There's this stereotype of "take me out, are you taking me out?, where do we eat out? bla bla bla", by ladies. Is it out of fashion or an offence if a lady took a guy out and treat him to some real good stuff on her own bill? Nawa o! Valentine is here, people should be fair. It's not love if it's not shared.

Will you buy me lunch? She would say. Lol. As if I can't be taken out for one.

It might be out-of fashion cos most of our brothers are plain ol' D.I.C.K.S
They might stu.pidly read meanings to such gestures.To them,it wud readily mean stuffs like "shes getting old and needs a man desperately" or "shes asking me to marry her".

No matter who is to take who out.

i just launched the best answer to that at www.happyfamilykeys..com

Depends on how close u re. Most times i invite oga for lunch or suprise him with a picnic

No, it's not wrong. And there's nothing wrong with it either.

@coolier& aisha: good of u, but it's rare on this half of globe, I love 2 treat a woman to good stuff, but u don't get them to take u out at anytime. Is it d culture or what?

It happens all the time, so it is not wrong

Wat happens all d time?

ifyalways:

It might be out-of fashion cos most of our brothers are plain ol' D.I.C.K.S
They might stu.pidly read meanings to such gestures.To them,it wud readily mean stuffs like "shes getting old and needs a man desperately" or "shes asking me to marry her".

Gbam!

What be this? Ify's thought sounds so cynical, u don't think better meanings could be read into a woman's goodness at all?

Is it wrong if a Guy took a woman out?

That has always been d case.

@Chaircover: Is it not how happy and mutual your relationship has been that'll prompt a guy to fix u a ring? I wonder o!

there absolutely nattin wrong with that. . . .

Even if a lady ask to take me out, I still feel like paying the bill. And its good feeling

The guy should take the initiative for the first few months of the relationship, after which the woman should make occasional efforts to take him out. His birthday, valentines day, your anniversary, that is maximum 3 or 4 times a year, should not be too hard for a woman to do.

I sometimes surprise my husband by taking him out once in a while. He'll do the same too.

If you live around Ketu, Mile 12, Toll Gate, Alapere, Ojota, marrried or engaged (about to wed) here is an opportunity to take your spouse out to a valentine party at my expense. Space is available for only one couple. Party is clean, fun and lots of chopsorganised by a group of God fearing Christians.

For invite, call or text 08034262559

Be ready for them couples. Lol

too many things

Just to add that my invitation expires by midnight Sat. February 13, 2010.

Party venue is ketu, time is Sunday February 14, 2010 by 4.00pm

I am waiting, haven't recieved any call/text yet.