southern1:

I would gladly give my husband or boyfriend my email account password(s) but not my atm password(s).   Equally, I wouldn't expect my husband or boyfriend to give me his atm password but would expect him to give me his email account password(s).  In my line of work I have seen too many instances of couples splitting up and one party discovers  that the other party has cleaned out the bank account(s) prior to announcing the split.  Thus, I do not believe in having only a joint account as a couple.  Sure, we can both open an account together to pool money for bills, entertainment etc but I think that each should maintain their own personal accounts.  Heck, we could just keep two seperate accounts and just decide ahead of time who will be responsible for which bill(s) and simple pay them from our individual accounts.   Not everyone may share this ideology but again, in my line of work I've seen the financial and other horrific devastation that can occur when couples stop being nice and things turn ugly.   Not a pretty picture.

queeneve:

Hello Sizzler,

He is my fiance and we discussed this.  We have trust for each other.  I use my old email address for my girlfriends and he use his old emails for friends.  We both have an email account for both of our use.  

If you dont have trust, you dont have much of a relationship.

He told me he TRUST ME COMPLETELY, and so do I.  He even left his email account open one time and I did not look into it because we have trust.

Sarah a:

As 4 me i cn't give my bf my e-mail account password nt to talk of Atm pin code.But it amazed me whn my bf gave me his e-mail password ad he even told me dat, he as 2 e-mail ,while av b thinking dat he has just one.ad to crown it all, i met this guy on nairaland site .which i nvr dreamt off b4.all the same am gratful to God 4 gving me such a loving ad caring guy .i pray it end well ad if it does nairalander wil b the first to hear this great news.

GL:

hmmm, that's cool; so nairaland guys are actually trusting.

Eniayo:

@ mama gee,afta d break up one culd easily change either email password or atm pin.
That's it. As simple as A, B, C

havilla:

i can give my husband but not boyfriend