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Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by truegossip(f): 2:10pm On Sep 06, 2017
This question is one of those questions Guys take a lot of time thinking about if asked
But here is my opinion

1. They’re less likely to rush into things
When I say “ain’t nobody got time for that”, I could not mean it more literally: ain’t no single parent got time for rushing into poo.



2. Their purses are like survival kits
There is nothing I don’t have in my bag. No, don’t ever look in there – just tell me what you need. I’ll make it happen.

3. They’re dynamite in bed
I think we can all agree, no matter what kind of weird bedroom stuff does it for you, the most universally sexy quality in a person is confidence and openness. And single moms have both in a more pronounced way than just about any other group of women. There is a very specific kind of body confidence that can only be earned by seeing your body go through some seemingly impossible challenges and come out on the other side just as strong and beautiful and sexy as before



4. They know what makes a relationship work
There are a million different paths by which someone can end up a single parent. But for most of them, it involves experiences that taught them a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work, or can render it completely broken. Just having a child at all teaches you, Holy Bleep,
everything about human connections and interactions and how to be healthy, generous but also self-preserving, committed and flexible for the sake of making a relationship last in a long-term way with another person.

Lastly

They understand selflessness
I mean, that doesn’t mean every single parent you date is going to be selfless with
you, but chances are, they are at least capable of it, and very few people genuinely are.

Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Florblu(f): 2:13pm On Sep 06, 2017
Yinmu

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Amajerry83(m): 2:15pm On Sep 06, 2017
Yes I can and I did. My wife used to be a single mother when we met. We are married now with 4 kids excluding the first she had for another man. Her previous relationship came to an end after she found out the guy who proposed to her and even did an introduction had a wife and 2 kids without telling her. We got married 2009 and have been living from grace to grace. She is the best woman I have ever met.

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 06, 2017
Instead of you to jus open up & tell us you need a Dad for your kid and we can help you create an ad in the Romance section, you are here lyin' upandan with your cock & bull list & stories...

Shioor

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 06, 2017
My love for young single mums tho. grin
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by austine4real(m): 9:04pm On Sep 06, 2017
Can u fvck a single mum?


That's my answer





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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Nobody: 9:07pm On Sep 06, 2017
Amajerry83:
Yes I can and I did. My wife used to be a single mother when we met. We are married now with 4 kids excluding the first she had for another man. Her previous relationship came to an end after she found out the guy who proposed to her and even did an introduction had a wife and 2 kids without telling her. We got married 2009 and have been living from grace to grace. She is the best woman I have ever met.

Congrats sir, I wish you more success in your marriage IJN

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by oilcity(m): 10:09pm On Sep 06, 2017
Sure I can.. But she must not have more Dan one child. If she has all d qualities I need in a woman I can marry her.

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 06, 2017
oilcity:
Sure I can.. But she must not have more Dan one child. If she has all d qualities I need in a woman I can marry her.

Qualities like what Sir?

Can you please mention them?
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Amajerry83(m): 11:36pm On Sep 06, 2017
Thanks bro

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Congrats sir, I wish you more success in your marriage IJN[/quote]
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by 1Sharon(f): 2:24am On Sep 07, 2017
No one ever talks about single fathers. Some of us have been approached by men with kids too you know

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Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by sconp: 10:51am On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:
No one ever talks about single fathers. Some of us have been approached by men with kids too you know

Then create the thread!
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:32am On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:
No one ever talks about single fathers. Some of us have been approached by men with kids too you know
so you noticed.
The topic should be " can you marry a single parent? But they are her talking about women as if is a bad thing to have a child. Children are blessing from God
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:33am On Sep 07, 2017
Marriage no but as a baby mama or a surrogate yes.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 1:33pm On Sep 07, 2017
MISSCONGENIALITY:
so you noticed.
The topic should be " can you marry a single parent? But they are her talking about women as if is a bad thing to have a child. Children are blessing from God
The bold sentence is an emotional trick though.


Can you be someone's second wife? If you can, then the men should be able to marry a single mother.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 07, 2017
Yes I can, I very well can. Ain't nothing bad in being a single parent, anyone can be in those shoes.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:41pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

The bold sentence is an emotional trick though.


