come on u can ask ur boy friend any thing including his past realtionship. if he doesn't feel comfee telling u then he has some thing hidden some where. what if u find out from some one else other than ur boy friend. won't feel a bit down?

Yeah you can ask your boyfriend or girlfriend or anybody anything. Just dnt always espect answers. Or Answers you want to hear. Some things are better left unsaid. Just remember that.

Goooooooooooood answer.

@Hot-angel, Are you Hot or Not? _{can ask anything}

After you and your boyfriend have great confident each other to build trust, then you can ask further deep personal questions include sex history especially AIDS/HIV that is important to protect you and your life, only way.

Mostly guys left unsaid about past relationship if it was horrible/embarrassed experiences for guy not feel comfortable to share with.

Macgreat:

Goooooooooooood answer.

@Hot-angel, Are you Hot or Not? _{can ask anything}

Not to blow my trumpet, But Yes as a matter of fact. I am.

*adding to the topic*.

I believe that if you and your boyfriend are at a certain level in your relationship, you ought to be truthful to each other. You can't force him to give you answers concerning his past. But you can always protect your future.

That is in the case of talking about HIV/AIDS/Blood type. Those are tests you can do, and get answers to fast.
So if he doesn't wanna tell you about his past HIV whatever, you will find out after the test.

@ uspry1, i think you are right that mostly guys (or people in general) leave the embarrasng experience out.

I wouldnt blame a guy if he left out the fact that a girl once sent him out of the bedroom because his 'thing' couldn't get up.

But some matters are more serious than the rest. Again, some things are better left unsaid, and the ones you KNOW you can get answers to, you should get answers to them.

i think we live in a time when people. especially does we say we love need to know all about us. how can we build trust when the other refuses to tell me any thing. even the most embarassing? pls don't give me that. i'm and i always told my x any thing she wanted to hear. so long she doesn't get to hear it from any body. now that's building trust. it's only in this country that u find people that r unwiling to disclose their intimate secrets to their partners. now that's lame. tell her what she want's to hear bro. thier are things that needs to be told if not they might come to hunt us someday.