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Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by fumisko(f): 10:51pm On Oct 21, 2017
Should Christians Really Engage in Dating
This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Check out my view on the above matter at
http://diaryofalovergirl..com

Please feel free to share your views too
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 21, 2017
cool
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by zulex880: 10:54pm On Oct 21, 2017
No undecided
They should engage in carding or spamming sad

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by BiafranBushBoy: 11:00pm On Oct 21, 2017
It is bad!!
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 11:05pm On Oct 21, 2017
No.

#TeamVirgin smiley
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by fumisko(f): 11:18pm On Oct 21, 2017
IamSINZ:
No.


#TeamVirgin smiley
Lol....are you sure you are ? grin
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by ifex370(m): 11:26pm On Oct 21, 2017
fumisko:

Lol....are you sure you are ? grin



Yes.. By all means... Because of satanic doctrines and belief's... The devil has projected a hypocrisy about the act of dating.. It was never so from the beginning

It was supposed to be a God given blessed period of everybody's life..
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by fumisko(f): 11:39pm On Oct 21, 2017
ifex370:




Yes.. By all means... Because of satanic doctrines and belief's... The devil has projected a hypocrisy about the act of dating.. It was never so from the beginning
It was supposed to be a God given blessed period of everybody's life..
God given period how?? Please I didn't really get that. Kindly expatiate
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by donMIG(m): 2:51am On Oct 22, 2017
Nooo...wait till angel Gabriel comes to u

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by chiraqDemon(m): 6:51am On Oct 22, 2017
Nooooooo. We shouldn't. We will just wake up one morning after being smitten with deep slumber and find our ready made wife lying down beside us.

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Nobody: 7:35am On Oct 22, 2017
zulex880:
No undecided
They should engage in carding or spamming sad

Baba i get company account with $1m balance for sale o cheesy
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by KunleSteel: 12:25pm On Oct 22, 2017
As Christians, what will you be doing while dating that you can't do as friends?

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 8:16pm On Oct 23, 2017
fumisko:
Lol....are you sure you are ? grin

Yes, do you doubt it?
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 8:17pm On Oct 23, 2017
KunleSteel:
As Christians, what will you be doing while dating that you can't do as friends?


Fúck
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by tosyne2much(m): 9:53pm On Oct 23, 2017
IamSINZ:
No.


#TeamVirgin smiley
Egbon, so you sef don join our crew? Welcome on board cheesy
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Divay22(f): 9:58pm On Oct 23, 2017
IamSINZ:
No.


#TeamVirgin smiley
Tell me more

Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 10:21pm On Oct 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Egbon, so you sef don join our crew? Welcome on board cheesy


Thanks sir! I really hope to keep myself until marriage as the Bible prescribes smiley


#TeamNoSexTillMarriage cool
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 10:22pm On Oct 23, 2017
Divay22:
Tell me more

Lol, come home. Matter dey for table o.
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by fumisko(f): 1:11am On Oct 24, 2017
IamSINZ:



Thanks sir! I really hope to keep myself until marriage as the Bible prescribes smiley


#TeamNoSexTillMarriage cool
It's hard for guys o
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by poik(m): 12:07pm On Oct 24, 2017
Christians have no business dating. Whatever a Christian man and a woman are doing should be directional and purpose oriented. Dating is just an excuse for free hayroll.
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2017
There'sh nothing wrong in Christians dating but in other not to be canal we term it courting. There are boundaries to dating, we shouldn't copy the world system as that differentiate us from them.

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by jameshow: 12:53pm On Oct 24, 2017
fumisko:
Should Christians Really Engage in Dating
This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Check out my view on the above matter at
http://diaryofalovergirl..com

Please feel free to share your views too

I don't know if you are serious with your question or not, but if you are truly serious, there is nothing bad in it, in as much as you guys are not romancing, kissing that could lead to fornication or being occupied by each others thought at the expense of God. If none of these is involved dating is ok for Christians which means you look for Godly person to date not otherwise
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by SLOVFO(m): 12:55pm On Oct 24, 2017
Whatever name you like, call it. What matters is keeping yourself pure before (and after) marriage.

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamOlusa(m): 1:46pm On Oct 24, 2017
ifex370:




Yes.. By all means... Because of satanic doctrines and belief's... The devil has projected a hypocrisy about the act of dating.. It was never so from the beginning

It was supposed to be a God given blessed period of everybody's life..

Okay! What if the dating is align with God's commandent. a relationship without sex and other sexual assault, and working in the pathway in which the christ has laid down. What about this, wrong?

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Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Dasherz(f): 1:50pm On Oct 24, 2017
bluntboy ... your call
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by ifex370(m): 2:19pm On Oct 24, 2017
IamOlusa:

Okay! What if the dating is align with God's commandent. a relationship without sex and other sexual assault, and working in the pathway in which the christ has laid down. What about this, wrong?


Nothing's wrong bro.. You have Gods hand always strengthening the relationship... By all means go ahead
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamOlusa(m): 2:28pm On Oct 24, 2017
ifex370:



Nothing's wrong bro.. You have Gods hand always strengthening the relationship... By all means go ahead

Thank you.
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by BluntBoy(m): 4:12pm On Oct 24, 2017
Dasherz:
bluntboy ... your call

I believe Christians can date but must follow guidelines laid down in the Word.

The Bible asks us not be unequally yoked. A Christian ought to date a Christian.

The Bible also encourages sexual purity before and after marriage. In other words, the Bible frowns at fornication and adultery.

The Bible didn't mention Christian dating but with the aforementioned guidelines, you are safe. Ultimately, the Holy Spirit should be allowed to be the counselor.

The reason why many Christian elders may frown at dating is because of the difficulty in maintaining physical boundaries. Many Christians have fallen to the temptation of fornication or to immoral thoughts. But God is a merciful God. I believe we are becoming more conservative than God cheesy
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by Dasherz(f): 4:17pm On Oct 24, 2017
BluntBoy:


I believe Christians can date but must follow guidelines laid down in the Word.

The Bible asks us not be unequally yoked. A Christian ought to date a Christian.

The Bible also encourages sexual purity before and after marriage. In other words, the Bible frowns at fornication and adultery.

The Bible didn't mention Christian dating but with the aforementioned guidelines, you are safe. Ultimately, the Holy Spirit should be allowed to be the counselor.

The reason why many Christian elders may frown at dating is because of the difficulty in maintaining physical boundaries. Many Christians have fallen to the temptation of fornication or to immoral thoughts. But God is a merciful God. I believe we are becoming more conservative than God cheesy

smart guy cheesy
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by BluntBoy(m): 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2017
Dasherz:

smart guy cheesy
cool
Re: Should A Christian Really Engage In Dating?? by IamSINZ(m): 7:14pm On Oct 24, 2017
fumisko:
It's hard for guys o

I'm not "guys".

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