MY BOYFRIEND SAYS HE LOVES ME. THOUGH HE CARE FOR ME AND HE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME BUT I ALSO FEELS HE HAS A DATE OUTSIDE WHICH EACH TIME I TRY TO CONFRONT HIM, HE KEEPS TELLING ME  ITS A LIE. I SEE LOVE MESSAGES IN HIS PHONE AND HE ALSO RECIEVES SOME STRANGE CALLS BUT I DONT TAKE THEM TO BE TOO SERIOUS. BUT WHENEVER HE FINDS ANY MESSAGE IN MY PHONE, HE WILL START SHOUTING. SAYING ALL SORTS OF THINGS.

I DONT KNOW. WITH THIS LITTLE STUFF I HAVE NARRATED
DO YOU THINK THIS GUY TRULY  LOVES ME?

my dear, i believe ur not a baby, read between the lines oooh before its too late, you love this guy yes, but does he really love you, listen 99% of guy out there know no love, they are just being possesive.But come to think of it, does love truelly exist,well you can hang sha if he makes u happy.

I can assure you that you will never find yourself in a relationship where you will be 100% sure that your partner is not seeing someone else. Its a mind thing, I agree that your partner may have created one or two reasons to suspect him, but the truth is that suspiciousness is a thing of the heart.

My advice here is that you should be patient and deal with the relationship with all you have - that is if you love him, I assure you that even if he has a girl outside and you turn out to be better than what is outside, he will have no option than to drop all other relationship.

But when you whine, and complain and suspect and start thinking of a new relationship, then you best take this adage with you - the devil you know,

no he doesnt love U
his actions show it

move on gurl

Shtys like diz i cnt Xplin

my dear, pls just remain positive in life and i strongly believe dat anything dat makes u unhappy is not worth it. think about ur happiness first and keep a clear and open heart @ all times,i u will definately see changes, nobody either male or female is worth dying for unless proven beyond douth, cheers

intresting and funny

I'll advice u just hang on for the time being the fact's that he can't always eat his cake and have it. If u are quiting now, it's just on mere suspicion and u may realise u are wrong and begin to regret it. But if at all he's cheating on you you will surely catch him some day

HE OBVIOUSLY HE DOESN'T LOVE U
AND WHY DO SOME GURLs FALL IN DOES TRAP CALLED LOVE _{rolling eyes}
anyway move on, there are so many fish in the sea
and u are still young so don't let one fake Word CALLED LOVE tie u down
date around and am sure u find the right one

@ Omo Eko
so you dont belive in Love,
eeya!!!

Well, if na me, na fire for fire, he no get excuse for d messages wey dey him phone he con dey open mouth liek goat wey dem roast when he saw ur own messages, abeg dump his ass! fish plenty for sea! If na me, na wetin I go do be dat, forget him b4 u waste toomuch of ur time with him.

edatika:

@ Omo Eko
so you don't believe in Love,
eeya!!!

lol don't get me wrong oh, I do believe in Love
but i was just saying if a guy truly loves u he will Cherish u like his princess, u will always come first before anything else.
u will always be on his mind, even if he's sleeping

but @the topic
the way she talked about her boyfriend, i don't think he respect her or really give a dame about her.
his just using the word I LOVE U, to stop her from nagging or complaining that his cheating

all am gonna saying is when u find the one that really loves u, no one will tell you that the love of your life, your will feel it from your heart but this bf u have,u have to let him go.

Whatever u decide to do,my suggestion is that u stop the biz of invading your man's telephone or even bags,pockets or drawers because often times u r likely to see what u dont want to see.So if you love him,trust him!!

This is a case you should take seriously.
If you know he has a secrete love outside your relationship and you’re 100% positive about that, I’ll advise you to forget about that relationship it’s for your own good.
Who knows he may just be using you so it’s better to keep your eyes and ears wide open

Thankyou so much for your replies and i am promising i will keep to it. though some are hard for me but i will try.

Nduleme Thanks so much for ur message.

i really  must say
I LOVE YOU ALL and THANKYOU

Wit the way u talk about this guy,i have the feelun that u really love him and can do anything for him,if so,ot aint right for him to cheat on u,But,have u caught him on the act?
maybe he has more love in the heart than in the body(i mean he cant control himself).
The coin is two sided,u choose LEAVE HIM or STAY,
if u stay he could get better or worse,
he would get better if u show him the kind of love that'll make him bullshit everyone else
and worse if u allow u thoughts overtake ur actions
if u leave him things could get better or worse
things would get better when u meet someone better,
and things could get worse if u meer someone Worse

so

u have the coin,
toss it,

and Hope the right side falls on U.

another fool for love, its ok, just a rite of passage