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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by yhungbrowhne(m): 6:27am On Jan 19, 2018
biacan:
Too high taste
ogini what happen nah lipsrsealed
biacan:
Too high taste
ogini what happen nah
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by vicben27(m): 6:27am On Jan 19, 2018
when you live in a shiithole country! like nigeria they waste ur time b4 gaining admission , you spend six to seven yrs in. high institution becos of striks n stupid govt. policies, waste another time b4 going for 1 yr national slavry called(nysc). your done you spend another five yrs struggling to get a good job a guy is expected to marry frm the age 28 to 30yrs, but you discover that even at this age many guyz are still struggling to be stable! soo many want to settle down but the situation of this shiithole country aint favourable. most of this slay queen are looking for an already made man.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by MdRabx(m): 6:28am On Jan 19, 2018
biacan:
Any man wey want better wife material nor go run from me..... my problem nah money I nor fit marry poor person.... cause I nor won surfer for marriage..... poor guys dey give person headache too much......
you don't need a prophet to identify them.. broke business girls looking for customers.. only God know how many fake rich Alh go don run you local but no worry even with the advent of sex doll, market go still dy come for you ehn
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by yhungbrowhne(m): 6:28am On Jan 19, 2018
Most lady dont want relationship agaij jare in this Nigeria, and i cannur come abd get HBP
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by yhungbrowhne(m): 6:30am On Jan 19, 2018
octopusfreaky:
Bf is 10 yrs older Dan me and I had to break up with him Still waiting for Mr right
that one mo be bf again mah sugar daddy b dat
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:33am On Jan 19, 2018
in my mid 30's and na low financial ability na im dey worry me
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by williamdeluxe(m): 6:36am On Jan 19, 2018
I'm fabulous, and I haven't found anyone equally as fabulous, that's why.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Walexybobo(m): 6:37am On Jan 19, 2018
Ja itanna ton tan.
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by collinxraver(m): 6:48am On Jan 19, 2018
Introverted
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Dafreeguy(m): 7:08am On Jan 19, 2018
biacan:
Too high taste
big problem
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 7:35am On Jan 19, 2018
Haven’t met anyone in a while that will make me want to take that step.

Not like I’m picky, but lots of guys these days have no depth to them.

I don’t expect to find everything in one man, but he should at least be able to hold a conversation.

Have an open mind, not be too religious. I dislike overly religious people, most of them tend to be hypocrites, and I don’t want him giving my children’s future to his pastor. They don’t look at things from a logical perspective.

At the end of the day, I guess I just haven’t found what I’m looking for. I’ve actually tried, but not there yet.

I know lots of people came from dysfunctional homes, evident by the adults we now have, but I want a good marriage.
My parents were a very happy couple, I saw that growing up, my dad is a very kind man, he loved my mum.

He is a very intelligent man, kind, humble, growing up we didn’t have work that was meant for women. He could do everything we were expected to do. First pepper soup and alcohol I tasted was from my dad. He taught me how to cook soup sef.

He protected, provided,supported. He made sure we all grew up to be independent adults, irrespective of our gender.

My father has depth. I guess Growing up around such a male figure has made it hard to settle for less.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Lumig: 7:36am On Jan 19, 2018
biacan:
Any man wey want better wife material nor go run from me..... my problem nah money I nor fit marry poor person.... cause I nor won surfer for marriage..... poor guys dey give person headache too much......
... rather think of a way not to become a source of problem tó your partner, not the other way round
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by tokzy205(m): 7:49am On Jan 19, 2018
biacan:
Any man wey want better wife material nor go run from me..... my problem nah money I nor fit marry poor person.... cause I nor won surfer for marriage..... poor guys dey give person headache too much......
Y don't u make ur own money instead of relying on ur future hubby to handle all d financial stuff, is marriage financial institution ?
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by thanormallooney: 7:53am On Jan 19, 2018
Can you share your definition of a poor guy?
biacan:
Any man wey want better wife material nor go run from me..... my problem nah money I nor fit marry poor person.... cause I nor won surfer for marriage..... poor guys dey give person headache too much......
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by 3mmyz(m): 7:56am On Jan 19, 2018
Finding a honest one.
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nickymezor(f): 7:57am On Jan 19, 2018
lefulefu:
Don't want to get high blood pressure yet
hmmmm smiley
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by iamtardey: 8:00am On Jan 19, 2018
still waiting for my sex doll to arive

