Hello nairalanders,

Please permit me not to mention names.

I met this girl about a year n 4 months ago and we became friends and about four months ago we started going outand we were very good n everything was going well for us both till last month when she went for NYSC camping in one of the northern state.

During the first week, we were talking very well on phone mostly at night but after a week she stopped calling me again bit I was still calling her but I noticed she no longer call me by my pet name instead she started calling me my real n most at times she will just pick the call n say hello, so I stopped calling her again till the day she passed out from the camp and she was excited to speak with me on phone n I asked her if she was coming back home, she said no that she will stay in her Aunty's place this was on Thursday, on Saturday morning i saw her cos my shop is very close to her dad's shop I did as if I never saw but she later came to my shop n we greeted.

Now my problem is that since she came back she has not called me for one day only on Tuesday when I told her that day was my project defense, she wished me success n never called again n that same evening I called her n asked her if the is any problem between or if I have done something wrong to hurt her feelings in any way cos I have noticed things are falling apart between us but she said nothing is wrong between us and she apologized to me.

Now she doesn't even want to see me or go out with or even engage in any discussion with, please I really need your advice on this issue cos many things are really running through my mind n I have been so tensed still she came back.

Thanks in anticipation

The very moment she went for NYSC... your status changed from Boyfriend to Ex-boyfriend.
I will advise you to quietly move on with your life,and never you give your heart to any daughter of Eve.

She's silently drifting away. Give her space, stop doing all you've been doing like the attention you give, and watch if she comes back. Meanwhile, keep an open mind to accept the worse that could happen.

Oga move ahead is almost a year nd stop wasting time. Get another serious girl

kimbraa:
She's silently drifting away. Give her space, stop doing all you've been doing like the attention you give, and watch if she comes back. Meanwhile, keep an open mind to accept the worse that could happen.

Thank you kimbraa, am really trying my best to adjust to the new developments but my problem is, I have been asking her what the problem is but she keeps me in the dark n that is where my worry is

Princegado1:


Thank you kimbr.aa, am really trying my best to adjust to the new developments but my problem is, I have been asking her what the problem is but she keeps me in the dark n that is where my worry is

There's no point in worrying in a lost cause. If I were you, I would start getting over her.

ojun50:
Oga move ahead is almost a year nd stop wasting time. Get another serious girl

Thank you ojun50, but is not up to a year just between July n this present August

Broh she she has stop loving you, just move on with your life.

Gone with d wind bro..

eezeribe:
The very moment she went for NYSC... your status changed from Boyfriend to Ex-boyfriend.
I will advise you to quietly move on with your life,and never you give your heart to any daughter of Eve.

Thank you but I am really confused n just want to know what went wrong between us n nothing more

The only advice you need now is to move on with your life.

sorry bro,d chick z gone cos 1soldier done go shine her shoe for camp wiv reckless abandon n now she don't want u no more.... Nigga just move d phuck on...

These hoes aiint loyal man

dump her wh..ore ass before she does you fam

and never i repeat never you beg her or any shiiii of that sort

One nysc dude is shinning her conga there, just forget about her.

Headlesschicken:
sorry bro,d chick z gone cos 1soldier done go shine her shoe for camp wiv reckless abandon n now she don't want u no more.... Nigga just move d phuck on...

Thank you headlesschicken, but that's the lest of my worries cos I have not had sex with her but my problemfor to tell me what's really going on between us. Whether we are still together or not

Princegado1:


Thank you ojun50, but is not up to a year just between July n this present August

still move ahead don't any lady slow u down because one fuc kin love.

Queenbeee:
One nysc dude is shinning her conga there, just forget about her.

Thank you Queenbee
My only worry is for her to tell me what's really going on whether we are still together or not but she keep avoiding this particular question

Dude pls move on.......get a serious gal...shes not into u anymore...
Let her go. Stop the calls, text, etc just leave her. If u see her along the street or she come visiting be platonic...be casual just relate with her on a friendly basic move on. U need a gal who loves u in return

Princegado1:


Thank you Queenbee
My only worry is for her to tell me what's really going on whether we are still together or not but she keep avoiding this particular question

I guess you're one of those sensitive dudes, just forget her and move on with your life. She might not tell you anything, she might just keep stringing you, keeping you as her fall back plan. Just focus on your work and forget any girl that's not ready to take you serious.

mimopel:
Dude pls move on.......get a serious gal...shes not into u anymore...
Let her go. Stop the calls, text, etc just leave her. If u see her along the street or she come visiting be platonic...be casual just relate with her on a friendly basic move on. U need a gal who loves u in return

Thank you mimopel

Will do that am really grateful

Queenbeee:


I guess you're one of those sensitive dudes, just forget her and move on with your life. She might not tell you anything, she might just keep stringing you, keeping you as her fall back plan. Just focus on your work and forget any girl that's not ready to take you serious.

Thank you Queenbee

Am really grateful

Princegado1:


Thank you Queenbee

Am really grateful

Uwc

IamLEGEND1:
bitch_done acquired a taste for aboki_package.
And like dem wise men said: once you go aboki, you never go back.

Thank you iamlegend1

You are really a funny dude

Walk with the wind, and you shall never lack. That has always bin my life principles and guidance.

MissCokie:
Walk with the wind, and you shall never lack. That has always bin my life principles and guidance.

Thank you Misscokie

Princegado1:


Thank you Misscokie

Welcome dear.

My brother I was in same situation as yours. Let her go though might not be easy but the fact is what's yours will be yours...bye for now

Queenbeee:


I guess you're one of those sensitive dudes, just forget her and move on with your life. She might not tell you anything, she might just keep stringing you, keeping you as her fall back plan. Just focus on your work and forget any girl that's not ready to take you serious.

bro u r 3 much....base on my personal experience I was used as a fall back plan

the reason i stop advising people here is that all the advice are never been used. they will still do whats on their mind. it's more like wasting time. so i will pass.

Bros just flaut with a girl more beautiful than her and make sure she sees u with her.her brain go factory reset.
And don't give her attention again I promise u she will come back...u can thank me later

Peteragan:
Bros just flaut with a girl more beautiful than her and make sure she sees u with her.her brain go factory reset.
And don't give her attention again I promise u she will come back...u can thank me later

Thank you bro