Can you be someone's second wife? If you can, then the men should be able to marry a single mother.
can be a second wife if he's divorced or the first wife is late.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 4:58pm On Sep 07, 2017
MISSCONGENIALITY:
can be a second wife if he's divorced or the first wife is late.
Lol. Then the guys can be the husband if the father of the child is dead or does not want the child and the woman is legally divorced.

Funny anyway.
But it depends on what people want. Personally, I can't marry a single mother, but there are people who can do that and its their call to make. Some ladies can't marry a divorced man too. So it depends on our emotions.

This issue can't be reversed back to mean the same and equivalent.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 4:59pm On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:
No one ever talks about single fathers. Some of us have been approached by men with kids too you know
Its your call to make. It depends on what you want. There are single fathers too. But when taking the decision, remember that the children may one day bring their mother into the home. You must think about it.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by 1Sharon(f): 5:00pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

Its your call to make. It depends on what you want. There are single fathers too. But when taking the decision, remember that the children may one day bring their mother into the home. You must think about it.


Bring their mother into the home, what do you mean?
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 5:01pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

Lol. Then the guys can be the husband if the father of the child is dead or does not want the child and the woman is legally divorced.

Funny anyway.
But it depends on what people want. Personally, I can't marry a single mother, but there are people who can do that and its their call to make. Some ladies can't marry a divorced man too. So it depends on our emotions.

This issue can't be reversed back to mean the same and equivalent.
yeah
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Lexusgs430: 5:03pm On Sep 07, 2017
Nothing wrong with a single mother, because single fathers too exists .....
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 5:05pm On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:


Bring their mother into the home, what do you mean?
It means that if you marry a man with kids (divorced in the present), the kids knows nothing of the problem but when they are grown, they wouldn't want to love you and hate their mother. They will try their best to bring back their mother provided she did not remarry.
Hence, in taking the decision, you must make sure that your requirements are explicitly states and accepted.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by 1Sharon(f): 5:08pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

It means that if you marry a man with kids (divorced in the present), the kids knows nothing of the problem but when they are grown, they wouldn't want to love you and hate their mother. They will try their best to bring back their mother provided she did not remarry.
Hence, in taking the decision, you must make sure that your requirements are explicitly states and accepted.

Bro I'm talking about young unmarried guys with kids approaching single young ladies. Yes I know about the baggage
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 5:11pm On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:


Bro I'm talking about young unmarried guys with kids approaching single young ladies. Yes I know about the baggage
Is it not the same thing ma'am. He is young and unmarried. Let's say he has a kid or two to himself. The mother of the kids is somewhere isn't it? You never can tell if he won't bring her back again.
Children are connections which you can't break.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by 1Sharon(f): 5:24pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

Is it not the same thing ma'am. He is young and unmarried. Let's say he has a kid or two to himself. The mother of the kids is somewhere isn't it? You never can tell if he won't bring her back again.
Children are connections which you can't break.

Hardly happens.If he wanted to bring her back in, why did he let her go in the first place? You don't make a woman you love a single mum.

No guy that loves a woman will make her a mum instead of making her a wife
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 5:29pm On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:


Hardly happens.If he wanted to bring her back in, why did he let her go in the first place? You don't make a woman you love a single mum.

No guy that loves a woman will make her a mum instead of making her a wife
Maybe you have not heard of baby mama
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by 1Sharon(f): 5:32pm On Sep 07, 2017
mrphysics:

Maybe you have not heard of baby mama

That is what I have talking about this whole time now

Would she be a baby mama if the guy loved her?
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by YesNo(m): 6:56pm On Sep 07, 2017
Florblu:
Yinmu

verily verily i say unto thee. Thou art savage.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by mrphysics(m): 7:59pm On Sep 07, 2017
1Sharon:


That is what I have talking about this whole time now

Would she be a baby mama if the guy loved her?
Point is some ladies don't need marriage. they just want the kid and that's all.
Marriage have several factors that affect it. Love is just one of the factors. Family background can also make you lose a long time relationship.

Marrying a single mom is on individual differences. For me, I can't
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother? – Share Your Opinion Below by Exponental(m): 9:19pm On Sep 07, 2017
No - it's late. My wife ain't one!
Yes- it depends on the circumstances surrounding her past. Most of them her better wives cos they try to be careful and avoid losing out in the "second chance" they've got.

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