Jochabed:
Am happy for you,those negative behaviours are actually controlled by spirits.

LoJ:


As far as I am concerned, I dont watch porn, and I am not advocating for porn. I am simply defending a truth, for people usually mistake their religious upbringing for morality.

Jochabed:
Am happy for you,those negative behaviours are actually controlled by spirits.

nonye6194:



I think your signature is a bit conflicting


at some point it's talking about sexual purity in my understanding is abstinence from sex.

then the final hashtag then says #Sextillmarriage, which means engaging in sexual activity until you exchange marital vows.

hope you understand the difference and correct it. enjoy your 2018

taylor88:
We tired of hearing all these quits






No be anybody him soap finish





Him go rush come nairaland say he quits

taylor88:
We tired of hearing all these quits






No be anybody him soap finish





Him go rush come nairaland say he quits

yungEX:

Spirit Kor... Sprite ni. Someone on his own free will decided to maturbate u say na spirit

Brunosamel:
Do you know in a typical ejaculation, there are enough sperm cells to impregnate the ENTIRE FEMALE POPULATION OF NIGERIA. The cost of producing such a high quality product is about a THIRD of your daily energy. Many of your internal organs are taxed and strained during production of sperm cells. That is A LOT of energy. After ejaculation, your body immediately begins to start manufacturing more sperm. After ejaculating, you may notice that you feel weaker, more tired, and your highest aspirations are to crack open a beer and watch TV
Here is the side effects of ejaculation

I’ve made a list of common feelings that some may feel after masturbation and ejaculation .
Results may vary:

Tired, sleepy............................ Unmotivated
Random erections.................... Lethargic
Weak, low, dull voice.... Wasting time/money on pornography
Anti-social, introverted, withdrawn.. Afraid to ask women out
Low libido............. . Perverted view of women, unrealistic
Afraid of conflict.............. Poor Sex performance
Avoid interactions...... Loss of sensitivity, less intense climax
Feeling of a lack of power........... Sore “member”
Pain/tissue damage...... Missing opportunities with women
painful urination from rough masturbation habits...Guilt/dirty feeling

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve missed GREAT opportunities with women simply because I had a lack of motivation from looking at porn and masturbating. It sucked, and in order to deal with it, I would look at more porn to make myself feel better. Talk about a vicious circle.

Finally I called it a quit the the help of God and books I was able to take control of my unconscious and conscious mind and put it to higher use.

AccessME:
Masturbation is Sore, Evil and Barbaric

It made me spend an extra year in School!

I still regret what masturbation did to me even till date

ubunja:
talking about how masturbation saps energy and sperms
do you have any idea the amount of energy required to keep a wife sexually satisfied.
lmfaooo those things you listed are child's play.

samfrancis1:
how I wish you know what you're saying or understand enough about masturbation

nothernstar:
Some girls hardly get wet. And that makes me find solace on masturbation. I've have tried so many times and ask her if she doesn't like me so that we can call it quits, but she insist on me. She is not stressed, she doesn't have another boy friend that satisfies her yet she hardly get wet each time we meet. Pls is this a medical condition. I've asked so many ppl and they said some ladies are like that. This is why I masturbate. Pls help

Brunosamel:
Do you know in a typical ejaculation, there are enough sperm cells to impregnate the ENTIRE FEMALE POPULATION OF NIGERIA. The cost of producing such a high quality product is about a THIRD of your daily energy. Many of your internal organs are taxed and strained during production of sperm cells. That is A LOT of energy. After ejaculation, your body immediately begins to start manufacturing more sperm. After ejaculating, you may notice that you feel weaker, more tired, and your highest aspirations are to crack open a beer and watch TV
Here is the side effects of ejaculation

I’ve made a list of common feelings that some may feel after masturbation and ejaculation .
Results may vary:

Tired, sleepy............................ Unmotivated
Random erections.................... Lethargic
Weak, low, dull voice.... Wasting time/money on pornography
Anti-social, introverted, withdrawn.. Afraid to ask women out
Low libido............. . Perverted view of women, unrealistic
Afraid of conflict.............. Poor Sex performance
Avoid interactions...... Loss of sensitivity, less intense climax
Feeling of a lack of power........... Sore “member”
Pain/tissue damage...... Missing opportunities with women
painful urination from rough masturbation habits...Guilt/dirty feeling

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve missed GREAT opportunities with women simply because I had a lack of motivation from looking at porn and masturbating. It sucked, and in order to deal with it, I would look at more porn to make myself feel better. Talk about a vicious circle.

