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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 10:46pm On Nov 01, 2017
alexialin:





Don't worry, soon u go know how far grin

Dem no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come

Body go tell you. By then to cry, u no go fit cry. grin

It's not compulsory u listen to my advice.

Am just saying my own.

Follow such feelings at your place of work @ya own peril.

Sleeping with a colleague in the name of am in love in the same office is not the best

Anyways what's my own?
Thanx dear

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 01, 2017
I don't know what the fuck_to say undecided

He touched your hand? That's what we have to work with? Well he doesn't hate you or dislike you that much we know because you chat and he touched your hand.

As for whether he fancies you or not, we'll need a picture of you and a picture of him or we'don_believeIT
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 10:52pm On Nov 01, 2017
Dimples129:
I don't know what the fuck_to say undecided

He touched your hand? That's what we have to work with? Well he doesn't hate you or dislike you that much we know because you chat and he touched your hand.

As for whether he fancies you or not, we'll need a picture of you and a picture of him or we'don_believeIT
Sweet get u won't understand..do guys when talking to you find a way to touch you?or someone that isn't really close to u holds your hands unnecessarily because he is laughing?
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 10:54pm On Nov 01, 2017
Kirsten93:
Sweet heart u won't understand..do guys when talking to you find a way to touch you?or someone that isn't really close to u holds your hands unnecessarily because he is laughing?
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Luckygurl(f): 10:56pm On Nov 01, 2017
alexialin:
Op, I repeat abort mission!

Abort!!!!

That guy is a confirmed player!

He knows you are tripping for him and having butterflies inside of u

Infacf he know say u don fall finish, na to corner you somewhere kiss and fucvk the living daylight out of u then pretend like it was the spur of the moment and when u ask him after a stormy round. Honey hmm are we know dating grin
Guess what his answer will be?
He will scratch his head, look at you and calmly say I have a fiance, although she is not in the country @the moment. But there is something about u, that makes my blood hot! And I know u feel same about me. But cmon? smileyDon't worry dear, cheer up, dress up ,someone might knock at the door.
Then he briskly wears his trousers and tucks in his shirt while u will shamefacedly put on your bra, panties and that short mini gown.

So op I hope am making sense grin

And , I hope you can now understand what's really going on with your emotions showing boldly in your eyes, whenever he's around u and touches u

Hes Gaddam player!

Jeez! Can't u seeeee? angry

Abort! Before it's too late.
Na true talk I dey tell u so ooo

Lmao!!!
grin grin grin
Confirm player that'll screw her head off

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 01, 2017
Kirsten93:
Sweet get u won't understand..do guys when talking to you find a way to touch you?or someone that isn't really close to u holds your hands unnecessarily because he is laughing?
If he fancies he will do something about it, just face your work and act like a lady. Don't put him on a peddle just remember his shiit stinks too. Like I said if he likes you he will make it very clear.

Yes, I laugh and grab the hand of the person sitting next to me, doesn't mean I want them. When a man likes you; it's very obvious, it's the things he does for you and not what he says or how acts.

Does he look for you, ask about you, miss you when you're not around it's very obvious. If you have to ask then it's a FAT NO.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Rubbiish(m): 11:12pm On Nov 01, 2017
alexialin:
Op, I repeat abort mission!

Abort!!!!

That guy is a confirmed player!

He knows you are tripping for him and having butterflies inside of u

Infacf he know say u don fall finish, na to corner you somewhere kiss and fucvk the living daylight out of u then pretend like it was the spur of the moment and when u ask him after a stormy round. Honey hmm are we know dating grin
Guess what his answer will be?
He will scratch his head, look at you and calmly say I have a fiance, although she is not in the country @the moment. But there is something about u, that makes my blood hot! And I know u feel same about me. But cmon? smileyDon't worry dear, cheer up, dress up ,someone might knock at the door.
Then he briskly wears his trousers and tucks in his shirt while u will shamefacedly put on your bra, panties and that short mini gown.

So op I hope am making sense grin

And , I hope you can now understand what's really going on with your emotions showing boldly in your eyes, whenever he's around u and touches u

Hes Gaddam player!

