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Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by chrisexy(m): 8:16pm On Mar 26, 2010
There's something  u are passionate abt, something dat makes u happy. U always envisage it & finally, u have it. But ur ''love'' doesn't like it & he/she asks u 2 drop it if u must be in d relationship. Wat wil u do?
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by ayettymama(f): 8:58pm On Mar 26, 2010
i have a loooong story to write abt this but no time

'not liking it' is not a good enuff reason for one to drop his or her ambitions

its a complicated situation attimes

but personally i wont
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Shola2009(m): 9:01pm On Mar 26, 2010
Nope!
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Pweety4me(f): 9:06pm On Mar 26, 2010
@OP I had a lyfe b4 meeting him so my lyfe will not stop because of him.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by rawswagga(m): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2010
It depends nd lik ma sister said is complicated.I did similar tin bt regreted it a little so for nw I can't do it nw again
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Mar 26, 2010
No.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Mar 26, 2010
@post
DEFINITELY NO!!!!!!
you  have to remember that the day you give up your passion/dreams/ambitions you will become a shell of a person and thus, however great that love was, you will end up miserable (unless you believe that your love for that person can fulfill all your desires in life)

i would give up my passion, dreams and ambitions for NOTHING in this world. . . . . . . . .  . N A D A!!!!
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by DeepSoul(f): 11:37pm On Mar 26, 2010
Hmmm, dat kain love never catch me.

But then, it depends on the circumstance. . . .

E.g If I need to give up my ambitions to take care of sm1 I love who's ill. . . .that could fly. . . .

But not for smthn as flimsy as "I don't like it" or "I'm not comfrtable with it"
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by GL(f): 1:11am On Mar 27, 2010
no i won't, not for such a flimsy excuse.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Diva20(f): 1:14am On Mar 27, 2010
I think it's complicated.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by ayettymama(f): 1:15am On Mar 27, 2010
circumstance is important

what if ur ambition was unrealistic??

any woman that has dated or fallen in love with a 'footballer' will feel me on this one

ambition is good---whether its realistic or attainable is another thing
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by daduke2k(m): 1:27am On Mar 27, 2010
Its a no no.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by GL(f): 1:28am On Mar 27, 2010
ayettymama:

circumstance is important

what if your ambition was unrealistic??

any woman that has dated or fallen in love with a 'footballer' will feel me on this one


ambition is good---whether its realistic or attainable is another thing


grin grin grin  TRUE
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by chrisexy(m): 5:23am On Mar 27, 2010
I knw a lady who gave up her boomin carrier bcoz her ''husband to be'' didn't like it. Accordin 2 her, he is too gud to let go
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 27, 2010
chrisexy:

I knw a lady who gave up her boomin carrier bcoz her ''husband to be'' didn't like it. Accordin 2 her, he is too gud to let go

i think that to most in 9ja, their highest priority and desire in life is to be married (and make tons of money) so you would understand that one completely. LOL!
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Gabry(f): 11:11am On Mar 27, 2010
Yes, I would give up my dreams for love if my lover is genuine and sincere
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by madlady(f): 11:24am On Mar 27, 2010
chrisexy:

There's something  u are passionate abt, something dat makes u happy. U always envisage it & finally, u have it. But your ''love'' doesn't like it & he/she asks u 2 drop it if u must be in d relationship. Wat wil u do?

No, I would not give it up ambitions  but dreams hmmm depending on what it was, I may.

If my Husband had good reasons to ask me to drop said, I would  consider his wishes.



@Gabry, long time no see, missed you. smiley
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by KennyG6(m): 11:26am On Mar 27, 2010
No love is worth giving up one's gream/ambition for. Infact true love is meant to help u accomplish your dreams not sabotage it,
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Gabry(f): 11:27am On Mar 27, 2010
madlady:

@Gabry, long time no see, missed you. smiley

Mi8ss u too deary. How are u? Hows work? Hows London?
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by madlady(f): 11:45am On Mar 27, 2010
Gabry:

Mi8ss u too deary. How are u? Hows work? Hows London?

I am fine, my op went well.

London feels lovely , almost spring like. Out on the road in a few mins so looks like a busy day for me. kiss
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Gabry(f): 11:58am On Mar 27, 2010
madlady:

I am fine, my op went well.

London feels lovely , almost spring like. Out on the road in a few mins so looks like a busy day for me. kiss

Hey, I was wondering. Since London is a city, does Spring time has its flower season there? U know like the flowers they had in the movies?
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Ben13: 11:59am On Mar 27, 2010
Hey, Gabry. . .you would give up ya dream cos of Love for a short man? shocked
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Gabry(f): 12:06pm On Mar 27, 2010
Short man? What do you mean bgy short man? meaning poor abi? Theres something I would like to make it clear to you. My husband's success is my success. If he is poor, than Illl work hard to make him rich! Thats it! I dont really think that career is that important but I do think having a good savings is important. To mem, family and husband comes first!
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by THEAMAKA(f): 2:42pm On Mar 27, 2010
@ topic
HELL NO!!! how dumb can someone get to even think of doing that?
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Pweety4me(f): 2:44pm On Mar 27, 2010
^AMAKA fine gurl how u dey dis mornin?it's afternoon here doeo
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by THEAMAKA(f): 2:50pm On Mar 27, 2010
HEY!!!
afternoon where? aren't you in the US (well i thought)
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Pweety4me(f): 2:54pm On Mar 27, 2010
THE AMAKA:

HEY!!!
afternoon where? aren't you in the US (well i thought)

Ahaha i know because i'm always using ya'll slangs. . . grin tongue so wat's poppin 2 nite?
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by THEAMAKA(f): 3:03pm On Mar 27, 2010
Pweety4me:

Ahaha i know because i'm always using ya'll slangs. . . grin tongue so wat's poppin 2 nite?
don't know yet, whatever my sis wants to do.
and i don't want debosky to ban me for posting off topic. na wa!
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Pweety4me(f): 3:05pm On Mar 27, 2010
THE AMAKA:

don't know yet, whatever my sis wants to do.
and i don't want debosky to ban me for posting off topic. na wa!

smiley
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by CILondon: 10:30pm On Mar 27, 2010
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by TewMuch: 6:06am On Mar 28, 2010
Dont ever try to give up your hopes and dreams because nothing is guaranteed. I mean there is no guarantee the relationship will work. If he truly loves you, he will see the future benefits of your goals and dreams. He will also encourage you to achieve them. kiss. Dont let any man spoil your own oh, because men are known to move on with little or no thought.
Re: Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv? by Ndygold(f): 1:16pm On Mar 28, 2010
Say na witch?i wont try it,afta wat my mum passed thru concerning dis topic angry[color=#990000][/color]

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