Hi all,

I don't know if I got this all wrong. I told my boyfriend that I had some feelings for another person. He felt very bad but we talked about it and it seems that all is well.I however feel that this might have caused or will cause a scar in the relationship. I really don't want to leave, I see a future with him, but I dont know if I have used my hand to spoil something beautiful.

Please your contributions will be appreciated.

oh goodness. Why on earth would you tell a person you see a future with (and want to be with?) that you have feelings for someone else?

Do you really want to be with him? Or is are you just pitying him?

Yeah of course it'll scar the relationship. You estimated that really well.

Pele.

Do you have feelings for your boyfriend? Who do you want to be with? If it is him, let him know it.

Yes you got it completely wrong and if i were your bf then i will let u go and be with that person.

@Poster,
So sad. I don't think you want to be with ur boyfriend. He's just your fallback guy. Being honest was out of guilt not because you care.
You needed to get it out of your system. This unknown feelings is likely to fade and when it does, you'll be sad & alone.

you have feelings for someone else and you expect that not to mess up your relationship after you told the man who you supposedly see a future with

I think you just gave your boyfriend the green light to cheat because if it were up to me i would automatically think you are cheating and that would help me feel good about cheating before i dump you.

omega25red:

you have feelings for someone else and you expect that not to mess up your relationship after you told the man who you supposedly see a future with

I wonder o.

Everybody is crucifying me. The person in question is very far from where i stay right now so there is no question of cheating. Its just dat i got to know dat he wld soon get married and i suddenly felt like i was losing something. I love my boyfriend greatly and hope to marry him soon. However, I havent noticed any negative behaviour in the part of my boyfriend.

Atleast you were honest. Now if your serious with your bf, the real test is not to act on those feelings. Goodluck.

^^^^Hey u

Hey Stranger

Y d hell did u tel him dat? I knw of a friend who went 2 visit her best friend's bf and got raped, she came bak scarred and foolishly told her boy friend, the heart break she got , kept her on a hospital bed 4 a week.

Ebonyeyes:

Hey Stranger

How re u angel

Im ok thanks. How are you?

WTF
you shouldnt have done that dear but at least you were honest
but the fact is there is nothing wrong with you getting attracted to someone else
but the only problem is for you to cross the line(falling in love) with some one else

Im fyne, i see less of u hope all is well

All is well hun just re-adjusting my priorities etc

Oh, thats good too much of KOKO NL is not good

Yes indeed.

Hmm ok u said so ur sef o as regards Koko

:DI dont get you?

U said too much Koko is bad 4 u

I said too much NL is bad for me

Oh ok

u dont have any problem what u have is just a small mental in ur head by teling him that kind of thing. if i am ur guy i will just get myself a new car. and pack the old car in my back yard.