I know it's late but this issue is pressing to me, There's this girl that It all started for us when I was in the university, We were talking and was about dating but I got suspended and the truth then was that I was so broke and she felt I had nothing to offer or maybe my approach was weird and she felt I just want sex or something so we didn't really date per say. She was with a guy I knew then fast forward to now she just finished service and working and I can't still forget her, she started following me in most of my social media last year and for once I never stooped loving her. For that past year I've tried the best I can to make her see that she's the woman I'd love to call my wife, It's been very difficult getting her attention, I've tried inviting her countless times to my base to no avail and two months ago I went to see her in the state she was working and decided not to drive because of the distance, she only came to my lodge once and it was really cool, the first time that we ever sat down to talk was that day for three or four years.. After that night I felt very happy, then the following day that we were meant to see, I sent her a text for her to take excuse from work the following day so we can hang out as it's weekend and spend more time, guess the text was the catalyst because she switched off her phone, we didn't see for three days till I got mad and decided to come back to my base, all she could do was come to the park before I left that morning. So this is very difficult for me, I wonder what else I have to do to win her, the age gap between us is like five years so think she's matured enough to know what she want.

sometimes I feel maybe she thinks I only want sex from her but which man will want sex from you for years like I don't see girls here or maybe she still looks at me with that uni eye as that stubborn or broke boy then, things have changed very well much for me, I want her to benefit and see that I can take care of her, I saw her phone when I went to see her, her house she was sharing with a friend and some stuffs that she shouldn't be using if she was my woman, I really wish to move on from her but it's been very difficult, I'm very shy reserved and some people think I'm a snub but it's far from that.. I wish some people could give me advice on what to do, I wish to move on or maybe change my approach towards her, I don't think she's in any serious relationship now although she's a very quiet person and keeps to her self a lot, she's even asked me once whether I think she's angel or something. right now my thoughts are scattered and I just don't know what to do, This issue has caused me worries...

*sighs*
U mean for d past 3-4 years no other woman caught ur roving eye Like for real
U sound like an obsessed stalker n maybe daz y she is wary of u!!!
My advice? Get a life...meet new friends/get a new gf sef n forget about her at least for now....when u start behaving like a mumu over a woman n she knows....ur value is reduced to one-quarter of what it used to be...she won't take u serious coz she has ur mumu button

I burst out laughing when I read d 'she even asked me once if she is an angel or something' Egbon!!! U don suffer ooo.....Angel ko.....Angelina ni.....Get ur head outta ur ass n get a life!!!

My 2aliencents

Bro I feel you!!

When a girl plays too hard to get, then it becomes so boring and frustrating.

Try telling her what you want her for a wife and not a girlfriend, if she still refuses to comply, that means she can never be in love with you, so you move on.....

I'm sure there are other girls dying to have your attention , while you are tripping for someone else that doesn't care.....
Such is life!

The fact that you love or think you love a girl does not necessarily mean she should auto love you in return. It does not matter whether she has a big phone or not. Bro take your chances, do you sampling, you have to since you have wasted 3 yrs chasing a shadow that might not be yours. A girl that as any iota of affection for you will not allow you chase her around for a month.

Love as chemistry pls stop slaving to be in love. Not every girl is enticed by money or your sexiness, some just want what they want. If you are truly interested in the girl take your time to study her, stay as friend discover what excites her, discover her weakness use it to your favour which automatically means using her weakness against her. She should come around don't brandish wealth to get a girl because you'd need more wealth to sustain her beside there is a very high degree you are not the richest man wooing her. Learnt the hard way on that. She just might chose to stay classy rejecting gift from prospective admirers, watching to make the right kill. Your long wait might amount to nothing if you can not read BTW the lines. You travelled to meet a girl you admired for 4 yrs no gift, no spark no nothing and you believe all she needs to convince her is your prospect, confession n sweet mouth ?

Do you at this stage not understand there must be a particular reason she did not chose you from the last three years or you believe she as been a saint unto herself all along. I dated a girl who was solely interested in who owns the bank n not in the bank manager so bros work on yourself. You might just be a work in progress or stepping stone compare to her desire in a man. I hope the lady is worth the stress you going through judging from your interest in her. I just hope.

