petitejolie:

nd how did u know it has to do with tribe. is she d first Yoruba marrying into an Igbo family? u dey dere ne? gosh! some piple shaaaa! dem don bring tribalism enter d mata. I was only trying to be objective.

petitejolie:
everyone talking family comes first blablabla..... must you b d one to cause a rift in a family bonded by blood? re u the only wife in d family? why must it be you. look ladies wen u marry nd u find urself in dis situation u av to ask urselves question o. if everybody is against u then there's something wrong wit u o. a time will come wen u will need ur blood around u den u will know who's not family. right from d onset dier late mum has bin skeptical abt her nd now its all looking like she's been proved right. its well o

mpowa:

And you where there when she caused the rift? These people sha? Maybe the 'something' that is wrong with her that makes them all to be against her is because she's a Yoruba woman, that's not her fault, she can do nothing about her tribe, if they're not matured enough to accept her for their son/brother's sake should she kill herself. Even online without any problems yet they've been attacking her because of her tribe Shm! So much hatred.

folakemigeh:
hmmm..... There is no smoke without a fire, something must have gone wrong.

Whatever it is i pray they settle it amicably

mpowa:

it's about tribalism stop deceiving yourself, we know how you lots have been hating on Peter since he started with Lola! Even when the family had no issues yet with her you tribal warrior were out with your swords... - 'how dare him', she doesn't need to do anything wrong to be in trouble with the family, being Yoruba is enough.

robotix:
I do not think so. Psquare is too liberal to hate someone cos of tribe, which character will always override anyday, any time. Do not be like your other yoruba people here that have been insinuating such. What I sense is that she is likely making authorities like giving rules which no one will accept. It has nothing to do with tribe BUT character. You can't know EXCEPT you are in there.

ivolt:


Yes, because he lives with them.
There is nothing wrong in shutting out an adult who behaves like kid.

Let paul face his own family and stop inyterfering in his brother's family.

petitejolie:

lol! u taking it too personal. u need to see how I'm laughing at d over zealousness in ur writings. I don't do tribal shit. u don't even know where I'm from nd u will never guess right. u looking for tribal lots? dey went ur way.

supersystemsnig:


Should people with good family values be broken this easily?

mavinc4u:


My dear, I was in bus traveling and one of these people that sells drugs in the vehicle asked a question; if your mother and your wife/husband are drowning in the river who would you save? Some said wife/ husband while some said they would save their mother. The man's next question was why? The ones that said they would save the wife/husband said because what God has joined together no man should put asunder and the man asked which God? While the ones that chose mother said you can have another wife/husband but can never have another mother as your wife/husband can leave you tomorrow when the going becomes tough but your mother can never leave you. That says it all, with the kind of wife/husband this generation have, you never can tell what that person has in mind for you until when e happen you go know. Let that guy be fooling himself till when is late for him, he would understand the importance of someone that the same water and blood that flows in you also flows in him.

mikky4764:
But must the world know all these?

Iamlordgee:

.. As if paul aint family

robotix:
I do not think so. Psquare is too liberal to hate someone cos of tribe, which character will always override anyday, any time. Do not be like your other yoruba people here that have been insinuating such. What I sense is that she is likely making authorities like giving rules which no one will accept. It has nothing to do with tribe BUT character. You can't know EXCEPT you are in there.

InyinyaAgbaOku:


Paul's wife is not Igbo. She is from Edo state

mikky4764:
But must the world know all these?

folakemigeh:
hmmm..... There is no smoke without a fire, something must have gone wrong.

Whatever it is i pray they settle it amicably

robotix:
Public? When did paul do that? show your evidence please, may be i missed it.

Decryptor:


Lola, Peter's wife is the major cause of their rift. She is a bad woman

davidif:


So you are fine with your husband putting you behind his mother right? Good for you. I wish your hearts desire.

CaroLyner:
Family comes first.
thumbs up

mpowa:

Leave them let them enjoy their marriage in peace, busybodies.#FAMILYFIRST!

YelloweWest:

Rivers state not Edo!

mavinc4u:


My dear, I am not selfish. I will even tell him to put his mother first before me and if he refuses to do it, I will do it for him. Stick it into head, your mother, children, siblings first before wife/husband unless you have a bad mother and siblings then putting a good friend first before them would not be a bad idea. Tell me the husbands and wives that are dead today, did their spouse not remarried and forgotten about them?

davidif:


And what if his mom doesnt like you at all. What if she mistreats you? In fact, what if she never wanted her son to marry you in the first place simply because you are from a different tribe? You peiple sound like old people are always right? Not knowing that a lot of parents are just bad. Full of hatred and pettiness but because they are older you are supposed to worship them?
What if his siblings come to your house and mistreat you and insult you? Oh you never thought about that didn't you? Well unfortunately, there are some families like that?

CaroLyner:
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Flashh:

The excuse you gave me then was dismaying. I just had to act like you weren't prevaricating to me.