I HAVE BEEN IN THIS RELATION FOR 8MONTHS,ACTUALLY HE HS BN ASKIN ME OUT FOR D PAST 3YRS, OF WHICH I FINALLY AGREED LAST YR AND HE CLAIMS HE LOVE ME SO MUCH, THE RELATIONSHIP'S GOIN SMOOTHLY.BUT WHEN I TRY TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT HIM, HE GETS ANGRY.

HE PREFERS SPENDING MOST OF HIS TIME WITH FREENS AND HIS BROTHER,VISITING BARS, AND CLUBS. WHEN I TRY TO COMPLAIN, HE'LL SAY I HV A BAD ATTITUDE THAT THE ONLY THING REAMAING FOR US IS TO STAY TOGETHER BUT MY ATTITUTE.(COMPLAINING)

HE DOESN'T WANT ME HANGING OUT WITH FREENS,IF I DO HE'LL PRESUME AM WITH A GUY, ALSO MONITOR'S ME.AT TIMES WEN AM BORED I ALWAYS WANT TO HANG AROUND WITH MA FREEN SO AS NOT TO FINK OF ANYTHING.

I KEEP ASKING MYSELF 'IS THIS THE KINDA PERSON ILL'D REALLY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH'. SOMEOME WHO DOESNT SPEND TIME WITH U, GO ANYWHERE WITH U. ONLY COMES AROUND U WEN HE FEELS LIKE HVING SEX.

TALKED TO HIM SEVERAL TIMES BUT HE DOESN'T LISTEN.I NEEDED SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE LIKE A BROTHER, AND LIKE A BEST FREEN AND NOT LIKE A STRANGER.

AM VERY PERCEPTIVE, HATE WEN PPL TRY TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD,

@ Poster

Gurl I feel for you. . . . . . . . while you can still run, run as fast as you can. . . . . . . don't look back! This sorry a$$ of man aint for you! All you gonna do is end up havin just a bedroom relationship with him! To be loved is to be recognized as existin!!

sista-jay:

@ Poster

Gurl I feel for you. . . . . . . . while you can still run, run as fast as you can. . . . . . . don't look back! This sorry a$$ of man aint for you! [size=28pt]All you gonna do is end up havin just a bedroom relationship with him![/size] To be loved is to be recognized as existin!!

you are right

POSTER he must really be POUNDING YOU well well in bed for you to stick around such a guy, cos i cant think of any sane reason anyone would have for going out with such an insecure, egotistical oaf, My counsel is that you myster the courage to ditch him now before he kills off your self esteem, you deserve better than this.

Tee_Jay:

POSTER he must really be POUNDING YOU well well in bed for you to stick around such a guy, cos i cant think of any sane reason anyone would have for going out with such an insecure, egotistical oaf, My counsel is that you myster the courage to ditch him now before he kills off your self esteem, you deserve better than this.

here are a few other reasons why this gal stays with this "animal":

- if she aint all that and therefore this is the BEST she can ever get.
- if he takes care of ALL her financial needs.
- if she is old and thinking "body clock" rather than making any sense.
- if she is so desperate that she rather be with him than single.
- if peer pressure wants her married by the end of the year.
- if its her first ever bf and she doesnt know any better (this might actually be love in her fantasy world. LOL!!!!!!!!).

thanks all for your concern, i just cant leave rite now, cos he own me some moni so if i leave he isn't ganna pay me bck.

if you like stay there until he brings out the worst in you. the handwriting is boldly written on the wall, clear your eyes,open your mouth and read it aloud is better for u

affigurl:

I HAVE BEEN IN THIS RELATION FOR 8MONTHS,ACTUALLY HE HS BN ASKIN ME OUT FOR D PAST 3YRS, OF WHICH I FINALLY AGREED LAST YR AND HE CLAIMS HE LOVE ME SO MUCH, THE RELATIONSHIP'S GOIN SMOOTHLY.BUT WHEN I TRY TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THINGS I DONT LIKE ABOUT HIM, HE GETS ANGRY.

HE PREFERS SPENDING MOST OF HIS TIME WITH FREENS AND HIS BROTHER,VISITING BARS, AND CLUBS. WHEN I TRY TO COMPLAIN, HE'LL SAY I HV A BAD ATTITUDE THAT THE ONLY THING REAMAING FOR US IS TO STAY TOGETHER BUT MY ATTITUTE.(COMPLAINING)

HE DOESN'T WANT ME HANGING OUT WITH FREENS,IF I DO HE'LL PRESUME AM WITH A GUY, ALSO MONITOR'S ME.AT TIMES WEN AM BORED I ALWAYS WANT TO HANG AROUND WITH MA FREEN SO AS NOT TO FINK OF ANYTHING.

I KEEP ASKING MYSELF 'IS THIS THE KINDA PERSON ILL'D REALLY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH'. SOMEOME WHO DOESNT SPEND TIME WITH U, GO ANYWHERE WITH U. ONLY COMES AROUND U WEN HE FEELS LIKE HVING intimacy.

TALKED TO HIM SEVERAL TIMES BUT HE DOESN'T LISTEN.I NEEDED SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE LIKE A BROTHER, AND LIKE A BEST FREEN AND NOT LIKE A STRANGER.

AM VERY PERCEPTIVE, HATE WEN PPL TRY TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD,

And your not even married to him yet?

My dear it doesn't get better. . .It only gets worse!