*When They’re Drunk - Some of the realest conversations come out when someone is drunk. That’s because when you’re drunk, you release your inhibitions and the truth can start spilling out. I’ve had female friends confess their love to me, male friends confess their hatred toward another person, and others confess their deepest fears and insecurities.
*How They Speak To You…About Other People - Pay attention to people who constantly gossip to you about other people or speak ill of others. Understand that if someone is constantly telling you other peoples’ secrets don’t be surprised if secrets you tell them go public as well.
*How They Speak Of Themselves - How someone speaks of themselves says a lot about their level self respect. If someone is constantly demeaning themselves there is a good chance they have poor self esteem. If someone constantly speaks highly of themselves they might be confident in themselves or be making up for their insecurities.
*Their Habits And Rituals - I know when I meet someone who has a regular workout routine and good diet, I can assume that they are a person of good discipline. I know when I meet someone who takes advantage of others, they might be a selfish individual.[/left]