We all know the saying that one can never truly be ready for love, so knowing when you’re ready for a relationship yet can be a tricky thing. Sometimes an amazing person just falls into your lap: While you’re out with your friends and ordering drinks for the group, while you’re trying to decide between apples at the grocery store, or while you’re waiting for the bus. You just can’t predict these things. But while it can be a tough thing to decide if you’re ready to welcome someone into your life (because real talk, a SO takes up a lot of your time), it can be easier to spot if you’re not ready for a relationship yet. Take a peek and see below if you should keep those dates in your calendar, or if you should spend some me-time.

1. You're Learning New Things About Yourself



Not all reasons for not being ready for relationship are bad — some are exciting, like you're in the middle of learning new things about yourself. Maybe you just started considering going to grad school, and you never thought you'd end up going back into a life of classes. Or maybe you've been eyeing that hostel-approved backpack on sale and toying with the idea of going somewhere new and wonderfully overwhelming alone. Something that has never really popped into your head before. You're in a place where you're ready to do some growing, and having a beau could get in the way of that. If you're starting to explore new possibilities and dip into unfamiliar opportunities, it might be best to hold off that date for a little while. You don't know where this new path might lead, and you don't want to make decisions that might change if you have to consider another person. Let yourself be a little selfish; make it all about you.

2. You are Unhappy in your life



When you feel unhappy and dissatisfied in life, it’s easy to point to your relationship status as the cause. You think that as soon as you find a great guy and have an amazing relationship, everything will be wonderful. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way. Although a relationship can certainly add to your sense of happiness, happiness isn’t something you get from a relationship—it’s something you bring into your relationship.

It comes from already being happy in your life outside of the relationship. This means you feel confident in yourself, you have a good group of friends you care about and who care about you, you have hobbies you enjoy, and you are a balanced, well-rounded person.

Yes, I know that it’s way easier said than done, but happiness isn’t something that just happens. It is something you seek and create. You have to actively fill up your happiness tank. There will be times when this happens easily and naturally, and other times when you’ll have to put in a bit more energy and effort.

3. You’re too independent



You don’t like the idea of having to report to someone every few hours about your whereabouts over the phone. You don’t like feeling obligated to meet someone or spend time with them, even though you really like their company. You just love your independence, and when you date someone, you feel like your freedom is being taken away from you.


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carlosSeyi:
Airforce1 Madridguy TonyeBarcanista HungerBad IamJ Lallasticlala Seun ishilove pls someone may need this

Lol

Another list, a worthless one at that.

Rocktation farano

Okay

Airforce1:
I don't fall in love

I'm sorry

I can only be nice to Gurls and sometimes dey mistake it for love.

The truth is, I don't love.

Love will fall on you someday in the mighty name of Jesus fire

FvckShiT:
Whö fuçking cares--just bloodyfûcking fúck her pússy and fúckiñg leave

cos no fuckin human being want u either to fuckin comment

No one is hardly ever 100% ready.

true.... especially that no 3,i naturally hate telling pipo about my whereabouts,it has caused serious issues between my mum and i.... tho currently i have adjusted a little shaa.