Hi, please kindly keep me anonymous for reasons best known to me. Straight to why I sent in this short story of mine…

I’ve been single for over a year now, all the guys that came my way couldn’t even try to win my heart. I have met different guys, from rich, broke, cute, random, tall and so on. None just caught my attention. Well, I suddenly met this guy through a very close friend of mine. He came my way and appeared irresistible to me, I got so fond of him, it was barely up to a week, he told me how he felt about me and for some reasons, I got attached to him as well. So I just had to open up my heart to him.

It’s been a long while experiencing love, so please don’t blame me for opening up to him so fast. Who wouldn’t do that though? Now, my only problem is I love this dude like crazy. He speaks my love language so well and it makes me just love him more. That is not really the problem though. The issue is since I decided to tell him how much I love him and how I can’t survive without him. He gradually reduced the way he calls, sends text and the gifts. He hardly calls even when he does, it’s more or less like a forced conversation. He is always in the middle of something each time we have to talk.

Truth is, I’ve really been shattered because it looks like I’m the only one trying to make this thing work. Just recently, I noticed he was a bit off and the conversation was not smooth. So I decided to call him and trash things out, well during the conversation, he made a statement that broke me apart. He said he has too much on his head and I shouldn’t even compile his problems. Honestly, I started thinking of many things. Did we rush things, was I too fast to tell him how I feel about him, should I just give him little time? At the moment, another guy is bet on getting married to me, but I’m still deeply in love with this guy. I really need your help. Should I still keep waiting or just goo for the new guy?

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learn how to delay your response next time in the epic game of Love. NO GUY PURSUES A GIRL WHO IS ALREADY DYING FOR HIM..... Guys are hunters.... we go for what is hard to get.

maybe in ONE WEEK also or SIX MONTHS the feelings will die. pls go n read books on relationship and mature your emotions

You see.. This is what annoys me.. I don't even know who I will vex for...


The idiot who is being friendzoned


The girl who is confused


Or the coward who just doesn't appreciate what he has.

heiyaa

Unfortunately for u, u dont meet his criteria too!

ode ni bobo yen

Due to experiences, give him space. Reduce communication gradually till you can halt it. When he notices, if he will see you're Now happy Without him and can stay without talking to him, the thoughts of you still struck him and he'll start calling you. Then You play hard to get small

The guy is just being a coward. why did he lead you on knowing very well he had too much on his plate? Maybe it was just lust ... Give yourself sometime and don't rush into anything.

You are not alone

Lies,just to drive traffic....bloggers can conjure fiction sha....telemundo scenes

Love torri here and there! !
It seems he does not Love you that much
But you are so into him
Now this new guy is ready to sacrifice his life for you
Here you are considering if you shuld try ur luck to be managed and loved or just manage to love the guy that loves you so much... Is love still blind in this 21st Century.
Why are you offending yourself
D guy below me has something to say.
Nairalanders we de try sha

Mtcheeew useless thread,Ade pass me the laptop jor