Jeez! Can't u seeeee? angry

Abort! Before it's too late.
Na true talk I dey tell u so ooo
Bad advise!!!
Because someone played u doesn't mean every guy is a player
How can u even term someone u haven't met a player? That is bad!
His being hesitant shows he is not the player type, players dont waste time when they spot a lady having feelings for them.

Op get closer to him, u dont necessary need to tell him, but u can show him with your attitude. If he is interested, i believe he will open up. He may also be afraid of rejection as well...So make him comfortable with u to air his mind...

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Rubbiish(m): 11:15pm On Nov 01, 2017
Ahmiee:
my sister if you like someone why pretend like you dont . if u like him u better come out of your shell and ask him out then you guys can get to know each other. if the guy is matured enough he would ask you out. why pretend you dont and be dying inside forming rubbish. smh
God bless u for being real & sincere
Pretence make alot us to go through pains we can easily avoid...

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Rubbiish(m): 11:19pm On Nov 01, 2017
rebirthforgoody:




Here Bebe here is not america oooh.here is Nigeria.
What happens in nigeria?
You ladies are proud & wouldn't want to open up. Stop using player as smokescreen. Are there no players in America? Pride & fear of rejection is the problem with our ladies & that is why many are still single....
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 01, 2017
Rubbiish:

Bad advise!!!
Because someone played u doesn't mean every guy is a player
How can u even term someone u haven't met a player? That is bad!
His being hesitant shows he is not the player type, players dont waste time when they spot a lady having feelings for them.

Op get closer to him, u dont necessary need to tell him, but u can show him with your attitude. If he is interested, i believe he will open up. He may also be afraid of rejection as well...So make him comfortable with u to air his mind...






I hear

Na so

Player spotted, claiming angry, mtchewwww.

If u like burst those veins, thats your problem. It's late already. Hospital don close o.

Wailer!

Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 01, 2017
eezeribe:

It means she is usually on a defense mechanism to prevent the other person from knowing that she is dumb and cannot offer anything during a 'meaningful' conversation.
Datz d closest interpretation of d sentence anybody can ever come up with.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Rubbiish(m): 11:47pm On Nov 01, 2017
alexialin:







I hear

Na so

Player spotted, claiming angry, mtchewwww.

If u like burst those veins, thats your problem. It's late already. Hospital don close o.

Wailer!

Lol
I am not angry & far from being a player
Just that there is a misconception u ladies have about guys
Same way u ladies fear rejection also apply to some guys, probably because of their background. A thread made front page recently of a 35 years old guy who was still single.
Such a guy maybe hesitant in asking a girl out because of his background or self esteem, u cant tell....
Some guys are very reserved & may need little encouragement to make move...It doesn't mean they are players...They actually make perfect husband in the long run....
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Stevengerd(m): 11:49pm On Nov 01, 2017
Kirsten93:
Thank u so much..
OP no vex, how old are you, dnt be carried away because he's touching you. look b4 you leap, by the way how old her you again??
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 11:52pm On Nov 01, 2017
Rubbiish:

Lol
I am not angry & far from being a player
Just that there is a misconception u ladies have about guys
Same way u ladies fear rejection also apply to some guys, probably because of their background. A thread made front page recently of a 35 years old guy who was still single.
Such a guy maybe hesitant in asking a girl out because of his background or self esteem, u cant tell....
Some guys are very reserved & may need little encouragement to make move...It doesn't mean they are players...They actually make perfect husband in the long run....





My dear, lemme ask you two vital questions

Are u a Nigerian man?

And do you live in Nigeria till date ?

Please answer sincerely.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 11:56pm On Nov 01, 2017
Well, there are two things involved. Its either he like you or he's been a player.
If he likes you, you're safe! If he doesn't, there are two things involved. Its either he wants to just have fun with you or sleep with you.
If he just wanna have fun, you're safe! If he wants to sleep with you, there are two things involved
Its either he wants it for pleasure or to destroy your life.
If it for pleasure, you're safe! If its to destroy your life, there are two things involved. Its either he wants you to ridicule you in your working place or he's been sent by your village people.
If he wants to ridicule you, you're safe! If he's been sent......well there's one way here. You're done for. Your pot is been broken.

