Can you date/marry a lady that was divorced with 3 kids (boys) and she is 2 years older than you?...

A friend of mine is confused right now!

He meet a lady 3 weeks ago and had an instant connection (maybe "love at first sight" with her.

He got closer to her and digged into her past life to discovered she was a divorcee with three beautiful boys (5; 7 & 12 years old respectively); though the kids lives presently with the ladies parents but the father of the kids is tending to take them.

She is 2 years older than the guy; but very humble, having a characteristics of a virtues woman. She is so nice to a fault and my dear friend falls deeply for her every day that goes by...

My friend is tending to settle down but kind of confuse if to settle down with her or let the relationship (3 weeks old relationship) go and search for someone else.

She loves him very much as well as my friend!
The question is, could it be a divine connection or derailed connection?

Your candid insults, advice, opinions and suggestions are welcome.
Thanks for your kind gesture!

make ur frnd no deceive himself

You story isn't complete...

1. Why did she divorce her ex-husband? Ask your friend to ask her that question

2. She might be pretentious with her character out of the fact that she needs a man to take care of her 3 children and to also guide them

3. She might have escaped from an abusive relationship: Due to her quest to find a stable well-to-do man in all ramification, she might have settled with her ex-husband knowing fully well he could take care of her and her children because he's got the money only to be married to him and be receiving punches everyday

4. Also, she might have cheated on her ex-husband and bore bastards for him and then got herself thrown out of the house and now she's realized her wrongs and needs a man to settle with desperately for the sake of her children. That explains her good character

Solely my opinion

Wishing him all the best in Advance

your friend should shine his eyes oooo

"Things only experience can teach" T. D Jakes. She is experienced in men's affair. To me, women are like wine, most of them are better with age, that's why our Mums are angels in our eyes? Experience is what is at play. Ask the President of France he will testify that older women are better equipped to handle men then younger ones

SirMichael1:
You story isn't complete...

1. Why did she divorce her ex-husband? Ask your friend to ask her that question

2. She might be pretentious with her character out of the fact that she needs a man to take care of her 3 children and to also guide them

3. She might have escaped from an abusive relationship: Due to her quest to find a stable well-to-do man in all ramification, she might have settled with her ex-husband knowing fully well he could take care of her and her children because he's got the money only to be married to him and be receiving punches everyday

4. Also, she might have cheated on her ex-husband and bore bastards for him and then got herself thrown out of the house and now she's realized her wrongs and needs a man to settle with desperately for the sake of her children. That explains her good character

Solely my opinion

1. Because she encountered domestic violence and infidelity from the husband
2.she is straight and open, she is from a wealthy home and her ex husband is not poor neither.
3. She was sexual abused by the husband severally, especially when he is drunk....in mist of that she received beating always
4.the husband was the first man she ever dated and ended up marrying...
She started with the husband as poor couples, to the point when they started living large.

Marry for kids not for any yet love

I dnt think it's a bad idea if she's sexually attractive to him, and if she is submissive, and nt a liability in all ramifications

3weeks relationship, there's no bond between them yet and if anything should happen the breakup won't have a lasting effect on any. If your friend thinks the baggage is too much he could simply bailout.

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Benita27:
3weeks relationship, there's no bond between them yet and if anything should happen the breakup won't have a lasting effect on any. If your friend thinks the baggage is too much he could simply bailout.

na wa oo

The starting of every relationship is every interesting nd drunk in love. but time is the test of every quality things. if ur friend loves her he can go ahead to marry her but when the her past comes knocking hope he will be able to pay the price.

Before getting hooked with any divorcee, find out what went wrong in their previous marriage, it will save you a lot of stress.