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Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 12:06pm On Nov 03, 2017
QueenOfNepal:
Puberty comes at the age of 13 or 14 for some girls today and you want to tell me that you ll give out your daughter at that age for marriage?


Can't a woman be chaste at the age of 35? Even if the woman indulges in sex befpre getting married, is fornication the biggest sin in Islam or it's just a way to put the womenfolk down?


What do you think should be done today to do away with that teaching of second mensuration in your Father's house
Well your first question, I'm not an Islamic scholar or alfa, infact I don't belong to any of these Islamic association, all I said above are to the best of knowledge. So I can't allow my kids to marry even at 17, 18.
A single woman at 35 is somehow not palatable for human hearing in respect of any excuse. And fornication is a sin not even in Islam alone but in everything, tradition, xtainity, Buddhism, and all that
It is very very inevitable now for a woman now not perform more than once menstruation in their fathers home. This thing is done once in a month and if a woman should start menstruating at the age of 15 and she gets marry at the of 25, calculate the number of menstruation she has done.
So it's basically inevitable
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 03, 2017
hopyroll:

Well your first question, I'm not an Islamic scholar or alfa, infact I don't belong to any of these Islamic association, all I said above are to the best of knowledge. So I can't allow my kids to marry even at 17, 18.
A single woman at 35 is somehow not palatable for human hearing in respect of any excuse. And fornication is a sin not even in Islam alone but in everything, tradition, xtainity, Buddhism, and all that
It is very very inevitable now for a woman now not perform more than once menstruation in their fathers home. This thing is done once in a month and if a woman should start menstruating at the age of 15 and she gets marry at the of 25, calculate the number of menstruation she has done.
So it's basically inevitable
Thanks. In essesnce not every teachings in the Quran is relevant in this 21st century

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Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 12:18pm On Nov 03, 2017
QueenOfNepal:
Thanks. In essesnce not every teachings in the Quran is relevant in this 21st century
You can say that
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 03, 2017
hopyroll:

You can say that
please i want you to say that with your hands.
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 12:24pm On Nov 03, 2017
QueenOfNepal:
please i want you to say that with your hands.
Lol
Why? 2
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 03, 2017
hopyroll:

Lol
Why? 2
Because it affirms your belief that there are somethings in the two major religion in Nigeria that are not compatible with the ever changing world

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Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by BenzEne1(m): 1:02pm On Nov 03, 2017
hopyroll:

Well I don't know what the scripture says about it however, it is very important to know your partner's sexually drive before marriage.
If you a ten minutes man on bed and your wife is made up of powerhorse300 capacity, my brother, you are still single. If your wife cannot go more than 2 rounds and you are always having standing ovation every round, you are still both singles.
So is the best to know your sexually capability as well as your spouse's.

If you know your partner cannot stand your sexually urge, don't manage it. Just call it off before marriage.

It won't and will never work.
Any artificial help will render you completely useless later

How would you know your sexual capacity when Zina (illicit sexual intercourse) is forbidden in Islam. If you love someone you'll definitely learn to adjust and have a good sexual relationship.
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by Sissie(f): 5:35pm On Nov 03, 2017
hopyroll:

Lol
Lemme tell you what I know bout Islamic marriage.
Islam forbade a women to menstruate twice in her father's home, once a women start seeing her menstrual blood, I believe you will concur with me that she's entered into a puberty age.
The logic was to cut the woman from any form zina which happening around everywhere now.
Once a woman enters into a puberty age, nature automatically start advertising her, what I meant by nature is, she starts growing breast, and some other mature parts of the body. Once all these starts, men start looking out for you, noticing you, some will even start buying you gift just get down with you, but as at then, women starts growing all these thing atleast age of 15 above, now what I understand is that, Islam doesn't want these women fornicating because naturally at teen age women start feeling arouse, I believe you will understand this as woman.
So instead of them sleeping with different man, "find them a man".
But today, girls don't become women before they start menstruating. We have seen a gal of ten who gives birth to fatherless baby. The rate at which gals grows now a days is appalling.
But in Nigeria todag, we see marriage at a teen age as abomination while zina at 12 is seeing of something that is normal.
I'm sorry this is how best I can answer your question.

Where is your prove that islam forbade a woman to menstruate twice in her father’s house?

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Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 8:26pm On Nov 03, 2017
Sissie:


Where is your prove that islam forbade a woman to menstruate twice in her father’s house?
Well, I don't have a proof
I guess am wrong, can you pls shed more light on it?
Thanks
Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 8:30pm On Nov 03, 2017
BenzEne1:


How would you know your sexual capacity when Zina (illicit sexual intercourse) is forbidden in Islam. If you love someone you'll definitely learn to adjust and have a good sexual relationship.
What I explained above has absolutely nothing to do with religion, I already said it in the first sentence you quoted
My explanation was based on natural phenomenon .
If we are to go by the way of scriptures, then I guess we just have to stick with our cross no matter how heavy it may be

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Re: Is Poverty A Valid Excuse For Not Getting Married? by hopyroll(m): 8:31pm On Nov 03, 2017
QueenOfNepal:
Because it affirms your belief that there are somethings in the two major religion in Nigeria that are not compatible with the ever changing world
Affirmative

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