Hello guys am just weak here, my babe she is into marketing and her pay is based on how well she markets her company goods, now we are just two months old bt every time she will say help me to buy this and that not that am complaining or things that she is asking for is much, but wehn I have made budget that today na 5k I go spend then she will show up and say can u help me to buy charger, ear fone, or buy ice cream and stuffs and I never said no to any but if I arrange say na 3k I go spend on feeding she go make am like 5k plus her own , she has never asked if I have enough on me , now this morning we were chatting oo, it was normal we called our selves sweet names and then she said I should buy her pad , something I don't know how it looks like, have never seen it before don't even know how much it is and HV NT even bought one for my own sister , as a man I feel lass like a man buying pad for her , I was like she no even fear , if na my wife it's Gona be different story but she telling me is some how I even prefer to give the money to buy it than buying it and giving it to her

Another tale of a boring relationship

purem:
Another tale of a boring relationship

Am tellin u

Mtcheeew.

That's disgusting to say the least. As a man you don't have to step that low all in the name of she is my girlfriend, better give her money to purchase it herself.

purem:
Another tale of a boring relationship

Lolzzz.

Give her the money to purchase the pad herself, unless she's incapacitated. Also, learn to keep to your stated budget and be prudent in your spending.

Dlordsamurai:
I find it extremely ambigious and a cataloquent melamadieous pererelogram and an act of kaka kiki that a lady cant purchase by herself a pad.

Yes! Exactly! Tell him

Any guy who buys his girl sanitary pads unless she is sick should have his man card revoked! You are a man, not a fvcking pussy!

expensiveguyman:
That's disgusting to say the least. As a man you don't have to step that low all in the name of she is my girlfriend, better give her money to purchase it herself.

i dont tink it is for d op to pay bills all d time but there nothing wrong in going 2 a store 2 get pad

where do girls see all these kind of men

A man that thinks less of himself because of sanitary pad.

African men and their problems..

snowflakes can do this and won't see any biggie in it.

he will be the one asking you if he should attach it to your thong. .

A man that cannot have sex with you while you are on your period or buy pad for you is not a man

but op there's something wrong in your relationship, your gf seem like a leech and she's too money conscious, learn to be open with her and communicate how you feel

Dlordsamurai:
I find it extremely ambigious and a cataloquent melamadieous pererelogram and an act of kaka kiki that a lady cant purchase by herself a pad.

What sort of uneccesary English is this? And it isn't even correct.

Wen u want to hv sex with her u wil nt remember to come and ask me weda it is right or wrong
Human beings sef
Wel if u mst knw it is nt wrong to buy pad for her

Help!!!
Is it wrong to be stupid sometimes?

Honestly some thread topics makes me wonder if there is competition for stupid in the Romance Section

In a 2 months relationship? Seems you've just adopted a grown lady.
As for the pad, I don't see as a big deal. As far as you have plans of going to the supermarket for other reasons. Otherwise, she pushing the boundaries, and you need to retrace that.

***anybody who's taking advantage of ur niceness isn't worthy of it. Please be smart.

And what's wrong with that. U can even help her dispose the used ones.

The guy above me though ...lolzzz...

No be yhu dey find gf...deal with.it.. It's yhur responsibility to provide for her needs...

If yhu don't buy pad for her...who will?...

She loves me very much I guess and she is a good Christian , but to me I can't be that low to go and buy it , I rather give her the money, because now she would see I have no way to why thing she request and she will look down on me, if it's my wife I would do anything for her but for GF I would give her the money, I don't know if any one is with me on this

Dlordsamurai:
what makes you think i am wrong?

I would have said you were trying to be funny but you didn't end the senseless English with an emoji, so it's smells of wannabism(wannabe). At least you could have done some research on big words that makes sense. No offense.

Evaberry:

A man that cannot have sex with you while you are on your period or buy pad for you is not a man

OMG... Did you just say this? So as a lady, do you feel alright having sex while on your period? Do you even enjoy such sex?
Pls be informed that having sex while on period have some negative effects especially on the man. One of such effects that I know about is weak erection. Pls desist from such unclean habit. Always hold yourself for the few days of your period. Konji won't kill you.

there's nothing wrong in getting her a pad naaw..you think your ego has been twisted because of that??hell no,,just make the relationship lively...