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| I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Lacrissa: 5:51pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
I've been in a long relationship which he was older and he left me heartbroken. People are saying I'm young and still have time but where's the time? My innocence, those days I was so carefree, never been heartbroken, young are gone. Now I feel like an old woman that justs want to get married, work, instead of me to be enjoying myself. What can I do to change this feeling? |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Kx: 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
Give your life to Christ. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Lacrissa: 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
I am a christian and I strive to do what's right. We all make mistakes. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by pharmking: 5:59pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
21 is no old. Your state of mind makes you old. It's due to the fact that you have been in a long term relationship. You need to give yourself time and get back to better emotions. Take care of yourself and do you only for a moment. You will see that you will feel more proud of yourself and please learn from your mistake. You also feel dirty because you are a christian and you are probably blaming yourself which you should not do. you will find a better person. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Toonice(m): 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
@ Kx, That one no concern you. Busy body |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by ayettymama(f): 6:08pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
loooooooooooool baby gurl ur life has just begun! wat to do at 21!!! what im i sposed to say if ur sayin this? are u career driven?? if so i say u focus on that- everything else shall be added onto u! hang out wiv friends go out and have fun 4get abt men till u find someone else thats suitable |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
ayettymama: x10 Oh [b]we [/b]young women of today, why do we need to rush things  @Post I understand ya, but your life is just beginning  . |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Donvilo(m): 6:18pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
My dear, @ 21. U still hav many things to go through in life. Just focus on what u want to become and u will be suprised as how many other things u never asked for will come to u.  |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by ibgoodnews(m): 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
at a point like this you need to first lean a lesson and wait until you are ready for it. look you are not ready until u are truly ready. dint let any guy deceive you the moment they reach the place they want to escape and taste another one any guy that cannot wait until after marrage let them go, just don't fill old, but make up your mind and i need to say this nobody knows what the guy had turned you to? maybe you are indeed old because of many abortion. but either ways you can start a new life. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Lacrissa: 6:37pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
ibgoodnews: I have never been pregnant neither have I had an abortion. Feeling old mentally and emotionally not necessarily physically. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Spanishfly(f): 12:45am On Feb 18, 2010 |
Just learn from ur mistakes and it's good it happened to u now not when u r 30. It would be fine. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by topup: 1:30am On Feb 18, 2010 |
Lacrissa, oh my, I felt exactly the same (and still do at times), I think there is so much left to do in life though, keep telling yourself that, and hopefully you'll start to believe it. We are too young, as proven by my wonderful parents whose lives are still growing exponentially. I know Nigerians have a mentality of saying there is no other option than to get married as soon as you leave school or hit your twenties, but what ever happened to travelling, and self-discovery. Discovering yourself when you've got a husband and children is not only the way to do things, and it certainly is not the best way. Marriage is for those who feel like they will fornicate and feel they can be strengthened by uniting with another like-minded person. It's not just convinient - because if anything starts to go wrong, you need more to backup your reasons for being together than just sex appeal or age or desperation. When you're 21 and stuck in a dead end marriage, you will then start seeing the decades of life ahead of you - lol. Why not appreciate that now? You must have some hobbies, learn to be lonely, keep yourself occupied, because what if your husband died (God forbid) you would have to be alone sometime in your life, so learn to love yourself, and hopefully - if things are meant to be - you will learn to be able to love someone else and they will learn to love you too. All the best. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Nobody: 9:15am On Feb 18, 2010 |
help me explain to her oo. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Dimka76(m): 9:29am On Feb 18, 2010 |
How old were you when u started dating him ,16? You should be more concerned abt things like self dev, not pinning away. This is your 1st heartbreak abi? Love aint abed of roses, even if it was , roses have their thorns too, so better enjoy your youth while it lasts kid, cos b4 you know its gone and then u will really know how it is to be old. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Vuitton(m): 9:44am On Feb 18, 2010 |
@ Poster U neva holler  Guess the feeling is coming from the depth of the konga  |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by 190: 2:43pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
poster when exactly did u start datin this dude thats making it a long term~ sometin in me tells me u started when u were 12~ tell me im wrong~ |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by r231(m): 2:46pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
190: oh oh maybe 15 or 16 |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Nautillus(m): 2:50pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
You have your whole life ahead of you. . .thats alot trust me |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by muggle(m): 3:48pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
"All is fair in love and war". You need to focus on your life and how you will develop it. It may be easier said than done but it all depends on the kind of person you are. If you av a strong xter then all this will be over and forgotten but if aint, God help you. My advice is for you to toughen yourself up but not to the extent of letting real love pass you by later in life. Life is good. Learn to make yourself happy at every point in time. It is well. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by toosoon(m): 4:52pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
just one fone call to Tunde of "Toonice" and you will forever remain a woman!!!  |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by richard69(m): 5:59pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
Why are you guys feeling for her? She don bleep so tey her toto don old she is now complaining. When those small boiz wanted to show you love u were fronting all in the name of you dating a big boi. God don catch you! |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by cybersleek(m): 6:20pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
Lacrissa, i think at your age, you should still be concerned about enjoying life and its experiences, rather than turning your self into a melancholic woman. Come on girl, life is short. Go out, make new friends, have fun and dont fall mugu again. Some of us have a lot of battle scars to show, but, despite that, life is sweet my dear. |
| Re: I'm 20 Going To 21 And Already Feel Like An Old Woman. by Nobody: 6:23pm On Feb 18, 2010 |
At 21 I was still playing like a little girl. I plan to play till . . . forever. Having a boyfriend ages you quickly than you know. You tend to act more adult-like. If you had given yourself more time, you won't feel old. |
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