The truth is that sometimes I think she thinks I just wanna sleep with her and bounce and maybe I just wanna get revenge for her attitude few years back that's what I think and trust me me bro I'm not the brokest dude she will ever come across, she doesn't know how much things have changed for me and she's not giving me chance to prove that to her of course I know there will be men maybe richer than me and if so why is she not married... she should be 23 now... okay me going there with no gift might be a mistake but that girl is a strange girl and maybe I'm not the most experienced when it comes to relationship... guy I won't wanna brag about anything here but as a guy and based on a lot of things I think I'm well to do, maybe she doesn't know what because she's not giving me chance to do that...

Can't you see that she is not into you?
Some people can't see the handwriting on the wall.

if u don't want to move on kill yasef

move on

luminouz:
*sighs*
U mean for d past 3-4 years no other woman caught ur roving eye Like for real
U sound like an obsessed stalker n maybe daz y she is wary of u!!!
My advice? Get a life...meet new friends/get a new gf sef n forget about her at least for now....when u start behaving like a mumu over a woman n she knows....ur value is reduced to one-quarter of what it used to be...she won't take u serious coz she has ur mumu button

I burst out laughing when I read d 'she even asked me once if she is an angel or something' Egbon!!! U don suffer ooo.....Angel ko.....Angelina ni.....Get ur head outta ur ass n get a life!!!

My 2aliencents

..

How do you move on?

Well, start by indulging in hobbies, keep your mind busy. Just find a way to distract yourself from her. That is what works for me. If she doesn't love you, there is no much you can do.

Look man, I've been down that road. She'll never text me if I don't text her. Even when I text, her replies are belated, scanty and unlike someone who wants to talk. So I resolved to move on. I put her to a test by not texting for over a month, two months, three months, four months. She never called or texted once to say 'Hi'. And I got my proof. I didn't get the girl but I learnt a valuable lesson first hand. I see a fatal flaw in her, I have not been in love with this person all along. I have been in love with whom I fantasized her to be.

I feel ur pain, I've been there, we all I've been there, even if you are still there, believe me you r hrting urself instead.jst let go she is not the only woman on this planet..... I knw it not easy bt try killing yr feelins.

LEAFLET:
I know it's late but this issue is pressing to me, There's this girl that It all started for us when I was in the university, We were talking and was about dating but I got suspended and the truth then was that I was so broke and she felt I had nothing to offer or maybe my approach was weird and she felt I just want sex or something so we didn't really date per say. She was with a guy I knew then fast forward to now she just finished service and working and I can't still forget her, she started following me in most of my social media last year and for once I never stooped loving her. For that past year I've tried the best I can to make her see that she's the woman I'd love to call my wife, It's been very difficult getting her attention, I've tried inviting her countless times to my base to no avail and two months ago I went to see her in the state she was working and decided not to drive because of the distance, she only came to my lodge once and it was really cool, the first time that we ever sat down to talk was that day for three or four years.. After that night I felt very happy, then the following day that we were meant to see, I sent her a text for her to take excuse from work the following day so we can hang out as it's weekend and spend more time, guess the text was the catalyst because she switched off her phone, we didn't see for three days till I got mad and decided to come back to my base, all she could do was come to the park before I left that morning. So this is very difficult for me, I wonder what else I have to do to win her, the age gap between us is like five years so think she's matured enough to know what she want.

sometimes I feel maybe she thinks I only want sex from her but which man will want sex from you for years like I don't see girls here or maybe she still looks at me with that uni eye as that stubborn or broke boy then, things have changed very well much for me, I want her to benefit and see that I can take care of her, I saw her phone when I went to see her, her house she was sharing with a friend and some stuffs that she shouldn't be using if she was my woman, I really wish to move on from her but it's been very difficult, I'm very shy reserved and some people think I'm a snub but it's far from that.. I wish some people could give me advice on what to do, I wish to move on or maybe change my approach towards her, I don't think she's in any serious relationship now although she's a very quiet person and keeps to her self a lot, she's even asked me once whether I think she's angel or something. right now my thoughts are scattered and I just don't know what to do, This issue has caused me worries...

