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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by xlander(m): 6:42pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:


It is possible but with money. All the people I am contacting said N50k. I only have 20 and there's the fear of being scammed

I am just troubled. The online portal is still open but only security and marital options showing

The most effective way to redeploy now is by DG Directive which will cost you some money depending on where you want to redeploy to.
You will be charged more for high profile states like Lagos.
Be mindful, there are more scammers than genuine people out there. it is important to state that redeployment is officially closed for now so there are only few people that can help.
BE CAREFUL
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by samsono30: 6:45pm On Jan 07, 2018
If u like don't find a way of redeploy back to south before Fulani herdsman come and chop off your head. As if you don't know what is going on in this country. a word is enough for the wise.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by SuperSuave(m): 6:55pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:


Bro, I can't even sleep again. Though I lied to her that where I am is good, honestly to get even paracetamol you must travel to the next town. Na bush I dey
where you dey for Kwara?
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..


What matters most about nysc is the experience and not location ....
You only have one mother,if you can redeploy do it ..
What will it cost you ? Nothing.....if she ends up in hospital over high bp shebi you will be forced to look for a way back
Please do it .you don't have to be around her but the fact that she knows you are just a stone throw is okay...
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:


And risk being queried and possibly service extension. Right now, I can't move till relocation is approved.

The portal doesn't even option for health.

Tell you mum that they won't allow you back home except neighbouring state. .I also feel you should contact your colleagues they definitely. Will know of one person for sure who isn't a scammer ..you can GI e him the 20 and promise balance when it clicks abi?
You ma sef you know you are not enjoying the place so your mum does have strong spirits and instincts
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by emmydoaka: 7:11pm On Jan 07, 2018
shocked
Are u still under mother's apron?
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by missyojo(f): 7:25pm On Jan 07, 2018
Poster, if I may ask where in Kwara State are you serving because I stay in the state and it's peaceful. There hasn't been any record of violence or any sort here. So I wonder why your mum is worried about your safety here.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Chiedu4Trump: 7:32pm On Jan 07, 2018
Misterdhee1:

Oga, are you igbo, yoruba or a south southerner? Because the last time I checked igbos don't have oil and prefer living in Ile Hausa and Ile yoruba to their home.


Check Oil producing states in Nigeria 2017.
3 are South-East grin
See https://www.naija.ng/1096390-oil-producing-states-nigeria-2017.html

NOT ONE STATE IS FROM THE NORTH. grin
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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jan 07, 2018
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NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..




Brother, You are a man and have to learn how to do things like a man. Life started since you entered school, especially now. If you get married or probably work far away from home so you will resign from your work or pack home because of her?
I am also a serving Corp member in this state having months by God's grace to round up. Apart from the economic situation or status of the place, the state is peaceful and safe. I travel whenever I want or festive period back to the South South so man up.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..



Brother, You are a man and have to learn how to do things like a man. Life started since you entered school, especially now. If you get married or probably work far away from home so you will resign from your work or pack home because of her?
I am also a serving Corp member in this state having months by God's grace to round up. Apart from the economic situation or status of the place, the state is peaceful and safe. I travel whenever I want or festive period back to the South South so man up.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by DNA9(m): 7:35pm On Jan 07, 2018
joinnow:


Naso one Corper impregnated two sister. Nysc cone dey divide my guy allowee into 3. One part for him and the other two for the two sister

Lol.thats the life the idiot choosed for himself. Mak him thank God say dem no run am jas.

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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by placeofallure(f): 7:46pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:


Bro, I can't even sleep again. Though I lied to her that where I am is good, honestly to get even paracetamol you must travel to the next town. Na bush I dey

Aww! I'm soooo touched. Many of the people here won't know what it is she is feeling like right now. Even you must be in some kinda trauma knowing she's not been herself. I think redeployment is also possible on compassionate grounds too. Find out and try all your possible best to go be with her.

This NYSC self! It's high time we scrapped it!