Finally I called it a quit the the help of God and books I was able to take control of my unconscious and conscious mind and put it to higher use.

ilemona4u:
I recommend this book if you are finding it hard to stop porn viewing/marsturbation ; " As a man thinketh" by James Allen. download the audio version or read the whole text aloud while recording your own voice with a your phone or a recorder. stop yourself every 5 or 10mins and save what u have recorded, then start a new session till u finish the whole book which is not very bulky. Now, make sure u listen to this recorded speeches of yours everyday with an earpiece ( morning and night) and anytime u feel u arre about to have that evil urge to masturbate or watch porn. If you are consistent and always listen to this regularly and always even when u arre free and not doing anything. I promise you, u will HATE masturbation and porn viewing with passion. You wiuld even b angry at yursef for every moment u have ever masturbated. ... This book does not explain the dangers of this evil act directly, but it rather explains how corrupt, confused, animalistic and impure thoughts makes a man descends below the level of the beast and how pure, righteous, well -directed, and noble thoughtsmakes a man ascends . I have been reading this book over and over again since November last year, and my thoughts have changed radically, I am now able to do things I never thought I would b able to. Infact I recommend this book for every youth. Thanks.

Kingsley10000:
THE TRUMPET WILL BLOW SOON

Dedeoma:


It's common for nairaland to talk about the effects of masturbation and porn of male individuals. Is that to say it has no consequences on the female gender??

ooshinibos:



masturbation ( don't feel condemned ) can resolved sexual tension in other not to do adultery or fornication , it is the porn that you are watching habitually that is actually the problem ..
will you rather fornicate than do masturbation , I don't Condon both in case you are wondering

lastchild:
What do you mean by missing opportunity with women?

@topic... The moment you realize that masturbati0n is not just a habit but a silly demon living inside you then your freedom becomes available

Masterclass32:


Keep up the good work. Masturbation is a ghastly habit. The cost is far greater than the momentary pleasure. It affects all areas of life - sexually, socially, emotionally, health-wise, spiritually. May hinder productivity in job or career.

Having actual sex is better, with a faithful partner, preferably in marriage. Cos indiscriminate sexual relations has its danger too.

sinola:

...Ops,could you be kind enough to share the names of those books that helped you overcome the habit if you wouldn't mind.i wish to recommend them to some guy.
Thank you

pennywys:
Op u d see road so

LotusFan:
Dear LoJ, you clearly stated “There is nothing wrong with porn or masturbation.” This statement leads me to believe that indeed, you are advocating in favour of porn and by extension the porn industry as a whole.

LoJ:

What do you mean by advocating?

I am not saying everybody should watch porn. I am simply saying, there is nothing wrong with porn. Though I dont watch it, there is nothing wrong with porn. Just as there is nothing wrong with alcohol, though I dont drink it.

Again, there is a difference between the american porn industry (which you seem to incorrectly consider the only porn industry in the world) and Porn.

InfernoNig:
Woman or no woman, you can't stop masturbation when you have blueballs....

jonero4:
na u go blow am*?

Gbemishile1:
please dont let us take masturbation as child's play becus there are a lot of young ones on this thread who are taking notes.
Masturbation negatively affects a lot of things in the life of a person,most especially the male
people who say its not bad are probably married people who masturbates maybe once in a while when madam is not at home.dont compare it to an average guy who has no wife or even girlfriend and decides to masturbate often to please himself.
Masturbation affects the body,mind and soul negatively