Prettyhurts:


AMERICANA man, even Jesus Christ wasn't loved by all.

You are ready for them today you've been dealing with people left and right

Prettyhurts:


AMERICANA man, even Jesus Christ wasn't loved by all.

i hate women that cheats and nigeria women are d most unfaithful in d world.

lil man, you got your life to live, focus on becoming a better man & building your life. Your dad is a DICK your mum has passed, you got your life to focus on. So live your life & careless about what your dad do.

Op
If I nack u jazz

Prettyhurts:


Did you read what I wrote well? From my first post to this one? Or are you also helping him to wish the wife death? If you did you'll understand why I wrote this.

You don't cheat on a dead woman but when the woman is healthy and very much alive and you harbor thoughts of going after other women when she's no more is like wishing her death.

that's ur judgement! he never wishes his wife death, he just placed himself in the man op was referring to shoes, meaning that now that he is not really enjoying the woman he married cos of the highlighted characters he claims, it will be. justify if he find himself in this kinda situation and cheat!

Encourage him to remarry.

Prettyhurts:


Extracurricular activities ni, borrowed activities ko. When someone cares for you and the children then what's he looking for outside that's not inside. What happened to till death do us apart, the promises e.t.c. Ehh Uncle Max24 the caring, potential/future cheat and polygamist.

Op's case is diff, the mom is late already, but the man I quoted is jejely waiting for the wife to die so he'll make his own official.

Please I beg you don't mention me again since common sense is far from you. Thanks

I can see u have problem engaging in intellectual debate. You are likely to resort to insults instead of logically supporting ur position. And all those 'don't mention me again' on public forum shows d depth of ur intellectual capacity.

AntiWailer:
Wat is your business ?

Apparently you have no life to face



If not, u thinking of stabbing ur father a million times for cheating on ur mum.

Idiot.

did u read the part where he didn't show up when his wife was dying? Smh sha

lilmanni:
My dad has been cheating on my mum since when I was small I discovered it myself around 2013 and he still does it though my mum passed away early this year but anytime I see my dad I feel like squandering him stabing him a million times I can't continue to see him and continue to claim he's my dad. The day my mum died they called him that my mum was dying he never showed till the next day. The most annoying part is he has started scolding me because he already has the sense of me knowing his wrong ways...... pls I want your view on this what should I do.... at least I want a Lil justice to be done on him even if its a Lil one

You must be out of your mind. You hate your dad because he cheated but what will you do if your dad married another woman....... I guess you will kill yourself. The way your dad live his life is not your damn business.

Learn to live a simple life and to mind your business.


The only person this is hurting is you. Imagine all life has to offer and live your own life.

boldking:
i hate women that cheats and nigeria women are d most unfaithful in d world.

From you hate women of my kind cos I said the truth to you hate women that cheats. Why are you this confused?
Goodnight abeg, rest your brain

yaqq:
that's ur judgement! he never wishes his wife death, he just placed himself in the man op was referring to shoes, meaning that now that he is not really enjoying the woman he married cos of the highlighted characters he claims, it will be. justify if he find himself in this kinda situation and cheat!

Judging from my first post, I asked him some simple questions and I didn't request for an answer from him. But his guilty conscience was faster than him. What happened to discussing with his wife? Solving the problems together? What if he's the one at fault? How submissive does he want the wife to be? No marriage is perfect at all, even blood siblings quarrel and sometimes say words that they don't mean but they forgive.

He placed himself in what man's shoe? The op's father has always been a cheat before the mom died, he never said that the mom was disrespectful.

The man I quoted don't value the wife.

Let's assume that the comment was made by a woman, awon boyscout would've called her all sorts of names. Please let's call black black and white white.

Shalom

Prettyhurts:


Extracurricular activities ni, borrowed activities ko. When someone cares for you and the children then what's he looking for outside that's not inside. What happened to till death do us apart, the promises e.t.c. Ehh Uncle Max24 the caring, potential/future cheat and polygamist.

Op's case is diff, the mom is late already, but the man I quoted is jejely waiting for the wife to die so he'll make his own official.

Please I beg you don't mention me again since common sense is far from you. Thanks

Honestly, you really don't need to insult anyone to make a point.

cococandy:
He didn't even come when he learned she was dying? Wow. Did he explain why?

You're not obliged to forgive him. I hate when kids are blackmailed into forgiving horrendous parents. If you don't feel like forgiving him, you don't have to. At least don't force it. Let it come to you.

You only owe yourself success. Try your best to get successful and be your own person.
If you do eventually feel like forgiving him, let it be your decision and not something you do out of societal pressure or guilt.

Never try to physically harm him. Don't end up in jail because of him. It's not worth. You owe yourself that much. And nothing justifies physical violence on someone else except self defense.

Brilliant Bae.. Wouldnt mind if we get personal 0 8 1 0 0 0 3 1 3 4 3 pls...

You hurt yourself when you harbour bitterness or hatred towards somebody. No matter how deserving that person is, the best thing to do is learn to forgive.


For every action, there is a reward. Both your philandering dad and also you. Good or evil, what you get depends on you. So pls, leave your dad. If he doesnt change, life will gift him with the repercussions of his actions. For now he's free to see other people and hopefully stay faithful to one. If not.... Karma is always ready.

You can only pray for him. He's your dad. May your mom's soul rest in peace. She's in a better place.

Pray for him

frank043:



Honestly, you really don't need to insult anyone to make a point.

