it to affect me in anyway.... How do go about it?..need Ur help.

It has already affected u in so many ways so just keep her in ur mind

Focus on being the next Dangote.

You can't.
Love can be unfair sometimes

falconey:

Have you try hating her?

That's your advice

Op you'll definitely find girl whom you are meant to be with. She's not yours to call

MissRaine69:
You can't.
Love can be unfair sometimes

He can. We aren't even sure if it's love or just lust

I bet if he meets another pretty girl, he'll easily get over her. He only need to meet another. It's that simple

Pray to ur god she breaks up with her bf

lovelygurl:


That's your advice

He said he loves her but can't have her and needs to get her off his mind, i reckon he should try the opposite of "love", just to get her off his mind.

Nma27:
Pray to ur god she breaks up with her bf

Lol what if she does but doesn't like the op like that? who knows mayhap "i have a bf" is her tone for NO I CAN'T DATE YOU, you know girls.

Sometimes I wonder why some guys are so silly.......I just dey vex for you gan!!

She has already told you she has a boyfriend why not leave her alone and respect that.....but no you keep pressurising her to cheat in her boyfriend!!!

It this silly act of some of us that brought us all to the situation we are right now....no relationships last anymore,, marriages keep crashing and cases of divorce her and there!!!

Get it from me, you don't really love the girl you are only infatuated towards her.....Once leaves her boyfriend and you get her laid, you will move to the next one.....shame on you!!

if I may ask, what happened to your girlfriend?....because I know you once sang her like a song as you are singing this one now!!

And again if you were to be the one the girl is currently dating, how will you feel to know another girl is having sleepless night over your baby?? .......remember, one good turn deserves another......If you really love someone, you like the person to be happy..this girl in question is happy with her man as she has already told you.....Pls oga respect that......#tchimanhasspoken

falconey:



Lol what if she does but doesn't like the op like that? who knows mayhap "i have a bf" is her tone for NO I CAN'T DATE YOU, you know girls.

Abi o.. Op should go look for anoda lady

Sometimes I wonder why some guys are so silly.......I just dey vex for you gan!!

She has already told you she has a boyfriend why not leave her alone and respect that.....but no you keep pressurising her to cheat on her boyfriend!!!

It is this silly act of some of us that brought us all to the situation we are right now....no relationships last anymore,, marriages keep crashing and cases of divorce here and there!!!

Get it from me, you don't really love the girl you are only infatuated towards her.....Once she leaves her boyfriend and you get her laid, you will move to the next one.....shame on you!!

if I may ask, what happened to your girlfriend?....because I know you once sang her like a song as you are singing this one now!!

And again if you were to be the one the girl is currently dating, how will you feel to know another guy is having sleepless night over your babe?? .......remember, one good turn deserves another......If you really love someone, you will like the person to be happy..this girl in question is happy with her man as she has already told you.....Pls oga respect that......#tchimanhasspoken

Tchiman:
Sometimes I wonder why some guys are so silly.......I just dey vex for you gan!!

She has already told you she has a boyfriend why not leave her alone and respect that.....but no you keep pressurising her to cheat in her boyfriend!!!

It this silly act of some of us that brought us all to the situation we are right now....no relationships last anymore,, marriages keep crashing and cases of divorce her and there!!!

Get it from me, you don't really love the girl you are only infatuated towards her.....Once leaves her boyfriend and you get her laid, you will move to the next one.....shame on you!!

if I may ask, what happened to your girlfriend?....because I know you once sang her like a song as you are singing this one now!!

And again if you were to be the one the girl is currently dating, how will you feel to know another girl is having sleepless night over your baby?? .......remember, one good turn deserves another......If you really love someone, you like the person to be happy..this girl in question is happy with her man as she has already told you.....Pls oga respect that......#tchimanhasspoken

Bros, relax! This relationship shït is all games. You try your luck, if you win, you serve your term. When contract expires, you find your way

It's left for the girl to keep turning him down. No bad blood

Jacksparr0w1207:
Bros, relax! This relationship shït is all games. You try your luck, if you win, you serve your term. When contract expires, you find your way

It's left for the girl to keep turning him down. No bad blood

Lol.....because you see it as a game that's why relationship ain't lasting anymore...
Maybe one day you will be a victim and you will come here to lament..
Personally, once a girl tells me she has a boyfriend every feeling for here dies a natural death....I feel that's the right thing to do!!.....not pressurising her to quit her present relationship!!....

