I've been pondering on this topic for a while so I decided to bring it here on a public forum to get the views of most Nigerians.

Nigerians by their nature are very hypocritical to say the least. Most times we shy away from talking about things that really matter because they are considered strange whilst people still engage in them, albeit, in secrecy.

Some weeks ago, Nigeria and Kenya among other African countries toppled the chart of countries with the highest view of gay porn. Now the irony of the whole thing is that we live in a society which is filled with bunch of hypocrites. Who then watches these gay porn videos hence majority of Nigerians both online and offline criticize gay practice a lot?

We Nigerians or say Africans claim to be morally upright, but the events of the dynamic world has brought up some questions which deserves quick answers, and to a large extent, question the degree of our morality.

The western world on the other hand, is filled with Literalists, little wonder many of those countries have legalized gay marriages, everyone is free to practise whatever they want, so far you don't encroach into the rights of another.

I'm writing this with all levels of conviction because I've had first hand experience both online and offline with gay people. I have had people visit me and vice versa, and at night, I notice them start behaving funny, in most cases, I leave the bed for them and sleep on the floor or retire to another room as the case may be.

But who would ever suspect these people are gay? Because they seem to be morally upright, they are people I have trust and respect for, some are people in the high level strata of our society.

Should I shock you guys? Many of our renowned pastors, priests, friends, teachers, Lecturers, course mates, politicians, celebrities, etc are gay! We may abuse and ridicule people like Bob risky who openly display their sexuality, he often gets bashed online, but the biggest question is who are those that patronize him?

Alot of people in our society hide their sexuality because of the society stereotype and all that, don't be surprised to see the number of gay couples that would suffice if eventually gay marriage is legalized in Nigeria. That first guy who jumps to criticize gay people may be himself, gay! same goes for the ladies, that is the society we find ourselves in.

Now haven juxtaposed the both words 'Morality' as its related to Africans, and 'Liberalism' as found in the Western world, which would you choose? Should we continue to claim morality with many others dying in silence and as well breeding a society filled with hypocrites, OR... should we accept Liberalism and a free society where everyone would be free to practise whatever they want so far as they don't step on anyone's toes without any law holding them in check?

Should we say our morality is this case is more like a mirage as people still do what they want in secrecy and uphold Liberalism?

I actually like to have the opinion of people, please be very sincere because many are dying in silence.

MORALITY OR LIBERALISM??

Cc: Lalasticlala Myd44 Seun, let's get the opinion of people in this trivial issue.

Marcelo290, Brother find time to read this thread. Focus on my comments THANK YOU. www.nairaland.com/3993752/nigeria-ranks-third-gay-porn (you may just read the whole of it)

WORDWORLD:
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The answer to all these question is to check out THE THIRD VARIBLE and see if it is consistent with the information reported about Nigeria, Pakistan, Kenya or at odds with it.

So we turn to Pornhub annual reviews, of which Pornhub has been reporting  magnificiently and with meticulous details since 2013 by their statisticians all the DATA that one needs to know from this NUMBER ONE porn site most patronized in the world of porn. 

WILL IT BE "SHOCKING" AT ALL OR "STRANGE" TO FIND THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA TO HAVE BEEN CONSISTENTLY MAINTAINING THE NUMBER ONE POSITION IN THE PROPORTION OF WORLD WIDE MOST TRAFFIC ON PORNHUB SINCE 2013 TILL DATE?

Now, when you check the list of the first 20 countries with the highest traffic on pornhub on all general porn terms be it anal, creamy pie, hidden cam, step mum e.t.c since 2013 to 2016. There is no Pakistan, no Nigeria, no Kenya on the list. But you will come across many amidst those 21 Gay countries listed amidst the top 20 and fluctuating through the years except the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA maintains NUMBER ONE. Not Pakistan, not Kenya, not Nigeria on general porn altogether

Now let's go ANAL, let's go GAY which is the crux of the matter.

"America's obssesion for anal" I just Quoted pornhub review 2014. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2014-year-in-review . Saying America is obssessed with GAY CONTENT, A.K.A ANAL.

When you click it leads you to the page which further declares that "AMERICA RUNS ON ANAL" .  Not Nigeria, not Pakistan, not Kenya but THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, WHOSE PRESIDENT BARAK OBAMA HAD NOTHING TO GO SHARE WITH HIS BIOLOGICAL FATHER'S LAND KENYA, EXCEPT THAT THEY SHOULD BECOME POKERS THE ASS-HOLE.

So on the page 'AMERICA RUNS ON ANALS'. This page makes it VERY CLEAR which countries browses gay content the most. Pornhub gives us a whole list being searched in GAY PORN, ANAL . And with the title TOP ASS & ANAL SEARCH TERMS, they are: Big ass, anal, big booty, bubble butt, ass, first time anal, big ass Latina, ass, big booty, white girls, huge ass, fat ass, twerk, ebony anal, perfect ass, anal Ice-Cream, onion booty, bubble butt teen booty" these are more terms for searching for BACK DOOR EXERCISE than as GOOGLE as limited theirs.

For the list of the countries on top of the world of anal content both gay and otherwise kindly click https://www.pornhub.com/insights/america-runs-on-anal ............  https://www.pornhub.com/insights/anal-searches-increase to see for yourself. I HONESTLY BELIEVE YOU WILL NEVER BE SHOCKED AT ALL BY THE RANKINGS.