I had been in such situation. See, the truth is that hanging on to her will make her think she had done a better choice for not dating you. The more you hang on the more she resist you, even though the man in her life might not be as good as you.

Let her go, speaking from experience.
Now here is what you should do. Work hard to find a lady MORE beautiful than her. It will be hard BUT search and keep searching until you find her.

Work HARD to make good money... at least have something that brings in consistent dough such that every year, you would have end up with nothing less than 5M-10M profit in the bank.

I know what you are going through and yeah, mine also thought I just want sex too but before God and Man, I sincerely did love her. She even had to play me just to drive home her point that she doesn't want me.

But knowing who I am at heart and mind,we shall see who will laugh last...

ayokellany:
The fact that you love or think you love a girl does not necessarily mean she should auto love you in return. It does not matter whether she has a big phone or not. Bro take your chances, do you sampling, you have to since you have waste 3 yrs chasing a shadow that might not be yours. A girl that as any iota of affection for you will not allow you chase her around for a month.

Love as chemistry pls should stop slaving to be in love. Not every girl is enticed by money or your sexiness, some just want what they want. If you are truly interested in the girl take your time to study her, stay as friend discover what excites her, discover her weakness use it to your favour which automatically means using her weakness against her. She should come around don't brandish wealth to get a girl because you'd need more wealth to sustain her beside there is a very high degree you are not the richest man wooing her. Learnt the hard way on that. She just might chose to stay classy rejecting gift from prospective admirers, watching to make the right kill. Your long wait might amount to nothing if you can not read BTW the lines. You travelled to meet a girl you admired for 4 yrs no gift, no spark no nothing and you believe all she needs to convince her is your prospect, confession n sweet mouth ?

Do you at this stage not understand there must be a particular reason she did not chose you from the last three years or you believe she as been a saint unto herself all along. I dated a girl who was solely interested in who owns the bank n not in the bank manager so bros work on yourself. You might just be a work in progress or stepping stone compare to her desire in a man. I hope the lady is worth the stress you going through judging from your interest in her. I just hope.

If you even ask her what is the reason and she tells you, you will find out how idiotic she is.

usermane:
How do you love on?

Well, start by indulging in hobbies, keep your mind busy. Just find a way to distract yourself from her. That is what works for me. If she doesn't love you, there is no much you can do.

Look man, I've been down that road. She'll never text me if I don't text her. Even when I text, her replies are belated, scanty and unlike someone who wants to talk. So I resolved to move on. I put her to a test by not texting for over a month, two months, three months, four months. She never called or texted once to say 'Hi'. And I got my proof. I didn't get the girl but I learnt a valuable lesson first hand. I see a fatal flaw in her, I have not been in love with this person all along. I have been in love with whom I fantasized her to be.

Your last line is a kick asss bro. Fantasies lol. Most of what we picture in those ladies who don't love us back do not really exist, in fact, quite the contrary of what we had envisaged, a total mirage. Stay back and watch them without emotions, we will begin to see so much flaws, flaws, ugliness, idiotic tendencies

LEAFLET:
I know it's late but this issue is pressing to me, There's this girl that It all started for us when I was in the university, We were talking and was about dating but I got suspended and the truth then was that I was so broke and she felt I had nothing to offer or maybe my approach was weird and she felt I just want sex or something so we didn't really date per say. She was with a guy I knew then fast forward to now she just finished service and working and I can't still forget her, she started following me in most of my social media last year and for once I never stooped loving her. For that past year I've tried the best I can to make her see that she's the woman I'd love to call my wife, It's been very difficult getting her attention, I've tried inviting her countless times to my base to no avail and two months ago I went to see her in the state she was working and decided not to drive because of the distance, she only came to my lodge once and it was really cool, the first time that we ever sat down to talk was that day for three or four years.. After that night I felt very happy, then the following day that we were meant to see, I sent her a text for her to take excuse from work the following day so we can hang out as it's weekend and spend more time, guess the text was the catalyst because she switched off her phone, we didn't see for three days till I got mad and decided to come back to my base, all she could do was come to the park before I left that morning. So this is very difficult for me, I wonder what else I have to do to win her, the age gap between us is like five years so think she's matured enough to know what she want.

