My girfriend talks to me with anger but can be friendly.
Is this love?

can be friendly to everyone else?, lol she hates u, leave her, she prolly tired of u and dont know how to tell u

yes ooo
for real
she may just not like U
but then why she still wit U??

It seems you're in for soup my Bro. The quicker u stand for your self the beta.I don't mean Bullying o, before u start trashing the Girl now.


If its not that She hates you, then it would mean she is da Man and not You which might mean She will be Marrying u and not d other way round.

Double Wahala.

Thanks so much Abdkabir, Free and Bluenubian, You see the issue is I met this girl during December 2005 when I was home for Christmas just six days before my return to Johannesburg.
I did not sleep with her. We've been talking on phone since then and I've been sending her money. There are times when she is really friendly and loving and I've promised to marry her. She is a Christian girl and according to her she talks to me with anger sometimes because she doesn't trust men any more especially what one other ninja guy living in London did to her. It seems I'm suffering for what i did not do. When ever I stay for a day without calling or say call in the morning and no call in the evening, she becomes frightened and calls me talking so softly. I send her lots of money because she is still at varsity and no parents to take care of her finances.
Please guys help me out, I want to marry this girl by end of this year. She may not be terrible. Remember as a man I also do shout at her and make her feel angry sometimes by saying terrible things.
What do you guys think?

she may just be a temperamental person but to say the fact,when a lady shouts or talks rudely to her boyfriend,it must be that she dosen't like the company of that person but because of the benefits she is getting from that person,she wouldn't want to leave him.
I will advise u take ur time to study her,tell her u don't like she way she talks to u,maybe she will change, Who knows?

Thanks a lot Tunmininu, I will take my time to study her.
She also turns to abandon me totally when she's buzy and when I call she quickly does ask me to call back. When I call back, she'll ask me to call back again.
I know she's doing her Youth Service and they can be very buzy sometimes but what about me who works for a big and diciplined corporation. I still find time to call her or send text messages.
One thing I like about her is that when ever I get so annoyed and don't call for a day, she calls and talks with remorse. But I'm so confused.

is this love: NO edon tire 4 u

asababoy:

[b]We've been talking on phone since then and I've been sending her money. I send her lots of money because she is still at varsity and no parents to take care of her finances.[/b]What do you guys think?

Ol boy, shine ya eyes well well ooo!

It is not love when she talks to you in anger. Is that what attracted you to her in the first place? If you want to marry her - you better let her know now. Not this one that after helping her thru school, she will come and show you her 'true love'

if she does that when shes angry it is understandable (I do it) but when she does it unnecessarily, its another thing (I did it to sack unwanted lover)

Study her and know why and when shes talks like that.

@ Delta Asaba Boy,

Taking a close look @ the Situation @ hand. I guess ya girl needs some serious under studying to determine the kind of person she is.

A girl u Love is worth sacrificing for even if she doesn't love u, but still my bro be careful and as usual no go commit o because of Love wan tin tin.

Thanks my man Abdkabir.
She's actually been so soft-spoken these days.
I think she's beginning to realize she's treated me badly enough and perhaps has seen how much I love her.
But I go dey careful, i no wan go die because of love wan tin tin.

asababoy:

Thanks my man Abdkabir.
She's actually been so soft-spoken these days.
I think she's beginning to realize she's treated me badly enough and perhaps has seen how much I love her.
But I go dey careful, i no wan go die because of love wan tin tin.

She probably needs some more money.

hmmmmmmmmm, u guys are right but sometimes its not how u think, i as i person do dat to my b-friend but not because am tired of him but just to find out somethings about him especially how his reaction will be to things like dat. But mind u i do not do dat all d time.
so my dear friend i will just advice u to tell her ur mind that u dont like d way she talks to u and not to leave her and as the other guys der in as said, take ur time to study her very well for d fact dat u said u want to marry her cos its a life contract.
wishing u d best, and b prayerful

Thanks a lot Ayenfe for the advice. I will pray strongly.
She actually does not yell at me all the time.
I also do yell at her and make her very angry sometimes.

my guy, i must tell u, u hve to be carefull. because if u intend to marry this girl and she tends to be moody, its enough to be u off. picture urself coming back late from work and meeting amoody wife i dont think i like the idea. my bros pls shine ur eye b4 its too late.

Thanks my Man Fabulous10, I will take my time and make a wise decision on whether to proceed. I am really thankful for all the advice am getting right here on nairaland.
Thanks to all of you.

Late comer 2 Thread

My Dear,

i go write this one like letter to you.

i am also from Asaba, Ogbe Osowe to be precise,

one thing i know is that we both know how our people behave ( i mean how truthful we can be), but i just need you to PLEASE reduce your spending spree a bit and watch her reactions probably for like two weeks, give her some sad news about how money is not forth coming at the moment, (watch her reaction towards you) true love ONLY tells when you are the one in need!

i just hope she has not read this,

goodluck!

08055815036

Thanks a lot rv2ii, I will try that as well.
She can't read all your contributions here because I don't think she's registered here. She doesn't check the internet at all and I try all the time to get us to chat but she always turns me down. It's ridiculous but I will try all what you guys have adviced above.
Thanks.

She dsnt use INTERNET in diz New AGE-- Nna na waoh oooo

Jaybaby, no be wah, na wahwahwah

I really tire 4 U & ur Gurlfrnd

Jaybaby be cool,
There is something you must know, Most men turn to love a lady more when she plays hard to get. I'm not exactly saying my baby is playing hard to get but if that's the case, then I can't imagine the kind of party I'll organise when she finally divulges the reason behind her difficult ways.
I've had girls before and dumped most of them because they were so easy going and submissive. This is a challenge for me now and I'm up to it.
What do you think?

See My Dear-- Tough gurls behave that same way but My Headache is Y is she cliaming Hard & dsnt use the Internet--It's Smhow---Where She @?

Wow! Jaybaby so you're still online!
You're the best. My girl is presently in Enugu doing her youth service. I know there are lots of internet cafes there. She doesn't just like going to a cafe and only gets there when we really need to chat. I think she is so reserved and decent. Remember she's s good christian.
Or what do you think?

so u love STUBORN gurls (and i pray u get one as wife - i bet u, u will put up ur home on the PROOF), having to dumped well behaved ones in the past. Huh! I cant just comprehend this, so why seeking for advise? U got what u want!

I also got a girlfriend who sometimes is moody towards me. She exhibits a hot and cold behaviour which I cannot comprehend. When she acts cold and I think she wants to break up or something, then she becomes so warm again. Any advice from the house?

Ok Ok she do browse d internet ! Good i tot U said She dsnt know anytin abt INTERNET!
Reserved & decent HUH?