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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by ImaIma1(f): 8:17pm On Jan 07, 2018
Try and make your mum understand that she cannot just stifle your life because she is missing you. Are her dreams as a result of over thinking during the day? When you go back to her what are you going to do there?

And she is trying to blackmail you saying she will kill herself. This may be a mother-son relationship but it is not healthy. If she is scared, she should be praying for you and asking God to protect you whereveryou are. What if you go back and something happens to you while you are there? Or is she able to protect you from any occurrence?

I think you should focus on your service and pray for God's protection.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Analysiscorner: 8:46pm On Jan 07, 2018
Please, redeploy back to the south. Before then, be serious with Christ, if you are a christian.
Also, visit her beforethe redeployment takes effect.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Worksunlimited: 9:37pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..


Every ppa has a clo.. Call your clo asyd (hopefully he is matured enough) and ask him for help with your Z.I or L.I
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Arckeen: 9:40pm On Jan 07, 2018
middlebelter:
Don't miss the experience of staying away from home on account of National Service for one. My humble suggestion, I travel home, is to have a robust discussion with her, and let her know you are safe and also keep safe anyway. Promise to be calling her every day or two days, pray with her on phone in the morning before going out each day and you can be sure she will be comfortable with your stay in Kwara.
I schooled in Kwara State and spent close to 10years years there, it is only of the safest states I in this country. I swear my man! Kwara na cool city .
Be of good courage, but it shall be well with you.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Worksunlimited: 9:58pm On Jan 07, 2018
NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..


Every ppa has a clo.. Call your clo asyd (hopefully he is matured enough) and ask him for help with your Z.I or L.I..

Kwara is not so bad a place, at least e better pass some places I know..

People like me wey serve in the real north nko, wetin you wan make we/dem do!?

Let me tell you a story...

I almost got killed during NYSC, survived and returned home; after one year NYSC and One extra year working in the same place I served..

Only for my mum to call me aside one day, that she once had a bad dream about me while I was serving and she saw me dying/been killed (N.B- never told her bout the incident)

Did she call me after the dream, while i served!? Nope.

MuMsy woke up in the middle of the night after her dream, reached for her Bible, read some powerful Scriptures (Isaiah, Psalms, etc) and then went on her knees, covered her hair, and engaged in spiritual warfare via prayer and cabashing on my behalf...

I am definitely alive today cos of her intervention.

What am I saying..!? Tell your mum to hit the Bible/Quran/whatever it is you believe in (to God hopefully cos He is the only way) and pray on your behalf.. She should also enjoin your pastor or imam or whatever physical personality you believe in to join her in praying for you.

My 2 kobo though.

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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by notoriousbabe: 10:22pm On Jan 07, 2018
That's what happens when you're still sucking your mother's breasts
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by TalkingBird: 11:29pm On Jan 07, 2018
Dreams? Not the reason.

However, “The shrewd one that has seen the calamity has concealed himself; the inexperienced that have passed along have suffered the penalty.”—Proverbs 27:12.
so says the Bible. You must trust it.

Act wisely
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by golor(m): 11:57pm On Jan 07, 2018
Don't mind people talking of experience outside your state , you can catch real fun when you are coming from home . do you know how ? You can spend all your allowee and still have hope of meal from home.



I am a serving corper , I am servicing right from my parents house , I can walk down to my ppa without a fare . though I didn't work my service to pH but I worked my ppa close to my fathers house causes my parents lived here . I schooled at uyo , they posted me to rivers then I worked my ppa to my house .


Tell me do senator and governors son talks of experience? All that are dead hope .. Do all means to redeploy jor, I would have paid the 50k to serve from house , cause you will end up spending all the allowee for feeding yet it won't be enough ..if the redeploy no work ...

You talk to your principal to give him part of your allowee then you ghost am , every month you go do clearance chikina

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Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Logunshina: 12:27am On Jan 08, 2018
Abeg, who has original herb for Jedi-Opa eyin?
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 6:02am On Jan 08, 2018
missyojo:
Poster, if I may ask where in Kwara State are you serving because I stay in the state and it's peaceful. There hasn't been any record of violence or any sort here. So I wonder why your mum is worried about your safety here.