sometimes I feel maybe she thinks I only want sex from her but which man will want sex from you for years like I don't see girls here or maybe she still looks at me with that uni eye as that stubborn or broke boy then, things have changed very well much for me, I want her to benefit and see that I can take care of her, I saw her phone when I went to see her, her house she was sharing with a friend and some stuffs that she shouldn't be using if she was my woman, I really wish to move on from her but it's been very difficult, I'm very shy reserved and some people think I'm a snub but it's far from that.. I wish some people could give me advice on what to do, I wish to move on or maybe change my approach towards her, I don't think she's in any serious relationship now although she's a very quiet person and keeps to her self a lot, she's even asked me once whether I think she's angel or something. right now my thoughts are scattered and I just don't know what to do, This issue has caused me worries...

na sex b d greatest investment a gal can give to a guy


but 4 ur case...u no gt aproaching skills n u no step up ur game....



all niggaz having babe issue check ma SIGNATURE

ooo lord...i cant have moni,n still be thinking jst one girl mata

LEAFLET:
I know it's late but this issue is pressing to me, There's this girl that It all started for us when I was in the university, We were talking and was about dating but I got suspended and the truth then was that I was so broke and she felt I had nothing to offer or maybe my approach was weird and she felt I just want sex or something so we didn't really date per say. She was with a guy I knew then fast forward to now she just finished service and working and I can't still forget her, she started following me in most of my social media last year and for once I never stooped loving her. For that past year I've tried the best I can to make her see that she's the woman I'd love to call my wife, It's been very difficult getting her attention, I've tried inviting her countless times to my base to no avail and two months ago I went to see her in the state she was working and decided not to drive because of the distance, she only came to my lodge once and it was really cool, the first time that we ever sat down to talk was that day for three or four years.. After that night I felt very happy, then the following day that we were meant to see, I sent her a text for her to take excuse from work the following day so we can hang out as it's weekend and spend more time, guess the text was the catalyst because she switched off her phone, we didn't see for three days till I got mad and decided to come back to my base, all she could do was come to the park before I left that morning. So this is very difficult for me, I wonder what else I have to do to win her, the age gap between us is like five years so think she's matured enough to know what she want.

sometimes I feel maybe she thinks I only want sex from her but which man will want sex from you for years like I don't see girls here or maybe she still looks at me with that uni eye as that stubborn or broke boy then, things have changed very well much for me, I want her to benefit and see that I can take care of her, I saw her phone when I went to see her, her house she was sharing with a friend and some stuffs that she shouldn't be using if she was my woman, I really wish to move on from her but it's been very difficult, I'm very shy reserved and some people think I'm a snub but it's far from that.. I wish some people could give me advice on what to do, I wish to move on or maybe change my approach towards her, I don't think she's in any serious relationship now although she's a very quiet person and keeps to her self a lot, she's even asked me once whether I think she's angel or something. right now my thoughts are scattered and I just don't know what to do, This issue has caused me worries...

, bro, to tbh with you I think the girl is not into you.you can see the hand writing clearly on the walls,but you just don't want come in terms with fact.bro. Ladies are very funny and confused atimes. and mind you, not every lady will fall for what you have (material things).let me share with you, I once met a girl who ran from dating me because to her I was not her class ( as in my levels pass her standard) I talked, preached, even step down a bit,but she refused,saying even if she gives in to a relationship, she will always still feel Un equal.another girl I met too was, she can't stand heart break and always living with the feeling of she not having the guarantee of having me only to herself (because of my unseriousness in relationship, ladies & my not too bothered with getting married ). So with all these, I just let these ladies be. And move on.so bro, just free the girl and get your mind occupied with other things or else you become a slave to love.you will surely find someone to love again with time.