It has been a while since my wife's sister moved in with us. She is 24 years and since the first time, she has been trying to seduce me. So many times when my wife is off for work, she comes in to my room in a scanty dress. I am not comfortable with it. She does not dress appropriately and is very vulgar. My wife doesn't stay home often as i do, since i send her on lots of errands. I fear that if i tell my wife, she would think otherwise, if i send the girl on her way, my wife would be upset. I have kids(girls), i cannot afford to let them see such a lady and call her their aunt.

I am so confused.

It's either you tell her you are not comfortable with the way she dress or you bring your wife notice to her mode of dressing so as to talk to her because her actions are not put to check you might end up sleeping with her and she may even end up influencing your girls in a negative way.

[s]Maybe she likes you. Make her understand it cannot work out between you both. Your wife doesn't need to know just talk to the woman in question and sort it out #Easy[/s]

forget my comment.

this one is impotent..... . Send me her number let me warn her on the dangers of seducing a married man

You are the one sending her on too many errands,I hope you are not exploiting the poor girl because she is staying in your house...

You better save your self from the destruction that lies ahead by sending her packing.

Do have a one on one talk with her. Ask her about her future plan, job, school ( if not done yet). Open a discussion about marriage, when does she intend getting married, who her boyfriend is etc.
Let her see you as her blood, a mentor and big brother, the thought of seduction may likely leave her head.

Tell your wife that you are not comfortable with the way her sister is dressing on the house but if your wife is not the understandable type and tend to blow thing out of proportion because she want to defend her sister then may be you just have to tell her sister yourself.

If this story is true, cos I doubt it, people just tell lies for attention on Nairaland these days: then what is stopping you from telling her to dress decently around your kids?
Talk to her in a polite fatherly manner the way a father gives advice to his children so she doesn't pick offense and start discussing with your wife about how you are bothered with her dressing. Make it look like you are doing it for your kids.

Tell her to cover up since you don't want your kids to see her way of dressing as normal.

Na wa for the girl o. A mature 24 year old woman entering a man's room with skimpy clothes to 'gist' as if she doesn't know how easily affected men are. Her sisters husband for that matter. People dey this life.

Its simples as ABC, just that you enjoy the attention she's giving you and the things you are seeing.

You are older so she should be like a kid sister you can correct and advice.

So if you don't have an hidden agenda, what's holding you back to correct her.

Abegi commot here jare.

Strahovski1:
It has been a while since my wife's sister moved in with us. She is 24 years and since the first time, she has been trying to seduce me. So many times when my wife is off for work, she comes in to my room in a scanty dress. I am not comfortable with it. She does not dress appropriately and is very vulgar. My wife doesn't stay home often as i do, since i send her on lots of errands. I fear that if i tell my wife, she would think otherwise, if i send the girl on her way, my wife would be upset. I have kids(girls), i cannot afford to let them see such a lady and call her their aunt.

I am so confused.

from ur write up it shows that u are a very meek man, be a man that u are, she is in ur house, if she dresses anyhow tell her to go and remove it, and of she has her own room, do nt allow her to be entering ur own room, if u sleep with her now ur family is going to be in jeopardy...

i once had a girl friend then who happens to have a very beautiful younger sister, it was nt long the small girl then 16 came to my house and before u know it she started playing some rough plays, to cut the story short, she begged me to have sex with her, that she was ready to lose her virginty to me, when she finished talking, i adviced her and told her that should never do that again, and that was the last time, and till today we are still close even though i have left abj.

Op but you only mentioned you don’t like how she dresses which is her choice as an adult btw ,,,,,
So how is she actually seducing you !
Are you not a man ? So you are saying with a wife and kids you are not blinded to all that nonsense .. furthermore she is your sister-in-law she hasn’t actually come onto you grabbed you kissed you, begged you to lay with her .. No

So the issue is YOU .... you are crushing on her .. just accept it and take your mind off her ...it won’t end well
Have some self control ! Even if she parades naked so what is she sitting on your face Don’t be a WEAK MAN who can’t think without using his 3rd leg ..

daududaniel:
Still cannot understand why people come here to seek for advice, mr Op trust me you already know what you need to do, just do it so you can live a peaceful life with your wife.

Gbam.Must everything be Nairaland opinion,I am hundred percent sure,this OP know what to do and just come here yarning trash

So she will practically come into your room without knocking right....? and you have sellotape in your mouth that u can't tell her not to come to your room dressed like that right...?

Ok, My advice for you is this..since u don't have the guts to tell her to dress appropriately.. . when next she comes into your room, leave your clothes on her hands and run outside ... This Is Biblical practice..

Wrong statement, she is not seducing you - you are tempted by your desires. This simply makes you human or should I say a normal man. The girl may have no such intentions, at 24 she might just be acting her age, you should act your age too and respect yourself. Talk to your wife to diplomatically advise her because if she doesn't ..in few months time you would be making a new Nairaland topic - I impregnated my sister in law, I need advice - A word is enough for the wise.