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My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by tunaguy(m): 7:06pm On Jul 23, 2017
From the look of thing's i need no one to tell me its over, This is my first relationship therefore my first heart break, i never believed such a day would come, if anybody told me this would happen i would stone the person to death ni.. But worse came to worse, and am feeling so much heart ache and emotional trauma
She hasn't even made it official yet maybe she's just feeling guilty.. But deep down have known for more than a month self i just don't know what to do, cause have never been in such a scenario.. Apparently she has a new boy friend she even posted pictures on Facebook gushing about the guy... Am just trying my best to be strong but deep down am feeling so f**ked up... I'll appreciate any advice y'all give. insults are welcomed sef.

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jul 23, 2017
OMG.
Op..what kinna male are you ,Zeta? angry

She has grown tired of you,then dump her ass before she finally spells it out for you. Don't be a friggin pussy. Act like a man ahbeg grin

Don't let one yeye geh break your fragile heart grin

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by pocohantas(f): 7:13pm On Jul 23, 2017
She is already flaunting another guy, and you're asking us for advice.

Advice on what? How to be a backup boyfriend?
Or how to beg her with catarrh falling out of your nose?
What advice?

No be your fault sef, if no be say you see light charge your phone...you won't be on WhatsApp asking the obvious... undecided

See how she is replying in few words, sign of disinterest. You'll be fine jare, we've all been there grin

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by NeeKlaus: 7:13pm On Jul 23, 2017
Lol.. That "Hmmmm" is a very wicked one. sad



Move on,Bruh. There are many fishes in the ocean and many of them are willing to "swim along" with you. Onto the next one.

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by soberdrunk(m): 7:16pm On Jul 23, 2017
Hey yah!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!(sorry i had to laugh)! Welcome to the world son!!! You are now officially a man, now go grab enough bottles of gulder or whatever your poison is, get drunk and forget your sorrow for the next 8-15 hours while your heart becomes harder, reapeat this process a couple of times and in the next 3-15 months the pain will be buried in your heart.


Ps-Next time you meet a woman you like, try not to be all 'clingy' and soft like you obviously were with this one, women tend to walk over the 'Mr Lover lover'! angry angry

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by TrapHedges(m): 7:16pm On Jul 23, 2017
Lol i feel for these folks

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jul 23, 2017
NeeKlaus:
Lol.. That "Hmmmm" is a very wicked one. sad



Move on,Bruh. There are many fishes in the ocean and many of them are willing to "swim along" with you. Onto the next one.
I swear down.

"Hmmmmmm"...mehn, some girls wicked die grin

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by djgrafiti(m): 7:19pm On Jul 23, 2017
tunaguy:
From the look of thing's i need no one to tell me its over, This is my first relationship therefore my first heart break, i never believed such a day would come, if anybody told me this would happen i would stone the person to death ni.. But worse came to worse, and am feeling so much heart ache and emotional trauma
She hasn't even made it official yet maybe she's just feeling guilty.. But deep down have known for more than a month self i just don't know what to do, cause have never been in such a scenario.. Apparently she has a new boy friend she even posted pictures on Facebook gushing about the guy... Am just trying my best to be strong but deep down am feeling so f**ked up... I'll appreciate any advice y'all give. insults are welcomed sef.
If ur first relationship is crashing let it crash,first relationships are based on illusions....u learn from it.

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by chukwui(m): 7:20pm On Jul 23, 2017
Hmmmmm
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by DarkMagic(m): 7:23pm On Jul 23, 2017
Oga...why are u sad because of a girl
If d gal no break up with u..na u go tire for d gal later later
Abeg..fish plenty for river Biko...
Dnt b a slave to d so called love because of a gal.. lipsrsealed
Dump her ass and move ahead

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by NeeKlaus: 7:25pm On Jul 23, 2017
Mariinee:
I swear down.

"Hmmmmmm"...mehn, some girls wicked die grin
And you are not part of them? smiley
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Khallyella(f): 7:26pm On Jul 23, 2017
You could've been pissing her off for a while and she was on a look out for a replacement
Or maybe the new guy knows how to hit the spot and is richer! Whichever way
I can't judge from your own side of the story

If you can dedicate the time you dedicate to overthinking and crying to making money.
You will be successful in life my dear.

And while hoping for the best, be prepared for the worst.

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by SmellingAnus(m): 7:27pm On Jul 23, 2017
It's not your fault that your heart is broken, just make sure not even your future wife will be able to break it again...

