Dear ma,

Please I need help urgently before the worse happen in my marriage.
I was happy before i got married and even after the first two years things were still okay. But now I don’t know who I offended. I need your collective counsel and prayers to God to see me through this trying times.
Dave was one of my admirers and toasters when I finished secondary school. I actually didn’t accept though I liked him then,but I felt I was still young to get involved in any relationship that will distract me.I got born again shortly after my Jamb result came out. I was always in church because I needed a miracle to gain admission, hence I was always seeing the pastor after serve to remind him to pray for my admission, that was how my pastor and his wife took interest in me. When I gained admission to university we became very close and they were of immense support to me all through my university days. I graduated with a good grade, thanks so much to the man of God for always calling and reminding me of the reason I was in school. He and his wife were so encouraging.

I got a good job immediately I pass out from youth service. And six months down the line I met Dave in a fast food, we exchange numbers and before I new it, we were dating. In another six months he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted. I was 24 years old then.
Excitedly I told my pastor the following Sunday. He, seems not happy from his expression, but then I cared less.


He requested to see Dave. I knew that was not possible because of his(Dave) personality. When I told him, he was upset, started venting all manner of things. saying what right has my pastor over me, is he my father, or am I having something with my so called pastor. That was how I stopped the church to prove to him I didn’t have anything to do with the pastor. I also stop answering my pastor’s calls.
We had our introduction and traditional marriage and I immediately moved in with him. One year later we had a son after which I started seeing strange behaviour, keeping late night, getting drunk and nagging about everything and anything became habitual. Sometimes, I hear things like your are unkept, not looking attractive and pretty any more, my food don’t taste well……etc


Things got worse when he lost his job. He is always drunk now....Read More



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sorry ma'am,for all your problems. But as a child of God,i think u should have the spirit of God in you,you should be able to desern. Dave was not the will of God for u,and i don't even remember you saying you prayed before saying yes to his proposal.

In marriage we put God first.sister I believe is still early you kneel to God in prayer secondly try to ask your pastors forgiveness I believe he can back you up in prayer too.

Dear Lady,
Thank you for trusting us to provide you sound counsel .
First of all, God is not punishing you . You have to understand that life is governed by principle of which you either work by it or face the penalty.
Your pastor who brought you up academically and spiritually tried guiding you aright but you disobeyed. This may not have been the case if you had listen .
My candid advice is to reunite with your pastor first . Ask for forgiveness . He will join you in praying . The heart of a king is in the hand of lord. Make him a prayer point . Also forgive yourself. No matter how you blame your self , nothing will work out.

ORAGBON:


Dear ma,

Please I need help urgently before the worse happen in my marriage.
I was happy before i got married and even after the first two years things were still okay. But now I don’t know who I offended. I need your collective counsel and prayers to God to see me through this trying times.
Dave was one of my admirers and toasters when I finished secondary school. I actually didn’t accept though I liked him then,but I felt I was still young to get involved in any relationship that will distract me.I got born again shortly after my Jamb result came out. I was always in church because I needed a miracle to gain admission, hence I was always seeing the pastor after serve to remind him to pray for my admission, that was how my pastor and his wife took interest in me. When I gained admission to university we became very close and they were of immense support to me all through my university days. I graduated with a good grade, thanks so much to the man of God for always calling and reminding me of the reason I was in school. He and his wife were so encouraging.

I got a good job immediately I pass out from youth service. And six months down the line I met Dave in a fast food, we exchange numbers and before I new it, we were dating. In another six months he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted. I was 24 years old then.
Excitedly I told my pastor the following Sunday. He, seems not happy from his expression, but then I cared less.


He requested to see Dave. I knew that was not possible because of his(Dave) personality. When I told him, he was upset, started venting all manner of things. saying what right has my pastor over me, is he my father, or am I having something with my so called pastor. That was how I stopped the church to prove to him I didn’t have anything to do with the pastor. I also stop answering my pastor’s calls.
We had our introduction and traditional marriage and I immediately moved in with him. One year later we had a son after which I started seeing strange behaviour, keeping late night, getting drunk and nagging about everything and anything became habitual. Sometimes, I hear things like your are unkept, not looking attractive and pretty any more, my food don’t taste well……etc


Things got worse when he lost his job. He is always drunk now....Read More



http://livelystones.com.ng/god-punishing-marriage-sins-servant/

God first in everything. You have to truly reconcile with you pastor. he probably was seeing this ahead of you and you.....

rebirthforgoody:
In marriage we put God first.sister I believe is still early you kneel to God in prayer secondly try to ask your pastors forgiveness I believe he can back you up in prayer too.

Jochabed:
sorry ma'am,for all your problems. But as a child of God,i think u should have the spirit of God in you,you should be able to desern. Dave was not the will of God for u,and i don't even remember you saying you prayed before saying yes to his proposal.