912:


You can say you don't see anything wrong with it and I will agree because that's a personal opinion (which we are all entitled to) but don't say the Bible doesn't condemn it. That's just wrong.
sexual immorality was mentioned over and over in the Bible. And no matter how we like to twist it, masturbation falls into that category. That's why your pastor condemns it. Since you think it isn't sexually immoral to masturbate then try reading your Bible while you do it .

The fact that you masturbate only when you are aroused sexually which is usually with the aid of porn (watching others fornicate) should on its own tell you that it isn't something supported by the Bible.

Yes, every now and then we fall into sin but let's not try and justify it by saying it wasn't explicitly mentioned in the Bible.

Nina4u:
There is not one verse of the Bible that condemns self-stimulation. There is not one that insinuates such a condemnation. Yet, day after day, we hear preachers condemn masturbation as a sin. Their arguments?
There is the argument that sex was created for mutual pleasure: Yes; I agree. Sex was. But masturbation is not sex. It is sexual, and many other things are sexual, but it is not sexual intercourse in itself. Sex is for mutual benefits; masturbation is for personal benefits. Two different things... Almost everybody masturbates, including those people who tell you that it is sinful, dirty, and a bad habit (yes; the hypocrisy is filthy). Most people start masturbating from their teens. Remember wet dreams when you first hit your teens? Usually that’s where it starts. A wet dream is a natural procedure by the body. No; it has nothing to do with witches and wizards or spiritual husbands and wives.... Masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body and continues for the rest of the lives of most people. If you masturbate, you are not an oddity. Actually, its those who claim not to masturbate that are the oddities...

Olanrefront3355:
Oga, Is it your fingering?

bentuzene:

I tire o

912:


Lol. A man can have his Bible open on his bedside and make love to his wife. Or even make love to his wife right after studying the word of God. And guess what, his conscience won't torment him in anyway. He can even say a prayer while he is at it that God should bless them with the fruit of the womb from the very act. This is because it is clear that he is not sinning.

But although I know you won't accept it, the fact remains that when Christians masturbate they deliberately try to block out anything that has to do with God or the Bible. They let the devil convince them that it is ok and it doesn't bother God. They focus their minds on the various acts of fornication (porn) which they can find. And right after they finish and the devil leaves them they are overcome by the feeling of guilt and shame. This is because they have desecrated the temple of the Holy Ghost (1 Cor. 6:18)
"flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body".

Look, I'm not trying to convince you whether masturbation is good or bad (that's for you to decide). I'm only rebuking the claim that the God I serve is not offended by it because he is offended by every form of sexual immorality.

Requiem18:
Jeez....why don't you guys read through first? I'm not judging her na. In fact we talked about it around 4 o clock

Requiem18:
Dude you are not sensible at all..... She does that with me all the time and I do that sometimes. We have an understanding, we are close. You sound like one of those basement dwellers who don't know what a friend is. Gtfo here and educate yourself you vermin

MissJoy29:






Oga, what these people (including me)are trying to tell you is that no matter how close you are with someone, so far as you are not married or in a serious relationship, you should at least respect their privacy. Courtesy demands that. It would have surely saved the both of you this embarrassment you are going through now. What if one of you barges in on the other being intimate with another person? Would you still explain to your partner(who will be very confused & furious at the same time) by telling her, "Never mind. She's my friend & we are close. We don't respect our privacy so we do that all the time"? How do you think she will feel? The fact that you two barge into each other's privacy doesn't make it right. Again, you claim you are close. How come you left her there looking embarrassed & came here to talk about it?You should have talked about it with her right away since you are 'that close' to her..

No hard feelings

ojun50:
Instead of u to stop her nd continue frm were u stop her nd u are hear tell us go back nd finish that job

vicmangs:
Do you know how many demons she she's trying to remove? Lol

Requiem18:
Oi don't say that about my friend.... Demons? Wtf are you smoking bro??

vicmangs:
yeah am smoking love

Istand4justice:



Am ok just giving you advice cos u look beautiful but sex starved

Requiem18:
I hope you aren't one of those stupid "holier than thou" people

Requiem18:
I get you.... And we've set up new rules,its all good now

Nina4u:
98% of gals mastorbate and the other 2% lying lol

rebirthforgoody:







Don't have your time joor.

smartnero24:
I can't get so familiar with a lady that's isn't my type to the point of barging in unannounced to catch her masturbating. If a lady isnt my type our relationship is strictly formal with alot of boundaries not to be crossed.

You that catch your neighboring masturbating and rushed to broadcast on nairaland, I hope she isn't a nairalander make she no go put poison for ur food when you dey sleep.......

marvin902:
oga wetin concern you..
abi you wan join her

Requiem18:
Yes,yes I do

Nina4u:
98% of gals mastorbate and the other 2% lying lol

Nina4u:
There is not one verse of the Bible that condemns self-stimulation. There is not one that insinuates such a condemnation. Yet, day after day, we hear preachers condemn masturbation as a sin. Their arguments?
There is the argument that sex was created for mutual pleasure: Yes; I agree. Sex was. But masturbation is not sex. It is sexual, and many other things are sexual, but it is not sexual intercourse in itself. Sex is for mutual benefits; masturbation is for personal benefits. Two different things... Almost everybody masturbates, including those people who tell you that it is sinful, dirty, and a bad habit (yes; the hypocrisy is filthy). Most people start masturbating from their teens. Remember wet dreams when you first hit your teens? Usually that’s where it starts. A wet dream is a natural procedure by the body. No; it has nothing to do with witches and wizards or spiritual husbands and wives.... Masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body and continues for the rest of the lives of most people. If you masturbate, you are not an oddity. Actually, its those who claim not to masturbate that are the oddities...

Requiem18:
But it wasn't mentioned in the Bible. Normal human beings need sexual relief every now and then. Plus asking someone to whether or not they can read their Bible while masturbating is plain stupid. Can you have sex with your wife while reading a Bible

Requiem18:
I'm confused..... She seemed like all those deeper life girls......