I didn't insult him but judged him based on what he wrote. Men are not polygamous in nature, you're only polygamous cos you wish to be. There's no excuse for cheating be it from the male or female. If your religion supports more than one wife, no problem but if not stick to the one you promised to protect and love and cherish blah blah blah. Quietly go through some family sections thread, read the comments and you will buy brain for some.

Please I don't do pm, is boldly written on my personal profile.

You are getting sentimental about nothing..Grow up first and then u will understand Ur Father

Aonkuuse:
Guy you have no problem in life ooooo. I know that pains but it is not right for you to do that. It might be a bitter truth though but sometimes the foundation of some marriages are very bad that it can affect it for a life time. Like the marriage am into now, the foundation is very bad, I have two children with her but due to how disrespectful and all of that I fear I will do the same when she dies. But I love my children. I am not supporting your father but if what he is doing is his life then he is a beast

Abi....sebi her daddy showed up....she is lucky sef to see him the following day....only God can judge o make she no stress herself....

All this cheating cheating complaints every self,wetin the lost wet una de call am cheating, abi the Toto or blokos de complain wet una no go let person hear word as una de form righteous so.NA everyday NA im something go de taste one thing, abegi change is necessary as it is the spice of life.

lilmanni:
My dad has been cheating on my mum since when I was small I discovered it myself around 2013 and he still does it though my mum passed away early this year but anytime I see my dad I feel like squandering him stabing him a million times I can't continue to see him and continue to claim he's my dad. The day my mum died they called him that my mum was dying he never showed till the next day. The most annoying part is he has started scolding me because he already has the sense of me knowing his wrong ways...... pls I want your view on this what should I do.... at least I want a Lil justice to be done on him even if its a Lil one

Please squander the old man jare

angelTI:
Please and please, don't think of any physical assault on the man. I understand how angry you feel but you have to be strong.

How old are you? How many siblings do you have? Are you still a student? Who is responsible for your upkeep?

You are such an angel for that gift of empathy from your side unlike some useless comments. I also feel the guy or lady's situation.

MhizzAJ:
What kind of a father is that
That thing doesn't ve control that's y they go about cheating.

What kind of posters are you and the OP. Who cheats on a dead person. In the event of a dead spouse, the living spouse can remarry. Can someone tell this stoopeed OP that his father is not under any obligation to remain faithful to a dead wife.

The eediot boy is even planning on stabbing his own father a million times. Let him kill his own dad and see if SARS will not arrest or gun him down too.

The OP is worse than his father because he is planning on stabbing his father to death.

childish!

Leave justice to God, He does it real well.
You are gonna have money, lots of it.
check below.

AntiWailer:
Wat is your business ?

Apparently you have no life to face



If not, u thinking of stabbing ur father a million times for cheating on ur mum.

Idiot.

U 4 tell am to Stab
Blike e don chop bele full

Move on with your life young man, don't waste it hating an old man who is also your father for cheating on your late mum. Your father made his decision let him live with the consequences without your interference. Till you are married and of age, then you will understand better the decisions of your dad by judging from your own actions. Life is good, don't throw away yours to the dogs..

Prettyhurts:


I didn't insult him but judged him based on what he wrote. Men are not polygamous in nature, you're only polygamous cos you wish to be. There's no excuse for cheating be it from the male or female. If your religion supports more than one wife, no problem but if not stick to the one you promised to protect and love and cherish blah blah blah. Quietly go through some family sections thread, read the comments and you will buy brain for some.

Please I don't do pm, is boldly written on my personal profile.

It's OK if you say you didn't insult anyone.

By the way, the pm was an error, meant to click the follow button, should I miss the tread in pointing out the fact that you need not insult anyone and everyone just to make a point.

Please, don't reply. Let it end here. Thanks a bunch!

Prettyhurts:


I didn't insult him but judged him based on what he wrote. Men are not polygamous in nature, you're only polygamous cos you wish to be. There's no excuse for cheating be it from the male or female. If your religion supports more than one wife, no problem but if not stick to the one you promised to protect and love and cherish blah blah blah. Quietly go through some family sections thread, read the comments and you will buy brain for some.

Please I don't do pm, is boldly written on my personal profile.

I stopped reading when I saw "men are NOT polygamous in nature".

Aunty, please go and rest.

It's common with the Urhobo's its not even a news again to my ears as I grew up like that

Annie939:
cheating is part of life and 80 per cent of men and 15 per cent of women cheat while 5 per cent are saint in terms of cheating

My dear, your 15% cheating women figure is highly economical. I would have believed that as a child. As a grown man, I know far better.

I was discussing this matter with a married friend. She admitted that the figure is high now. Guess what? She comes from the MOST conservative part of 9ja. I was shocked. Because I was not expecting such from a highly conservative region. Where I have no real insight into. She admitted that lots of women feel caged. Hence the temptation to quietly rebel when the opportunity comes is great. Despite the very severe consequences. Detection rate is very low because the men are quite naive. Her analysis was quite interesting.

Go and kill your father...idiot!

Aonkuuse:
see how myopic and non sense you are, do you go to church at all? The dead is gone and they think nothing none feel jealous of nothing. You are free to marry another woman if your partner dies. Why will I feel bad if my wife chooses to cheat on me? It is my choice to divorce her or live with her as and stop complaining. You are not married so shut up, you have no idea of what marriage is. People like you even your girlfriends if they disrespect you, you feel like opening the ground and entering in, not to talk of your own wife who have the obligation of been submissive to you.

It is clear that you have problems Mr. Perfect, first off, your attitude is quite bad. It's also your obligation to love and respect your wife but it's quite obvious that this isn't happening in your home