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jul 23, 2017
NeeKlaus:

And you are not part of them? smiley
I am not. wink
Textrovert?? Looks like I am a textrovert..hmmm
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jul 23, 2017
Khallyella:
You could've been pissing her off for a while and she was on a look out for a replacement
Or maybe the new guy knows how to hit the spot and is richer! Whichever way
I can't judge from your own side of the story

If you can dedicate the time you dedicate to overthinking and crying to making money.
You will be successful in life my dear.
Really?
So, a guy is not allowed to have emotions again cuz he wants to make money? sad

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Khallyella(f): 7:31pm On Jul 23, 2017
Mariinee:
Really?
So, a guy is not allowed to have emotions again cuz he wants to make money? sad


Simple question..
Who emotions don epp?
You can't be territorial over something that isn't legally yours!

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by tosyne2much(m): 7:33pm On Jul 23, 2017
Eeeehyah.. I really do feel your pain bro. The love is already dead, so there's no need stressing yourself trying to rekindle the love back

Most of us have experienced disappointments like this from ladies quite a few number of times so it doesn't sound strange. However, things like this will only strengthen you as a man

Try to be strong bro

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by VargasVee(m): 7:33pm On Jul 23, 2017
From the way she was texting you can tell she isn't interested again. Maybe it's one of those cases where you ask a girl out numerously and she agrees just for the sake of it. Now she thinks she's entitled to walk all over your feelings.


Stop being a baby about it, man up, life goes on. Most of these girls ain't worth a pound stress.

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jul 23, 2017
Khallyella:



Simple question..
Who emotions don epp?
You can't be territorial over something that isn't legally yours!
Who emotions don epp? Really?
He isn't being territorial, is he? Is being heartbroken being territorial?

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Khallyella(f): 7:40pm On Jul 23, 2017
Mariinee:
Who emotions don epp? Really?
He isn't being territorial, is he? Is being heartbroken being territorial?

He's being territorial, case closed.
I ain't the op
Stop bugging me with questions.
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Ishilove: 7:42pm On Jul 23, 2017
tunaguy:
From the look of thing's i need no one to tell me its over, This is my first relationship therefore my first heart break, i never believed such a day would come, if anybody told me this would happen i would stone the person to death ni.. But worse came to worse, and am feeling so much heart ache and emotional trauma
She hasn't even made it official yet maybe she's just feeling guilty.. But deep down have known for more than a month self i just don't know what to do, cause have never been in such a scenario.. Apparently she has a new boy friend she even posted pictures on Facebook gushing about the guy... Am just trying my best to be strong but deep down am feeling so f**ked up... I'll appreciate any advice y'all give. insults are welcomed sef.
Mscheeeeew. Quit being such a _pussy and let her go. It will hurt for a while but time heals most wounds so you'll survive.
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by NeeKlaus: 7:44pm On Jul 23, 2017
Mariinee:
I am not. wink
Textrovert?? Looks like I am a textrovert..hmmm
So, whatchu saying? You are actually shy in reality?
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jul 23, 2017
Ishilove:

Mscheeeeew. Quit being such a _pussy and let her go. It will hurt for a while but time heals most wounds so you'll survive.
pls how is someone behaving like like _pussy?

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by sauceEEP(m): 7:45pm On Jul 23, 2017
Guy stop chatting, texting, calling her. delete her from all your social media, delete all her pictures on your phone,laptop. Whatever that belongs to her that you have or whatever she bought for you during the course of the relationship burn them all and move on.......

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jul 23, 2017
djgrafiti:
If ur first relationship is crashing let it crash,first relationships are based on illusions ....u learn from it.
Exactly.
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 23, 2017
NeeKlaus:

So, whatchu saying? You are actually shy in reality?
No, I am not. Just with some people sha.
Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jul 23, 2017
sauceEEP:
Guy stop chatting, texting, calling her. delete her from all your social media, delete all her pictures on your phone,laptop. Whatever that belongs to her that you have or whatever she bought for you during the course of the relationship burn them all and move on.......
Buy for him keh? You think say that kind girl go fit buy pesin anything? grin grin

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Re: My First Ever Relationship Is Crashing Need Advice (screenshot) by iphanyi10(m): 7:50pm On Jul 23, 2017
its apparent she is no longer interested...am really sure she wasnt into you in the first place

if not she wouldnt have put the new guy to your face like that...

my advice, be around people that make you happy..do fun stuffs..

believe me in no time she would be past participle..

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