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| I Need Advice by Realali(f): 12:53am On Aug 13, 2017 |
My boyfriend soon to be husband his in club tonight and he never told me he won't be sleeping at home. But now am thinking of fighting her when she come back from club. Please should i fight or leave him alone? Please Advice |
| Re: I Need Advice by baby124: 1:20am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Realali:Don't fight him, talk to him about it. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Advice by Mskrisx(f): 1:30am On Aug 13, 2017 |
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| Re: I Need Advice by coputa(m): 7:06am On Aug 13, 2017 |
If at this stage you are contemplating of fighting your husband to be,then you are not a wife material.You should talk to him,let him know that you are not happy,that's all,it's not a do or die affairs.Them nor dey kill body put.your own na your own 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Advice by johnson232: 7:07am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Lol... This is quite funny... Op did u still fought with him? |
| Re: I Need Advice by CAPSLOCKED: 9:00am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Realali: FIGHT HIM! BEAT HIM, WITH ROD OR WOOD IF THERE'S ANY AVAILABLE. IF YOU'RE NOT STRONG ENOUGH SOUGHT AFTER AN EASIER ALTERNATIVE.... LIKE, POISON HIM. OR SET THE WHOLE HOUSE ON FIRE WHILE HE'S ASLEEP.  |
| Re: I Need Advice by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Is your husband to be a hermaphrodite? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Need Advice by YabaLeftist: 10:11am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Fight him. Make sure you leave him with a swollen mouth and red-eye. |
| Re: I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:44am On Aug 13, 2017 |
this is why i always warn brothas.... THOU SHALL NOT MARRY MAD WOMEN!!!! see as this mad woman is writing rubbish because her man went clubbing. is clubbing illegal where she lives?! is clubbing suddenly forbidden in marriage? is hanging with the guys unacceptable in marriage now?! ARRANT NONSENSE from deluded woman!!! |
| Re: I Need Advice by baby124: 2:08pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:Her issue is that he did not tell her. When you are planning marriage with someone, you owe it to them to let them know your whereabouts. Also, you do have a responsibility to reduce your night outings as so many people now depend on you. Your fiancé/wife and potentially kids. She's not a mad woman, you just don't know how many times he has been doing this behind her back and she's frustrated about it. Fighting him may not mean physical, but a hot argument. There is a time for everything. When you get married or are planning to, it's not every night or weekend you hand out with the boys. If you want to engage in all night and weekend clubbing, stay very single o. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:29pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
baby124: he DID tell her about his whereabout...he is at the CLUB! but then again, when you have a mad woman at home who is ready to fight you for such nonsense, no wonder these men rather sneak to the club than talk to their partner about where they are Also, you do have a responsibility to reduce your night outings as so many people now depend on you.Your fiancé/wife and potentially kids do you mean to say that because a man goes clubbing, he will automatically FAIL in his responsibilities towards his fiancé/wife and potential kids?! do you mean to say that a soon to be married man can NEVER go to outings with his friends again?! She's not a mad woman, you just don't know how many times he has been doing this behind her back and she's frustrated about it. Fighting him may not mean physical, but a hot argument. so you mean to say that, if you have COMMUNICATION issues in your union, beating your partner is a plausible mature option in order to solve the problem?! what about ACCEPTING the fact that this man will go clubbing whether she likes it or not, and NOTHING could change that....has she thought about that instead?! so many women foolishly think they can CHANGE a man after marriage, and FAIL trying to do that. There is a time for everything. When you get married or are planning to, it's not every night or weekend you hand out with the boys. If you want to engage in all night and weekend clubbing, stay very single o. shouldnt you use this same logic in saying to the mad women (dating such men) to MOVE ON with their lives instead of trying to fight these said men?! why doesnt she just move on with her damn life and become single again, instead of wasting time trying to fight this man?! |
| Re: I Need Advice by baby124: 3:24pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:The fact is, there is a time for everything. If you know you have not clubbed and are tired then don't get married. As a married man it is irresponsible to sleep outside your home except when you are traveling. It is also very dangerous. A man with wife and kids or even a wife should not put themselves voluntarily in danger often. At ungodly hours of the night is when most bad things can happen. Why make your significant other have any reason to worry about your whereabouts because of friends that are probably not even loyal? Then she complains and you call her a mad woman. The guys is obviously not mature enough for marriage and still wants to be sleeping out of their home. My advice to the lady is to talk to him and maybe consider moving on if the situation is getting her so upset. This is the reason why women stop their husbands from having single friends when they marry. Priorities and responsibilities change. You can't be a father and be sleeping outside your home. That is a very irresponsible behavior. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Need Advice by darlenese(f): 3:58pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
Op u are not ready for marriage at alllllll, Infact u and ur so called fiance never ripe for marriage. dnt get married yet untill u are physically, emotionally and psychologically ready for marriage, I dnt know your age but like a teenager and your boyfriend is likely to be in his early twenties  |
| Re: I Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:48am On Aug 14, 2017 |
baby124: the man is your BOYFRIEND... take it easy lady!the way you are are ranting about this issue is the reason why so many men go to club, to begin with. you sound like a real nagging controlling suffocating person, thus the reason why a man would need time off from you. As a married man it is irresponsible to sleep outside your home except when you are traveling. It is also very dangerous. A man with wife and kids or even a wife should not put themselves voluntarily in danger often. At ungodly hours of the night is when most bad things can happen. Why make your significant other have any reason to worry about your whereabouts because of friends that are probably not even loyal? he isnt sleeping out, he is CLUBBING, big difference! stop treating this man like a damn child....this man probably has been clubbing many times before, and now that he is dating you, it does NOT make the clubbing act any more dangerous than before. many responsible people go to clubs/parties after dark, and there is nothing wrong with that....you just have to act wisely! Then she complains and you call her a mad woman. The guys is obviously not mature enough for marriage and still wants to be sleeping out of their home. bwaaaaah! you have the audacity to talk about maturity when this mad woman is talking about fighting her partner who went out clubbing?! who do you think is the mature one here ( it certainly aint the mad confrontational woman)? there are ways to solve issues in r/ships but it is fair to say that hoping to change a man is a wrong focus... and fighting such man is an even more deluded focus. My advice to the lady is to talk to him and maybe consider moving on if the situation is getting her so upset. This is the reason why women stop their husbands from having single friends when they marry. Priorities and responsibilities change. You can't be a father and be sleeping outside your home. That is a very irresponsible behavior. arrant nonsense! many married men go to parties and clubs and are perfectly RESPONSIBLE people. it is their INSECURE LOW SELF ESTEEM wives that need to get their act together. if your man need to go out to get his mind on track because of YOU, then so be it. many dread to come home because of the nagging, the BS, the nonsense, the stress that their partner bring to their lives. many men like to hangout with their buddies at clubs etc and sadly, it is because of insecurity that women would frown upon such act. if you cant trust your man, then look within yourself (as YOU are the problem) instead of talking about irrelevant issues such as danger outside. as for stopping a man from having single friends... no wonder so many deluded wives get divorced when you come up with such NONSENSE. so a man has fantastic friends, he get married to you, and suddenly, you as wife will ask him to stop being friends with them because they are single?!?! this is insanity! |
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