Ass and Anal searches Countries around the world.
First on list is RUSSIA, followed by United States and then Canada followed by United Kingdom number 5 on the list is China. Am sorry you have been brain washed.

I have as well provided links to 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016 for people to find out about Nigeria, Pakistan, Kenya status on pornhub which is the NUMBER ONE PORNSITE IN THE WORLD. Those three countries have been declared by GOOGLE as the countries which searches for gay porn the most in the world. WE SHOULD EXPECT THE WORLD'S NUMBER ONE PORNSITE IN THE WORLD TO REFLECT THE SAME RESULT AS GOOGLE IF IT IS THE TRUTH, A REALITY OF PERCEPTION IN PERFECT PRECISION.

yuji I honestly wish you the best with your blog in this age of cognitive surplus in 'DISSONANCE' and perception illusions.

NIGERIA, PAKISTAN, KENYA AND ALL THE REST OF THE WORLD WILL EMBRACE  HOMOSEXUALISM EVEN FAR, FAR WORSE   PERVERSIONS SO DEHUMANIZING AS NECROPHILIA WHICH IS SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH A DEAD CORPSE. ITS JUST A MATTER OF TIME.

MAINLY BECAUSE YOU CAN'T FIGHT EVIL WITH HYPOCRISY. HENCE, UNLESS WE START COMING CLEAN, BEING HONEST AND SINCERE ITS NOTHING BUT A FOUL CRY AGAINST HOMOSEXUALS WHEN FORNICATION, ADULTERY, NUDITY, ALL KIND OF ILLICITNESS ARE CHAMPIONED BY HETEROSEXUALS. ONLY GOD KNOWS HOW MANY PORNOGRAPHY BUSINESSMEN WILL SPRING UP AFTER NIGERIA'S NUMBER ONE PORN LEGEND WHO IS MAKING WAVES AT THE MOMENT. ONLY GOD KNOWS HOW MANY WILL FOLLOW HIS PATH, AND LEAD THEM TO WHAT EVER DESTINATION. IT ONLY CERTAIN THAT ONE DOES NOT SOW COCONUT AND HOPE TO RIP COCOYAM.

https://www.pornhub.com/insights/pornhub-2015-year-in-review

https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2014-year-in-review

https://www.pornhub.com/insights/pornhub-2013-year-in-review

A WORLD SO LOST IN LUST, SO ASTRAY, SO INSENSITIVE, AT THE DEPTHS OF INTELLECTUAL VACUITY, DISHONOUR WITHOUT DIGNITY, MORALLY DEAD. PLACES OF SPIRITUALITY ARE BUT TEMPLES OF FRAUD FOR MONEY MAKING. SCHOOLS DON'T DEVELOP COGNITION ANYMORE FOR DIVERGENT THINKING BUT CONFORM MINDS TO STUP!DITY............................HOMES ARE BROKEN................INFACT WHAT AN AGE OF LIES AND SELF DECEPTION BY CHOICE.

www.nairaland.com/3993752/nigeria-ranks-third-gay-porn/2#59660869

Liberalism and morality are not opposed to each other. We only think they are because religion has given us a very warped view of morality. Liberals fight for the rights of the oppressed, such as the poor, the enslaved, victims of racism/sexism, (and gays). This is a very moral cause.

* * * In my view, the gay law is immoral and should be repealed.

You're being too kind with these options: morality vs liberalism. If you're looking at the content of the thing which you've labeled 'morality', it's got nothing at all to do with morality. This is rather a choice between:hypocrisy and honesty of expression. Which of the two is the moral choice?

A human being should be allowed to express himself as long as he does not infringe on the rights of another, in doing so.

Seun:
Liberalism and morality are not opposed to each other. We only think they are because religion has given us a very warped view of morality. Liberals fight for the rights of the oppressed, such as the poor, the enslaved, victims of racism/sexism, (and gays). This is a very moral cause.

I can't support any gayness in Nigeria at this time because it is against the law, but in my view, the gay law is immoral and should be repealed.

I could liken the highlighted to "I don't support the emancipation of blacks at this time because it is against the law" or "I don't support the freedom of speech at this point because it is against the law"


Sounds contradictory to your first statement, I'm reminded it's your opinion and you're entitled to it.

Seun:
Liberalism and morality are not opposed to each other. We only think they are because religion has given us a very warped view of morality. Liberals fight for the rights of the oppressed, such as the poor, the enslaved, victims of racism/sexism, (and gays). This is a very moral cause.

I can't support any gayness in Nigeria at this time because it is against the law, but in my view, the gay law is immoral and should be repealed.

First off, what makes you think your own judgement on the morality of the gay law is what should hold. in your opinion you're wiser than the vast majority of legislators who debated on it, or you assume they were blinded by religion whereas you're not.
Now, what makes the law immoral? The fact that people are punished for satisfying their sexual whims, their "natural" sexual passions? So now, if we have people obsessed with assassination, it means we should repeal our law against murder, because in your opinion, that law prevents people from doing their job, or for those who do drugs, we should cancel all our laws regarding drug abuse, because after all, it's their own body.
It is only wise to realize that the "freedom" to live your life as you want, which you think religion robs you of, is actually more limited by common sense than by Faith.