Koro. Kogi border
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by lereinter(m): 6:35am On Jan 08, 2018
nothing do kwara as a corp member
which area were u posted to

Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by pyman11(m): 8:00am On Jan 08, 2018
if u have 50k....u will be relocated immediately and it is not scam....contact me on 07037036247
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 08, 2018
amnesty7:
Mamma's boy! So if Chevron should employ you after service and post you to Rivers State, she will still be worried cos gunmen kill people there?

He isn't a mama's boy, not really his fault, but you know how women can emotionally blackmail you.

Some parents are just too over-protective.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by SFTW: 12:07pm On Jan 08, 2018
NyscTroubled:


And risk being queried and possibly service extension. Right now, I can't move till relocation is approved.

The portal doesn't even option for health.

Since you are serving in a rural area you can redeploy, just send me a PM, I will give you options and yes it's FREE and not charging. Had an identical case two years ago with a friend
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by frozen70(f): 8:13pm On Jan 09, 2018
NyscTroubled:
Good morning. I am under immense pressure from my mom to redeploy back to the southern part of the country.

Here's the story

I am the only child of my mom and I am Serving in Kwara, batch B stream 1. Initially, when I first printed call up letter and saw Kwara, I didn't want to report to camp but she convinced me that it wasn't bad. After all it's just for a year and I can take care of myself.

Now barely 3 months into service, she has been calling me almost everyday crying that i redeploy back to the south. She keeps saying she's having recurring bad dreams for over 3 weeks about where I am. Calls me more than 10 times daily to check on me.

Now I afraid because of her blood pressure. I mean I have travelled before and left home for years but this hasn't happened. She already called this morning crying. My grandma too had to call me crying and accusing me of wanting to kill her daughter. Looks like she is overly depressed. They And she keeps saying if something happens to me she will kill herself.

Please, guys what do I do?
She has never requested anything from me before.
Is family pressure enough reason to redeploy back south?
If yes how do I go about it?
Omo am just 23 and can't bear the thought of something happening to her because she's all I really have..

You might not know what you mean to her but let me say it to you. You are the only reason she is alive. Pls find a way by all means and redeploy yourself very close to her to avoid stories what touches the heart.
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Danaire(m): 9:21pm On Jan 09, 2018
Are you christians? If yes. Does your mom really believe God Almighty exist? If yes. Has she been the protector & guide of her family? If no. How then does she relate with the God she knows/thinks exist? Why don't she commit you to the protection/safety of God Almighty who knows all? If you also believe in God Almighty, ask Him to protect you till you pass outta your service year.

Believe it! Speak it! Act it! God will confirm it!
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Danaire(m): 9:33pm On Jan 09, 2018
frozen70:

You might not know what you mean to her but let me say it to you. You are the only reason she is alive. Pls find a way by all means and redeploy yourself very close to her to avoid stories what touches the heart.

How did you make such a despeakable comment? What were you thinking? What about barren women who are still alive or the ones who lost their child/children and are still alive? Who do they live for or what is their reason for still staying alive?
Rather than encourage her to encourage her Mom to be strong and believe God will protect and guide her through her service year, you are talking fear into her.
What about those corpers who died on road accident? Did they ask/plan for it? God is the giver and protector of life. Encourage her to encourage her Mom that nothing will happen to her, that God is her protector!
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by Nobody: 7:01am On Jan 10, 2018
lereinter:

nothing do kwara as a corp member

which area were u posted to

Kogi border
Re: My Mother Is Pressurizing Me To Redeploy Home. Please Help by olac21(m): 8:23am On Jan 10, 2018
NyscTroubled:


Bro, I can't even sleep again. Though I lied to her that where I am is good, honestly to get even paracetamol you must travel to the next town. Na bush I dey
Where in kwara??

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