My course-mate came to me for help,

She told me she is about 4 months late, and the the guy responsibly does not want to hear anything about it.
This girl in question is very secretive, i suspected something like this earlier and she denied that she was not pregnant, i left her to her faith cos pregnancy does not hide forever - it will always come up.
Now she is telling me what does she want me to do?

She said she has no money and the boy refuse to accept his responsibility and help her with cash and this girl in question is not truthful at all times, she coats the truth,
so i went to talk to the boy he said that the girl was just a fling and at the time he was sleeping with her she was also sleeping with other guys- even one in his hostel, and also met her in the hotel with a guy and mentioned alot of instance.
He also said he saw secretions from her breast b4 they had intercourse, asked her and she said its because she just terminated a pregnancy. Then 3 weeks later she told him she was pregnant for him - that's October. At the end of December he followed her to a clinic she claims she wants it done and refuse him entering to see the Dr and told him it 15k. That was when he changed his mind on helping her.

Is it that the pregnancy is not for this guy in question? Which means its far past 5months.
Y did she keep it for this long b4 looking for help? Maybe she wants to have the baby.
I don't really know her but her attitude shows she's from a disturbed home, and she said she is already having problem with her dad and her dad will disown her if he finds out. Right now her dad is not sending her money again,  and no mum no relatives.

What should i do?
What kind of help can i render to this kind of girl? Cos i cant help her with money!

Do u mean this friend of yours sleeps with guys unprotectd in this Aids/Hiv infested century?

I dnt ever advice abortion as an option bt then,ds friend of urz is in deep shiit.
Advice her to register 4antenatal in a health care centre,its free.
She shd go ahead and delivr d baby bt may decide to give it up to childles couples.
God helpin her,she'l learn frm ds

Are you kiddin me?? she's in her 2nd trimester already. Heck to the no, no right minded doctor would even give her an abortion. Chica should just go ahead and have the baby, maybe give it up to the orphanage if she cant take care of it. She needs to stop her promiscuity too!

Odunnu and Mole,u gals r cute.I like ur picz.
U'v got good headlamps@ odunu,hop you keep it up.

lol, thanks.

what are headlamps tho?

nice to know ur in love with a man whose 2ce ur age, does his wife know?

Lost 2wives less than 3years after each marriage.Thats why I'v got a problem.Dnt wanna be a third dead wife.
Headlamps are what naughty guys call 'boobies'

wooooow,
hmm!

[size=16pt]headlamps?

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Whaaaaaaat!!!!

stay away from people like that, that is if you are not the one lol!

Xcuse me?

dnt take it personal, dats on a lighter note.

was gonna waka pass till i say 'HEADLAMPS', hehehe

mhismole. . .sup?



plus do i know u from somewhere

Your friend is a dummy she waited 4 months before she figured that the guy wouldn't stay with her just because she is pregnant? She can not have an abortion because that would be murder for christ sakes at 4 months the human features of the fetus are already developed. If she can't handle a baby she can find adoptive parents it's that simple.

This whole story sounds like an urban legend. on the reality side of it. keep your goddam child for crying out shouting you are almost five months pregnant. it will be suicide if you do anything to that child, u r also at risk of losing your goddam life. sorry but you are gonna have to live with it.remember you never know whats in line for you. don't do something you'll regret later on in life. but somehow there are nasty disturbing details in this story.gosh!! ("He also said he saw secretions from her bosom b4 they had intercourse, asked her and she said its because she just terminated a pregnancy.") that is so disgusting,

hi just leave the girl alone and run for your life before you be in police net for criminal abortion as all girls reading this do not open your legs to so many men at the same time and always choose responsible men one at a time

late term abortions are possible, you just need the right doctor to flush the crumb snatcher out.
why didn't she use plan b or get an abortion earlier 

eejo:

hi just leave the girl alone and run for your life before you be in police net for criminal abortion as all girls reading this do not open your legs to so many men at the same time and always choose responsible men one at a time

This is the most wicked advice for the poster.
@poster,

For God's sake, tell your friend to forget abortion. It's a murder case and even if people don't know, her conscience will judge her for the rest of her life.Besides, who knows? That child could become a star tomorrow. I've been around some persons like that.

For finance, I'm sure they're some good hospitals out there that can help out.
So be wise with whatever decision you want to give her.

its a bad idea to terminate a pregnancy over 3months

so many health risk

plus why did she wait for four months
after the first month of her being late she should have checked for the whole pregnancy test, i mean she was fucccking so there was definitely a 90% chance of being pregnant