Festive seasons are usually marked by lots of events - from the good, to the bad and the very ugly.

It is a season when new relationships are formed and old ones ruined. It is no brainer that a lot of deceptions happen during festive seasons like Christmas.

People up their games and are usually at their best because it is a good time to let your trap catch a game.

It is a common knowledge that most women prefer abroad based guys to their counterparts in Nigeria.

One funny thing is that at the mention of 'abroad' a guy suddenly appears cuter than he forrmerly was in the eyes of many Nigerian ladies. Call it being a gold digger and that is exactly your own cup of tea because in reality, no lady ever admits there is even a gold to dig.

Even if a guy looks worse than a neanderthal, the regular Nigerian lady must find something so cute about him even if it were his shadows. Oh yes! You haven't heard shadows look cute too? Then you haven't met a Nigerian. Even bones look so beautiful once they are within a dude that is based abroad. Oh well...

The truth is that the Nigerian environment is somewhat toxic and doesn't allow people think straight most of the time.

In the minds of some Nigerians who live within the country, people who live abroad are never poor how much more being broke. Like there must be some virtual trees where they pluck money from.

Guys have actually caught the drill and are now taking advantage of it to taste the pudding of every girl that comes their ways while masking behind the marriage or relationship thing that sweeps ladies off their feet.

A lot of ladies usually melt faster than ice and flow with the tide at the mention of abroad and eventually find solace in the 'he used and dumbed me' cliche when the going gets rough.

It is long distance relationship when the man is based somewhere within the country like Abuja and the lady is based in Lagos, but the long distance suddenly shortens when the dude is somewhere abroad, say Texas or New York and the lady is somewhere in Lagos.

A lot of ladies will comfortably get married with photos of their 'abroad husbands' instead of having a Nigerian-based dude by their sides. You may like to befriend google to get lots of photo evidences if you are in doubt.

The marriage blues of one Cynthia and estranged husband E-money made so much waves across the social media space after it crashed.

The young lady was visibly so in love with her abroad-based husband and their traditional introduction ceremony photos broke the internet with currencies splattered all over the place.

Obviously the young man appeared to do no wrong in her eyes as at the time but the moment the relationship went south, she suddenly regained her tracks and remembered that there was no iota of goodness in him.



He wore shorts during the marriage introduction and she now found out that it was absolutely disgusting. One thing that comes to mind is, why did it take her so much time to realise he was not even her spec?

Could it be that she was too lovestruck to have realised earlier until the union crumbled like a pack of cards?

It is really crazy and crazier is the fact that a lot of ladies don't seem to be ready to repent from the crase anytime soon.

A friend once told me that it is either an abroad-based dude or marriage should wait till forever. In her words 'who sufferhead epp?'

Oh, does that mean relationship cum marriage are now a poverty alleviation scheme? Well, we never can tell.



How about the guys who have wives and probably kids abroad and yet come home in sheer deception to marry Nigerian wives who are expected to stay back in the country while they (the guys) turn to visiting husbands?

Some of these women are even aware of the fact but who really cares when 'abroad' is involved?

People's perception about marriage has been so ruined and twisted that the original concept now looks like gibberish.
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Well,your point is clear and very understandable, but the fact still remains that not all the abroad based guys re deceitful. Even we that re based here,not all of us re gud. Coming to ur illustration in respect of the lady and E.money,sorry to burst your bubble that the guy left her because she is a runs girl based here in Enugu. When the guy came back,he was warned about her but he refused to listen to us. The E.money is having another traditional wedding on the 8 of January next year and the same time opening his mansion that very day In Anambra state.The girl was playing victim card because she was caught cheating and asked to leave by the guys family.

Sooo true!!!

Actually there's nothing wrong with a female seeking out the most viable option. Its biological. All females (humans and animals alike) would prefer to mate (settle down) with the "best" male. By nature females are instinctively concerned about their future and the fate of their offspring. No female (human or animal) will deliberately go for a male with poor genes which manifests in strength, healthy appearance,and in the case of humans, success. Nigeria is a hellhole, so such girls envision better prospects with the abroad guy as opposed to a home based dude. This logic doesn't always follow, as you rightly said some Nigerians are living like pigs abroad and packaging themselves. The point is that its instinctive for females to prefer alpha males or at least the most viable male they can lay their paws/hands on