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What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2017
What does it mean when a lady tells a guy, he's too genuine, too trusting and too easy?
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by NightHound(m): 2:55pm On Nov 02, 2017
Ladies, come and answer!
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:55pm On Nov 02, 2017
Share.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by SuperSuave(m): 2:55pm On Nov 02, 2017
O ti wo FRIENDZONE niyen

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by DaveWonder(m): 2:56pm On Nov 02, 2017
PURE FRIEND ZONE LINE
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:56pm On Nov 02, 2017
SuperSuave:
O ti wo FRIENDZONE niyen

True. But any other comment. FZ ain't a big deal

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:57pm On Nov 02, 2017
DaveWonder:
PURE FRIEND ZONE LINE


True. But any other ideas
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 02, 2017
Too easy to be taken for granted..
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by izaray(f): 2:58pm On Nov 02, 2017
It means d guy might be too soft for her liking. I Stand to be corrected tho.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 02, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Too easy to be taken for granted..


I see. Not bad . I like this

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by SuperSuave(m): 2:59pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:


True. But any other comment. FZ ain't a big deal
Do you want to be her lover or just have her as a friend?
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 2:59pm On Nov 02, 2017
izaray:
It means d guy might be too soft for her liking. I Stand to be corrected tho.


Okay, i'm putting two and two together. Sweet
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:00pm On Nov 02, 2017
SuperSuave:
Do you want to be her lover or just have her as a friend?


Nope, the relationship between the fellas fell apart. Reflecting on issues in between
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by NightHound(m): 3:00pm On Nov 02, 2017
Maybe what they mean by it is that the guy is naïve. It's not stimulating to be in a relationship with a goody-goody whom you can predict to a T. They want excitement. Push me, pull me, hurt me, make-up sex, the whole roller-coaster ride. Someone who can test the elastic limit of her heart.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by tosyne2much(m): 3:00pm On Nov 02, 2017
It means the lady is confused
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
It means the lady is confused


God Bless You Tosin. Because, this is the kind they would say they wish for, they get it, and then they are indecisive about what to with it?, pure indecisiveness. I believe this is what you mean if i'm right.


But what happens to guys that fall into this category, how does such a guy snap out of it?
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by NightHound(m): 3:02pm On Nov 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
It means the lady is confused


You're right about this.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:02pm On Nov 02, 2017
NightHound:
Maybe what they mean by it is that the guy is naïve. It's not stimulating to be in a relationship with a goody-goody whom you can predict to a T. They want excitement. Push me, pull me, hurt me, make-up sex, the whole roller-coaster ride. Someone who can test the elastic limit of her heart.


Someone to fight with them, perform some drama, make them come begging. Haha, that's pure excitement. I see. Thanks
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by NightHound(m): 3:04pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:



Someone to fight with them, perform some drama, make them come begging. Haha, that's pure excitement. I see. Thanks



But all that won't stop them from complaining. With women, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:



I see. Not bad . I like this
Ladies tends to misbehave, when they see that a guy is too soft and easy..
They are like, if i bend my neck for him and form like i want to cry, he will forgive me or give me what i want..
But when they know that the guy is a no nonsense guy, then they won't try rubbish.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:05pm On Nov 02, 2017
NightHound:




But all that won't stop them from complaining. With women, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.


Na the complaining thing isn't for me. I can barely cope with nagging. As a researcher that spends lots of time in my mind working even when i'm having fun,nagging is something i don't tolerate.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:06pm On Nov 02, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Ladies tends to misbehave, when they see that a guy is too soft and easy..
They are like, if i bend my neck for him and form like i want to cry, he will forgive me or give me what i want..
But when they know that the guy is a no nonsense guy, then they won't try rubbish.

Nah. not entirely, as men, as we advance with age, we become easy. When boys do gra gra, it's due to not having faced lots of challenges or being broke. gra gra is for completely broke/crazy dudes
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by NightHound(m): 3:07pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:



Na the complaining thing isn't for me. I can barely cope with nagging. As a researcher that spends lots of time in my mind working even when i'm having fun,nagging is something i don't tolerate.


I feel you, bro. Real talk.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 02, 2017
NightHound:



I feel you, bro. Real talk.



wink Little wonder many Nigerian guys are porting to white ladies.

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:11pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:


Nah. not entirely, as men, as we advance with age, we become easy. When boys do gra gra, it's due to not having faced lots of challenges or being broke. gra gra is for completely broke/crazy dudes
Nope, it's not about been broke or maturity..

what I meant is that a disciplined guy, tends to command respect from ladies than a guy that behaves like flower..

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 02, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Nope, it's not about been broke or maturity..

what I meant is that a disciplined guy, tends to command respect from ladies than a guy that behaves like flower..


Okay. Excellent Point.I get it, this makes sense, one that doesn't bow to her wishes and manipulations

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Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:15pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:



Okay. Excellent Point.I get it, this makes sense, one that doesn't bow to her wishes and manipulations
Exactly.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:17pm On Nov 02, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Exactly.

It's still what Tosin said indecisiveness, cause they want good guy with bad boy's characteristics. When the good ones go away, they will get their wishes and the aftermath of their decisions.
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by tosyne2much(m): 3:19pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:



God Bless You Tosin. Because, this is the kind they would say they wish for, they get it, and then they are indecisive about what to with it?, pure indecisiveness. I believe this is what you mean if i'm right.


But what happens to guys that fall into this category, how does such a guy snap out of it?
You're right bro.. Pure indecisiveness


I guess that was the excuse she gave for not dating he OP
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
You're right bro.. Pure indecisiveness


I guess that was the excuse she gave for not dating he OP

Yes. And you're wise. You supplied the answer i was thinking on my mind. Typically, the uy would have assumed it was his problem. But i assured him the lady was indecisive about expectations. I have seen ladies made mistake in 20s and till 40-50 they never had the opportunity to correct those errors. Many times, these errors are tied to this same indecisiveness, he's too nice, too soft, too emotional, and they move on and get something else and wished they hooked up with the previous dude. Life is a lesson. I've personally learnt to be careful with decision making.


Thanks Toss
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 02, 2017
Jupxter:


It's still what Tosin said indecisiveness, cause they want good guy with bad boy's characteristics. When the good ones go away, they will get their wishes and the aftermath of their decisions.
Yeah very true...
What these ladies don't know is that, a bad guy is a bad guy and a good guy is a good guy..
Re: What Does It Mean When A Lady Tells A Guy... by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 02, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Yeah very true...
What these ladies don't know is that, a bad guy is a bad guy and a good guy is a good guy..


Simple. Good guys won't have long term regrets, they'll always find themselves landing on their feet, but with a deserving person that will reciprocate all the attention wasted on undeserving ones. As for the other ladies, they'll get their own desires as well, so two plus two is four

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