Bro I am sure when you were younger there was always one thing you always wanted that your parent couldn't get for you
So how did you go about it ?

That is real world bro, you can't always get what you want, you just have to deal with it

Take your mind off her, spend less time thinking about how much you love her and think of something else because clearly you are still thinking about her

Hmmm

Tchiman:


Lol.....because you see it as a game that's why relationship ain't lasting anymore...
Maybe one day you will be a victim and you will come here to lament..
Personally, once a girl tells me she has a boyfriend every feeling for here dies a natural death....I feel that's the right thing to do!!.....not pressurising her to quit her present relationship!!....

Do you realise some girls give the 'I have a boy friend' excuse just to push dudes away? Most times, these girls aren't in any relationship. They just don't know what they want sometimes

I'll give you an instance, I went to the pub last Sunday, met this girl and she told me she doesn't know what she actually want. But she just recently started seeing a guy and the guy seem legit and genuine. she left the pub for the guy's house that night.
Bro, the girl has been on me since then even tho I've been turning her down cuz I later figured she's not the type of girl I can roll with

My point is, sometimes, these girls are in relationship but not fully committed and are always ready to hit on another dude codedly. So as a guy man, you may try your luck. You could be lucky or not

Tchiman:


Lol.....because you see it as a game that's why relationship ain't lasting anymore...
Maybe one day you will be a victim and you will come here to lament..
Personally, once a girl tells me she has a boyfriend every feeling for here dies a natural death....I feel that's the right thing to do!!.....not pressurising her to quit her present relationship!!....

When they become a victim, they'll come here and whine about girls are this and that lmfao

Jacksparr0w1207:
Do you realise some girls give the 'I have a boy friend' excuse just to push dudes away? Most times, these girls aren't in any relationship. They just don't know what they want sometimes

I'll give you an instance, I went to the pub last Sunday, met this girl and she told me she doesn't know what she actually want. But she just recently started seeing a guy and the guy seem legit and genuine. she left the pub for the guy's house that night.
Bro, the girl has been on me since then even tho I've been turning her down cuz I later figured she's not the type of girl I can roll with

My point is, sometimes, these girls are in relationship but not fully committed and are always ready to hit on another dude codedly. So as a guy man, you may try your luck. You could be lucky or not

What makes you think your luck is going to last

Dude relax, time will heal you.

Focus on yourself at the moment and try not to think about her.

lovelygurl:


What makes you think your luck is going to last

lol. It's so simple. With such girl, you don't expect anything to last long. You already know who and what she is; She is what she is, she was what she was and will always be what she is

You're only in it for the temporary benefit. It is what it is

Jacksparr0w1207:
lol. It's so simple. With such girl, you don't expect anything to last long. You already know who and what she is; She is what she is, she was what she was and will always be what she is

You're only in it for the temporary benefit. It is what it is

I see but maybe YOU are the temporary benefit and you don't even know looool


OK just kidding

There's one simple truth I've come to accept in my life: Only a girl can take another girl off your mind.

lovelygurl:


I see but maybe YOU are the temporary benefit and you don't even know looool


OK just kidding

If you say so

I'm sure real Gs' understand my post

iamadonis2:
There's one simple truth I've come to accept in my life: Only a girl can take another girl off your mind.

Not 'Only' but most times, you need a girl to get another one off

Jacksparr0w1207:


Not 'Only' but most times, you need a girl to get another one off

Only

Alcohol? You'd ruined yourself in self-pity.

Money? In a way, yes, but she's pretty much still going to be on your mind.

Another Girl? Do not underestimate the power of your primal biological attraction to the opposite sex, Son.

iamadonis2:



Only

Alcohol? You'd ruined yourself in self-pity.

Money? In a way, yes, but she's pretty much still going to be on your mind.

Another Girl? Do not underestimate the power of your primal biological attraction to the opposite sex, Son.

Son, have you never moved on after a broken relationship without necessarily getting into another one? Dude calm down, I quite agree with you another girl will easily help him move on like I said in my first post on this thread but then, it's not the only way to getting over a girl.

Btw, who mentioned alcohol as an option?

Jacksparr0w1207:
Son, have you never moved on after a broken relationship without necessarily getting into another one? [/b]Dude calm down, I quite agree with you another girl will easily help him move on like I said in my first post on this thread but then, it's not the only way to getting over a girl.

Btw, who mentioned alcohol as an option?

Who said anything about getting into a [b]relationship?

iamadonis2:



Who said anything about getting into a relationship?

go to bed