Now does this help or not?
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 12:04am On Nov 02, 2017
alexialin:





Don't worry, soon u go know how far grin

Dem no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come

Body go tell you. By then to cry, u no go fit cry. grin

It's not compulsory u listen to my advice.

Am just saying my own.

Follow such feelings at your place of work @ya own peril.

Sleeping with a colleague in the name of am in love in the same office is not the best

Anyways what's my own?
u are right,op u should be friends only abeg

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by byemx06(m): 12:09am On Nov 02, 2017
y wl u date someone in your place of work nawaoo.... ....una no dy fear God, is unprofessional and a very bad ethics dnt tel me u dnt ve a boifrnd,
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by SuperWorld(m): 12:13am On Nov 02, 2017
Does it mean u r from Ibadan? oh...maybe ur hands are power bank ... for long u said oh ....how sweet! guess u enjoyed it too. Now imagine a long bleep ......just like heaven on earth! hell.....no!! u will enjoy that bastard I swr!!! call my Glo I will tell u the next step... to make .











m a psychologist....
so m 99% sure u r still a virgin.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by 2dice01: 12:27am On Nov 02, 2017
alexialin:
Op, I repeat abort mission!

Abort!!!!

That guy is a confirmed player!

He knows you are tripping for him and having butterflies inside of u

Infacf he know say u don fall finish, na to corner you somewhere kiss and fucvk the living daylight out of u then pretend like it was the spur of the moment and when u ask him after a stormy round. Honey hmm are we know dating grin
Guess what his answer will be?
He will scratch his head, look at you and calmly say I have a fiance, although she is not in the country @the moment. But there is something about u, that makes my blood hot! And I know u feel same about me. But cmon? smileyDon't worry dear, cheer up, dress up ,someone might knock at the door.
Then he briskly wears his trousers and tucks in his shirt while u will shamefacedly put on your bra, panties and that short mini gown.

So op I hope am making sense grin

And , I hope you can now understand what's really going on with your emotions showing boldly in your eyes, whenever he's around u and touches u

Hes Gaddam player!

Jeez! Can't u seeeee? angry

Abort! Before it's too late.
Na true talk I dey tell u so ooo
mama de mama

To toast you go belike correction for you oo
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by MayorOlohLo1(m): 12:45am On Nov 02, 2017
alexialin:
Op, I repeat abort mission!

Abort!!!!

That guy is a confirmed player!

He knows you are tripping for him and having butterflies inside of u

Infacf he know say u don fall finish, na to corner you somewhere kiss and fucvk the living daylight out of u then pretend like it was the spur of the moment and when u ask him after a stormy round. Honey hmm are we know dating grin
Guess what his answer will be?
He will scratch his head, look at you and calmly say I have a fiance, although she is not in the country @the moment. But there is something about u, that makes my blood hot! And I know u feel same about me. But cmon? smileyDon't worry dear, cheer up, dress up ,someone might knock at the door.
Then he briskly wears his trousers and tucks in his shirt while u will shamefacedly put on your bra, panties and that short mini gown.

So op I hope am making sense grin

And , I hope you can now understand what's really going on with your emotions showing boldly in your eyes, whenever he's around u and touches u

Hes Gaddam player!

Jeez! Can't u seeeee? angry

Abort! Before it's too late.
Na true talk I dey tell u so ooo

Jesus see Negativity
But why?

you experienced such?
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Shawnnn01: 4:16am On Nov 02, 2017
Ahmiee:
my sister if you like someone why pretend like you dont . if u like him u better come out of your shell and ask him out then you guys can get to know each other. if the guy is matured enough he would ask you out. why pretend you dont and be dying inside forming rubbish. smh

This is advice is plainly foolish. How does any lady in his right frame of mind walk up to a guy and ask him out especially in a society such as Nigeria. Even guys are cautious when it comes to asking girl out because of the shame from dejection. What happen to giving him the green light so he takes the initiatives. As far as I am concerned only a shameless girl will walk up to any guy in Nigeria n ask him out. What is the assurances she won't just be drooling over the next cool guy around but actually chasing after him like a vampire on a blood hunt ?
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 5:11am On Nov 02, 2017
Kirsten93:
Thank u so much..