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 19, 2018
need a relationship that is not based on sex. he doesn't want sex when he says he misses me, he just miss me

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by mhizcovy(f): 8:22am On Jan 19, 2018
He hasn't found me yet#dunno y!!!!hop he's not waiting till I clock 30 before he comes#cos I must have enter obodo oyibo by den ooo

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by thanormallooney: 8:28am On Jan 19, 2018
what do you do when you have that emotional connection? read the bible or you just turn it off like a switch?
Just curious?
gloria34:
need a relationship that is not based on sex. he doesn't want sex when he says he misses me, he just miss me
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 8:33am On Jan 19, 2018
Nickymezor:
hmmmm smiley
heyy beautiful wink wink wink wink

Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by blueivy8: 8:37am On Jan 19, 2018
some girls might reject their friend's ex proposal due to 'he dated my best friend so I can't date him'biko is it wrong to date ur friend's ex or not?
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 8:38am On Jan 19, 2018
thanormallooney:
what do you do when you have that emotional connection? read the bible or you just turn it off like a switch?
Just curious?
never said it is a relationship without sex but it shouldn't b centered on sex. I want to b able to spend time with him without sex on our minds, I want to hear him say he loves me and misses me without hinting 4 sex. I want it all, be it attention, love, sex, honesty, faithfulness, just everything. won't settle 4 less cos I can't give less

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Litbaby: 8:39am On Jan 19, 2018
Waiting for someone to ask me out

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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Oaustine05(m): 8:50am On Jan 19, 2018
Reasonabledoubt:
Haven’t met anyone in a while that will make me want to take that step.

Not like I’m picky, but lots of guys these days have no depth to them.

I don’t expect to find everything in one man, but he should at least be able to hold a conversation.

Have an open mind, not be too religious. I dislike overly religious people, most of them tend to be hypocrites, and I don’t want him giving my children’s future to his pastor. They don’t look at things from a logical perspective.

At the end of the day, I guess I just haven’t found what I’m looking for. I’ve actually tried, but not there yet.

I know lots of people came from dysfunctional homes, evident by the adults we now have, but I want a good marriage.
My parents were a very happy couple, I saw that growing up, my dad is a very kind man, he loved my mum.

He is a very intelligent man, kind, humble, growing up we didn’t have work that was meant for women. He could do everything we were expected to do. First pepper soup and alcohol I tasted was from my dad. He taught me how to cook soup sef.

He protected, provided,supported. He made sure we all grew up to be independent adults, irrespective of our gender.

My father has depth. I guess Growing up around such a male figure has made it hard to settle for less.
Hmmmmmmm...... I like u already, may i know you please?
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by makahlj2: 8:52am On Jan 19, 2018
Bcause I bought a sex doll.
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by mhisbliss(f): 8:57am On Jan 19, 2018
zicoraads:

More like waiting on a guy with a Range undecided
you're totally entitled to your opinion smiley
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by 3mjay(m): 8:58am On Jan 19, 2018
Amakavula:
Had this discussion today. What's the true reason you are still single ?

pick one :

Too high a taste ?

Zero financial ability ?

Awkward and introverted, hate to go out ?

Low self esteem ?

Don't want you race ?

Village People ?

parents ?

Ambition ?

Others ? Explain.. below.


Waiting for Buhari to complete his term so I cn take over and then settle down. Maybe at the age of 45 or 50.
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Oaustine05(m): 9:00am On Jan 19, 2018
gloria34:
need a relationship that is not based on sex. he doesn't want sex when he says he misses me, he just miss me
Well, u're not wrong in your taste, u'll be d very protective type.
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by thanormallooney: 9:10am On Jan 19, 2018
Clarified...but that shouldn't be hard to find, except one thing on your list that difficult. Some are not there yet.
gloria34:
never said it is a relationship without sex but it shouldn't b centered on sex. I want to b able to spend time with him without sex on our minds, I want to hear him say he loves me and misses me without hinting 4 sex. I want it all, be it attention, love, sex, honesty, faithfulness, just everything. won't settle 4 less cos I can't give less
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by easymanofdpeopl(m): 9:12am On Jan 19, 2018
Ambition
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by reservd(m): 9:12am On Jan 19, 2018
gloria34:
need a relationship that is not based on sex. he doesn't want sex when he says he misses me, he just miss me
If only ur location was close-by

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