ecoeco:
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Dis looks like d case of portifas wife and Joseph but dis time around Joseph did it nd portifas wife still reported him

#Eco99#

tevinsolt:


If they had a thing why would she report the case to her husband?
why would physical symptoms of trauma be stated in the write up if it was consensual? I'm sorry dude that is an irresponsible and dumb assumption.

holysainbj:

She was raped, why won't she report?
So you never seen a case of a boyfriend raping the girlfriend?
I think you are the one who is immature but I perfectly understand, we reason within the confines of our knowledge.
Now don't do the dude thing again, dont drag me to the boy zone.

majamajic:
There's more to this story ....

Why she choose when the husband travelled to go for the clipper?

Why bassey said he will tell what really happened if he is rearrested ?

Is not that easy to rape a grown up woman if properly dressed, without a deadly weapon

Why she waited for a whole 2 weeks to complain to anyone ? Why not report to police immediately or at least inform the husband on the phone. She wait till the thing leaked she now have to tell the husband first when he arrived, to cover up

In all I blame the woman

nickxtra:
The woman only reported this to the Police because the guy in issue revealed to people and the whole street became aware of the affair, and she became ashamed of herself in the street which she could no longer bear, hence her report to the police not because of the purported rape, but because Bassey did not keep the affair secret.

majamajic:
There's more to this story ....

Why she choose when the husband travelled to go for the clipper?

Why bassey said he will tell what really happened if he is rearrested ?

Is not that easy to rape a grown up woman if properly dressed, without a deadly weapon

Why she waited for a whole 2 weeks to complain to anyone ? Why not report to police immediately or at least inform the husband on the phone. She wait till the thing leaked she now have to tell the husband first when he arrived, to cover up

In all I blame the woman

NwaObinkita:



Endtime wife; this story get K-Leg!!

She got what she wanted.
I keep saying it, "Na only preek dey make woman find man go im house."
Why will a woman visit a man if not for preek hunger?

You

1).Why didn't she send her husband to collect the clipper back?

2).Why didn't she send one of her three children?

3.)What took her to the barbers house; maybe she wanted him to shave her pubic hair?

4).Why didn't she wait outside?
I pity the fools who will believe her half-cooked story.

I keep telling all my female friends, don't come to visit me if you don't have any sexual intentions.

You can't come to my house to drink malt and watch Telemundo. There is something I have that you don't have; something that brought you, which is the preek.

Besides if a woman visits you and you don't make any sexual attempt on her, she'd tell the world that either you are a sissy or you are gay.

tevinsolt:


I'll give you stats real quick. just in the UK

"83 per cent of women who had been raped or sexually assaulted failed to report it to police, 29 per cent did not even tell friends or family what had happened. Overall about half said they would be too embarrassed or ashamed of the incident to admit it but two-thirds said they would hesitate because of low conviction rates."

this is a country where law enforcement and court system works relatively better than Nigeria's and you have these astronomical numbers

Bro ask yourself.......are you part of the group propagating the silence of victims because they know even when they report their case they won't be believed?

Robbery is not the same as rape....concept is similar but not the same.

Nanjerian:
I have one thing to say,one man cannot rape a woman,i repeat,a woman not a girl... so,the boy pushed her inside... Okay,pushing a woman into a room is now like switching a socket on right Now,don't get it twisted,she said the guys tore her dress and underwear,where was this woman Now,lets proceed to the rape proper. So,its this easy to insert an erect penis in between a woman's legs News.... She said something like,when he was done raping her... My God,when the guy was thrusting,where was this woman that the guy got the so-called chance to FINISH raping her? So,this story sha,in summary, something like this happened about 8yrs ago in my place... in that case,it became rape after the woman and the guy where caught in the very act.We all read on this forum that a woman was moaning out of pleasure when robbers attacked her house and decided to rape the wife,the husband overheard her moans and it lead to a divorce after the incident. Forget a woman,all cases of rape are cases of sex until proven otherwise.

tevinsolt:


If you're not a dude you must be a girl then, sorry my bad. back to what I was saying

stop contradicting yourself. At first you said "but you don't just rape a married woman you've known forever." which is false by the way, ignorance is a choice in the 21st century. Most females are sexually molested and assaulted by a known person. starting with minors to adults

and then you later said "So you never seen a case of a boyfriend raping the girlfriend?" - completely agree a boyfriend can rape his girlfriend, a husband his wife as well.

Fearlez:
Prosecutor took bribe and compromised the case. Nigeria police are the disgrace of Africa.

The victim was only a witness to the case as it is a criminal matter. Without the prosecutor who represents the state , the court would never had struck the case off. What a worthless country we live in.

The woman raped is an imbecilé still. A mother of 4 still following a male to his house to retrieve clippers. Not even teenage girls are that naive.

She's looking for that fúck or she's a bastard unfit to raise children.

Rilwayne001:


On the other hand, you are the one that seem to be propagating silence of rape victim. By quoting even the stats to justify the woman's foolishness shows you want those rapists to always go Scot free.

Seriously we should be creating awareness for them to always speak out whenever they fall victim. They shouldn't be ashamed for anything as long as the want justice. It is only when they don't want justice that they should reluctant. They shouldn't be afraid to walk up to the police station to report, whether or not they will take action, they should report. Or better yet they should get a human right lawyer or even any trustworthy lawyer. There should be no reason for any delay In reporting because it's more like one is giving the rapist the liberty to walk Scot free.

