A friend of mine is ready to get married but he is a bit worried because his elder brother is yet to get married


The question is...

Is there any implication?

Would the family members accept...


P. S his girl is pregnant.

this is matter of mutual understanding between your friend and his elder brother ... if the family is understanding enough then it is not an issue
he just need to speak with his elder brother and get him to understand his stance

my younger bro z married and i dont have any issue wit that nor family

ShyCypher:
I advise him to kill his girlfriend now before its too late.

That's the only solution.

daredevil

adonismuller:
A friend of mine is ready to get married but he is a bit worried because his elder brother is yet to get married


The question is...

Is there any implication?

Would the family members accept...


P. S his girl is pregnant.

Yes, very possible,One of my uncle Who was d 4th n last born got married b4 d 3rd born n he has given birth sef

Iseoluwani:


Yes, very possible,One of my uncle Who was d 4th n last born got married b4 d 3rd born n he has given birth sef

wow, that's nice... Didn't the elder one feel somehow?

adonismuller:
wow, that's nice... Didn't the elder one feel somehow?

Uncle B AS HE Z FONDLY CALLEd DOESNT EVEN HAVE TIME TO FEEL SOMEHOW, HE IS ALWAYS BUSY HUSTLING, HE WANTS TO BE FINANCIALLY STABLE B4 GETTING MARRIED

Iseoluwani:



Uncle B AS HE Z FONDLY CALLEd DOESNT EVEN HAVE TIME TO FEEL SOMEHOW, HE IS ALWAYS BUSY HUSTLING, HE WANTS TO BE FINANCIALLY STABLE B4 GETTING MARRIED

okay thanks man...

L3G3ND:
this is matter of mutual understanding between your friend and his elder brother ... if the family is understanding enough then it is not an issue
he just need to speak with his elder brother and get him to understand his stance

it won't be easy though.....

ShyCypher:
I advise him to kill his girlfriend now before its too late.

That's the only solution.

lol.... I advice you threat your madness before it's too late.

stacyadams:
my younger bro z married and i dont have any issue wit that nor family

everybody no be the same oo

Yes the implication is u might born before him .



Yeye question

CaptainGOOD:
Yes the implication is u might born before him .



Yeye question

see this one.... Some family and tradition don't allow it.. Go figure before u spit poo

adonismuller:
it won't be easy though.....

why is that? maturity is what is needed here and it is not an issues definitely so far there is a mutual undertanding

adonismuller:
see this one.... Some family and tradition don't allow it.. Go figure before u spit poo

Then does ur family or tradition accept it.
U r in the position to tel.. yet u still asking us.


U know ur tradition and u know if there ar repercussion


So whats ur point

I witnessed a wedding where an elder brother was the best man for his younger brother, I don't think there's any issue with that, everybody with his own time,,,,,, na girls issue dey get wahala small

Some questions just make my belly turn. It just shows that we're all not on the same level culturally and socially.

Is it d same head them carry come life?

xclntmoda:
Is it d same head them carry come life?

I'm trying to interpret what you wrote in Yoruba,and its actually funny.

My younger sister got married and had children before me
Didn't seem like anything to us at home
Wonder why it should be an issue

It is actually an issue to some culture.... And to some home it might breed jealousy, mostly in female

Why is it even an issue who marries first? If I am ready to marry, I have wait for my older one to meet someone, fall in love, agree to marry, before I go ahead. Very funny.

People have different fate and plans. One's own should not disturb the other.

No...it shouldn't cause an issue...
we have different plans for our lives.. it is his life,and he can run it anyway he sees deem fit..what if the elder bro is not even thinking of marriage in like say five years?? will he keep his life on hold cos of stupid family traditions?
Same way a friend told me his aunt said he shouldn't get a car when his parents do not own one, he was asked to use the money to get a car for his parents and hustle more to get his.... even if he's in dire need of the car...
Do not let anyone control your life, you and you alone is responsible for your life and how you run it

Marry your woman....you have seen your woman, wife her.

Is it wrong to make money before your elder brother? Such a dumb-äss question!

He should have waited for his elder brother to approve before falling in love too.

The guy in question does not have respect..he even got her pregnant..under whose approval and authority? you should have asked this question in 1973

Richy4:
He should have waited for his elder brother to approve before falling in love too.

The guy in question does not have respect..he even got her pregnant..under whose approval and authority? you should have asked this question in 1973

lol..... Respect ke it is a two side enjoyment

less than 3months to 2018 and this is what people are thinking about?

ImaIma1:
Why is it even an issue who marries first? If I am ready to marry, I have wait for my older one to meet someone, fall in love, agree to marry, before I go ahead. Very funny.

People have different fate and plans. One's own should not disturb the other.

You are so on point,I wonder why people read meaning to every little thing,then we relate it to culture and tradition.
Who started the culture and tradition in the first place

adonismuller:
see this one.... Some family and tradition don't allow it.. Go figure before u spit poo

So if the elder decides to marry at 50, nobody else in the family can marry?

Abeg nobody should use their own to tie other people's destinies down.

Ishilove:

So if the elder decides to marry at 50, nobody else in the family can marry?

Abeg nobody should use their own to tie other people's destinies down.

them go force the elder marry