He insulted you indirectly and you are saying thank you
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Nobody: 5:48am On Nov 02, 2017
it is against work ethic but we are talking about love which has no boundaries. as for me, study the guy very well to know whether he is really going to love u or for pleasure sake
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by gabinogem(m): 6:44am On Nov 02, 2017
Kirsten93:
Hmmmmmm..fear of rejection..Just nid to know If he lyks me den I will know wat to do..Tanx
hmmm... With what u've explained in ur post, u already know he has a soft spot for u. Perhaps, he's also gripped by the fear of rejection as well... Nothing stopping u from making d move jor.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 6:47am On Nov 02, 2017
AlexandriaToria:


He insulted you indirectly and you are saying thank you
Yes dear..it not compulsory I insult him back..Lol..but I bite ooo...So I don't bite unnecessarily..

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Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Ahmiee(f): 7:41am On Nov 02, 2017
Shawnnn01:


This is advice is plainly foolish. How does any lady in his right frame of mind walk up to a guy and ask him out especially in a society such as Nigeria. Even guys are cautious when it comes to asking girl out because of the shame from dejection. What happen to giving him the green light so he takes the initiatives. As far as I am concerned only a shameless girl will walk up to any guy in Nigeria n ask him out. What is the assurances she won't just be drooling over the next cool guy around but actually chasing after him like a vampire on a blood hunt ?
keep living in your society, dont grow up and be exposed to certain things. probably u didnt see where she stated "you cant start a convo with her" she believes she has a standard every guy should meet up to. as a girl if u like a guy, you should let him know its better than to die in silence. a guy will not always come around to do that all th3 time. i didnt say u should go and start telling him how u cant live without him. no normal guy will not love you more for doing that. if your still living in your planet where u believe woman shouldn't go after what they want that's your opinion.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Ahmiee(f): 7:57am On Nov 02, 2017
alexialin:





Don't worry, soon u go know how far grin

Dem no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come

Body go tell you. By then to cry, u no go fit cry. grin

It's not compulsory u listen to my advice.

Am just saying my own.

Follow such feelings at your place of work @ya own peril.

Sleeping with a colleague in the name of am in love in the same office is not the best

Anyways what's my own?
whether professional or unprofessional is left for her to make that decision. if she feels is unprofessional to have an affair with someone in her work place. then she will not be interested to know if the guy likes her or not. cause i can imagine how she feels when the guy is around her. she tries to be funny to get his attention, which is actually cool .
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Ahmiee(f): 7:59am On Nov 02, 2017
rebirthforgoody:




Here Bebe here is not america oooh.here is Nigeria.
whether na Pluto, everyone deserve to be loved
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by joshnes(m): 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2017
I dont think you should approach him. All these ladies be saying tell him, the truth is if a guy likes you, normally, he'd talk to you. If he talks to you and you say no, most times, he will keep on pressing. If you approach him and he says no, what will you do? Will you keep on pursuing? If he tells you no, you should be happy. There are thousands of guys who would say they like you too, only to sleep with you and brag to their friends. My advice: the info you gave is not enough to draw a conclusion as to whether he likes you or not. So you just keep doing what you're doing, be friends with him and if he does like you, he'll open up soon. He might also be falling for you unknown to him, so just let him be, if he is falling, let him fall yakata and later you'll appreciate your patience.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by mytym(m): 3:56pm On Nov 02, 2017
dollyjoy:
You are not the kind of girl someone can start a conversation with? what kind of crazy mentality is that?

Thought i read that wrong, i had to read it twice. She is morbidly sick.
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 10:15pm On Nov 02, 2017
mytym:


Thought i read that wrong, i had to read it twice. She is morbidly sick.
Nah...U are fucking hopeless and sick.did I write here on my post that it is compulsory that u contribute?Senseless animal like u..If wat I typed ain't correct is left for you to tell me or go Bleep urself
Re: I Desperately Need To Know If He Likes Me Or Not by Kirsten93(f): 10:17pm On Nov 02, 2017
Kirsten93:
Nah...U are f**king hopeless and sick.did I write here on my post that it is compulsory that u contribute?Senseless animal like u..If wat I typed ain't correct is left for you to tell me or go f**k urself

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