Good pm pals.....

I am having a current problem with my bae, I met the gal wen I relocated to the place am staying now, I asked her out and we started dating, we dated for 3months b4 we started talking abt sex, wen I told her abt us having sex, first of all she told me she was a virgin, later after some week's she later told me she was not a virgin, that she was disflowed by her lesbain gang, I kinda believe her shaa because she is attending a gals sch, well I took it like that and we had our first sex tho her pussy was very tight that I found difficulty penetrating, months later I heard rumours of her past, I heard she slept with a guy she told me was her ex and that she left him because she doesn't like him, according to the news I heard that she was caught having sex with d guy in question by some ppls, wen I ask her abt it she deneyed n later admitted that it was truth, since yesterday she have been begging for my forgiveness, I love this gal so much but she lied to me, this ain't the first time she had lie to me, she even lied to me abt her LGA and so many other tins which I later found out d truth, right now I feel like I av been used n I feel like a fool....pls I need ur advice on wat to do because am thinking of using her carelessly n dumping her because I av lost my trust for her.....

Forgive my English if its not correct, I just need advice cus am losing my mind....

na wa ooo...if u love d girl,den ds isnt a tangible reason to be angry

shege45:
na wa ooo...if u love d girl,den ds isnt a tangible reason to be angry

can u be in a relationship with someone that always lie??

Hmmm,

No1 is perfect tho, but constantly lying to someone is pretty bad.

I don't know how many times she has lied tho, and how many chances u've given her,
I think u should sit her down and tell her the plain truth, if she wants to come clean, let her do soo, if u find out she messes up again, it's over!. U love her so much that's y u want it to work, so let her stop dem lies.

Let's see how it goes from there, no need to use and dump mate, if the relationship no make sense again, walk away.

timsonpreye:
can u be in a relationship with someone that always lie??

Nice question, typical reflection of our relationship with God, Just saying.

Why would you think of using her carelessly and dumping her afterwards, instead of just cutting her loose now? And you claim to love this girl? Some guys don't know the meaning of the word.

You are free to choose your deal breakers, and if lying is one of them for you, then end things with her. Tell her you cannot cope with her consistent lying and you don't see the relationship having any value beyond sex. If she still wants to be fvcking you after that, you can do so in good conscience.

She won't change because you have already created in her the impression that you don’t have issues with her lies.

She will keep on doing it with impunity. Just keep fvcking her while you search for another.

Bro, the only logical thing is just to let her go.

Truss me, there's always gonna be doubts and with those doubts your relationship won't get any better.

The energy and time you'd consume "Using & Dumping" her, why not channel it into something positive. There's a big old world out there.

eyan lion lets the poor girl lie-on joor

timsonpreye:
Good pm pals.....

I am having a current problem with my bae, I met the gal wen I relocated to the place am staying now, I asked her out and we started dating, we dated for 3months b4 we started talking abt sex, wen I told her abt us having sex, first of all she told me she was a virgin, later after some week's she later told me she was not a virgin, that she was disflowed by her lesbain gang, I kinda believe her shaa because she is attending a gals sch, well I took it like that and we had our first sex tho her pussy was very tight that I found difficulty penetrating, months later I heard rumours of her past, I heard she slept with a guy she told me was her ex and that she left him because she doesn't like him, according to the news I heard that she was caught having sex with d guy in question by some ppls, wen I ask her abt it she deneyed n later admitted

everyone has a past including u. if she's ready to change, forgive & push oo since she admitted. God help u!

In whilkalif's voice "The say two wrongs don't make a right". Dude you're talking about her past not present. Asking people about their past is like opening a Pandora's box.

U are loosing u mind abi?

If you don't trust someone there is no relationship.
Lost her virginity to lesbians who have the same reproductive organs she has? Bro are you for real?
What on earth are you doing? She has a past it's either you put up or leave.

yelinco1:

everyone has a past including u. if she's ready to change, forgive & push oo since she admitted. God help u!

thank, I will try to push forward, i just love her...

moorevic:
In whilkalif's voice "The say two wrongs don't make a right". Dude you're talking about her past not present. Asking people about their past is like opening a Pandora's box.

she told me abt her past by her self will, but my question is y did she av to lie, d worst part is that she av always beening lieing

She probably lie about being a girl too. Don't be mumu.

MissRaine69:
If you don't trust someone there is no relationship.
Lost her virginity to lesbians who have the same reproductive organs she has? Bro are you for real?
What on earth are you doing? She has a past it's either you put up or leave.

y must she lie abt her past, y not tell me the truth at least I will understand its in d past

timsonpreye:
she told me abt her past by her self will, but my question is y did she av to lie, d worst part is that she av always beening lieing

She made a mistake at first because any foundation built on a lie(s) will never be strong unless the other has a big heart. Warn her sternly to desist from hiding truth because it might come back to bite her.

She even lied about her LGA..

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You heard this, you heard that, who is your source?

She even lied about her LGA..

Hahahahahahjahahanajajajaajajahhahahahahah
You heard this, you heard that, who is your source?

shege45:
na wa ooo...if u love d girl,den ds isnt a tangible reason to be angry

You never see anything, people get angry for petty reasons in relationships these days talk more of this one.

Maybe na recession cause am .

muller101:
U are loosing u mind abi?

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timsonpreye:
y must she lie abt her past, y not tell me the truth at least I will understand its in d past

The fear of being judged.

MissRaine69:
If you don't trust someone there is no relationship.
Lost her virginity to lesbians who have the same reproductive organs she has? Bro are you for real?
What on earth are you doing? She has a past it's either you put up or leave.

u sef u be Learner? Na cucumber cassava and carrot Dem go use nah

muller101:
u sef u be Learner? Na cucumber cassava and carrot Dem go use nah

I am not stupid. It's the rationale behind the rhetoric.

op run away frm lesbians

the best thing is to just use her.that is the only way u can enjoy ur revenge

Rorachy:
She even lied about her LGA..


Hahahahahahjahahanajajajaajajahhahahahahah

You heard this, you heard that, who is your source?

a gal so close to her family, she's also from her area

Rorachy:
You never see anything, people get angry for petty reasons in relationships these days talk more of this one.

Maybe na recession cause am .

keep saying wat u like, one of my bae type spotted.....

MissRaine69:

The fear of being judged.

y should I judge her, I was not in her past, no one av any rite to judge anybody's past except d person was there....

holyboii:
the best thing is to just use her.that is the only way u can enjoy ur revenge

I love her so much, I can't do that