And besides don't you think if victim are unwilling to talk, it is more like they are giving the rapists the audacity to continue their despicable act since they know none of the victims will talk? Anybody can fall victim. Even daughters or family of the victims.

Being ashamed to talk should not be an excuse for the woman's foolish to wait two weeks for her husband to return before reporting. Infact if the story was actually true, that two weeks can render it false.



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Rilwayne001:


On the other hand, you are the one that seem to be propagating silence of rape victim. By quoting even the stats to justify the woman's foolishness shows you want those rapists to always go Scot free.

Seriously we should be creating awareness for them to always speak out whenever they fall victim. They shouldn't be ashamed for anything as long as the want justice. It is only when they don't want justice that they should reluctant. They shouldn't be afraid to walk up to the police station to report, whether or not they will take action, they should report. Or better yet they should get a human right lawyer or even any trustworthy lawyer. There should be no reason for any delay In reporting because it's more like one is giving the rapist the liberty to walk Scot free.

And besides don't you think if victim are unwilling to talk, it is more like they are giving the rapists the audacity to continue their despicable act since they know none of the victims will talk? Anybody can fall victim. Even daughters or family of the victims.

Being ashamed to talk should not be an excuse for the woman's foolish to wait two weeks for her husband to return before reporting. Infact if the story was actually true, that two weeks can render it false.



Ok

Proudlyngwa:


Have you ever had about the word trust, it is built over time and it can be wrong.
We might not know the reality story, but if this woman's story is true. She has no fault.

Fearlez:
It was a stupid trust. It shows if she had a daughter, she would have equally sent her to his house to retrieve the clippers.

I really want to know her age. A clipper that's supposed to be used in the barber's shop was said to be in his house. What happened to asking him to bring it the next day to the shop so she might pick it up there?

She had to go to the shop and followed this young man to his compound right to his doorsteps to retrieve her husband's clippers?

What imbecility !!!

Even if she wasn't bleeped there, I think the husband would've raised an eyebrow if he saw her coming from the barber's house with the excuse she went to retrieve clippers.

What stupidity!

Proudlyngwa:


Some people prefer to bear their emotional scars alone.
Hope this woman does not commit suicide because of people calling her basseys wife.

NwaObinkita:



Endtime wife; this story get K-Leg!!

She got what she wanted.
I keep saying it, "Na only preek dey make woman find man go im house."
Why will a woman visit a man if not for preek hunger?

1).Why didn't she send her husband to collect the clipper back?

2).Why didn't she send one of her three children?

3.)What took her to the barbers house; maybe she wanted him to shave her pubic hair?

4).Why didn't she wait outside?
I pity the fools who will believe her half-cooked story.

I keep telling all my female friends, don't come to visit me if you don't have any sexual intentions.

You can't come to my house to drink malt and watch Telemundo. There is something I have that you don't have; something that brought you, which is the preek.

Besides if a woman visits you and you don't make any sexual attempt on her, she'd tell the world that either you are a sissy or you are gay.

tevinsolt:



if that's what you got from the post. Wow!!

you want the victims to report as soon as possible, but if they don't and lets say it did actually happen.....calling the victim foolish works according to your logic, it helps them to come out and report to the police. And two weeks renders the allegation false?

being ashamed is not an excuse for you......but don't come here to start dictating how someone reacts and feels after going through a traumatizing experience. For someone who just had their space invaded, they should be given the opportunity to be comfortable to open up and believe them and follow through with an investigation.

the opposite of what you have done here. That how you get them to talk. The stats is the reality but if you like you can choose to live in an alternate reality where insulting the alleged victim right off the bat is the best way to combat rape.

Rilwayne001:


Bearing their emotional scars alone is dangerous for them and for others. If the stupid rapists gets punished for his acts, it will atleast reduce the scars, don't you think?

Adegbenro7643:
Tufiakwa I believe d story.

I can't judge unless I hear both sides coz it might not really be wot we are expected 2 call it.



#300K for cleansing ritual,,,,business is involved.
If d ritual part was real, d elders in village would be like,"gods av finally brought dis stingy son home".

To my pple, the word 'tufiakwa as used above means 'God forbid'.

Proudlyngwa:


It is unfortunate what the world has become and it will become worse with such mindsets.
Waow, I just got shocked by what you typed, for Christ sake, this is a mother of four who has known someone for years, overtime people stop becoming neighbors and become families.
I have people who leave their kids with me, when I was not married.
Married women come to my house to take things, Jesus Christ, I really need to sit my wife down and talk to her, as I am rarely @ home. Where is the love brother, if a married woman cannot harmlessly Vist a neighbor at home.
I can only fear for what my mother or sister who are loving and over trusting people might go through.

ecoeco:
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Dis looks like d case of portifas wife and Joseph but dis time around Joseph did it nd portifas wife still reported him

#Eco99#

charleff512:
The Woman Would Have Done Something To Warrant The Fool Of A Bassey To Nurse The Ambition Of Bedding Her.Married Women Should Earn Respect From The Opposite Sex By Their Actions And Inactions.This Case Has Been Seriously Compromised.The Guy Below Me Opinion Is Like A Nose And Every One Has One.The Beauty Of Nairaland Is Diversity Of Reasonings On A Matter.Learn To Be Civil On A Public Forum!