I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.

mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.

fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.

Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.

December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.

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I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help.

Invite her over.

guy na new year stop being a dead guy you no know say na swag to give gal money for no reason instead make you pray to get that kind money, you dey cry about 10 k for nairaland mtchew

you were a loser the time you wasted time on a 28yr old grand mother.
you became Senior Loser when you sent a stranger you never even kissed money.i would never send a stranger even 1 cent.i dont do such dumbness.
change your number and never repeat the dumbness you did with this gal.

Na wetin good for you be dat idiot boy! If na your fellow man like you ask for money to do something tangible, you no go give am. Na light skinned woman you go dey give money. Ashawoboy like you.

You mumu so tay u just dey ignore call without telling her what she did wrong. You suppose tell her before you block her so she go learn. Dem plenty for street..looking fine but living like parasites

Ur story is somehow....Do u see her as ur gf or what bc i didnt see anywhere u said two of u met and....
If u are a philantropist.pls do it to orphans/widows etc n u will be nicely rewarded.

God love a cheerful giver
Keep giving, your reward is in heaven ...

Pls don't stop o, you're her money bank

Invite her over. Tell her to transport herself down. That you gonna refund her cash on her arrival...And see how she will run and never give u a call anymore. The gal is not even ashame of herself, when majority of her mates are in their husband's houses. Some in a serious relationship, she is still busy playing games

lol the broad is 28?? WTF is she still doing looking for small small change like some teenage girl were Don spoil?? anyway you should try hit it then split

Divay22:
God love a cheerful giver
Keep giving, your reward is in heaven ...

Pls don't stop o, you're her[b] money bank [/b]

You forgot to include ATM babe

hmm

Lies that touch the oblongata.

You see, this na the reason why I nor want all these types of girls/ladies/woman!

Izaray I sight u ooo

I understand the op he is just been nice, nothing more.op give but don't let yourself to be deceived.

Nutase:
Lies that touch the oblongata.

It can be true and also be false!
But the possibility remain's it also happen's (reality)

izaray:
You forgot to include ATM babe

Thanks hon for reminding me

Ebios:
Ur story is somehow....Do u see her as ur gf or what bc i didnt see anywhere u said two of u met and....
If u are a philantropist.pls do it to orphans/widows etc n u will be nicely rewarded.

didn't see her as anything, it was just a random act of kindness.

Divay22:

Thanks hon for reminding me

Correct!! You are welcome dear

izaray:
Correct!! You are welcome dear

See dem!

Martin0:


See dem!

Take ur time oh

izaray:
Take ur time oh

I ready for u today,so nor jus talk anyhow!

Some people were just born to suck blood and money Sha.

Martin0:


I ready for u today,so nor jus talk anyhow!

I be dey vex with u yesterday

izaray:
I be dey vex with u yesterday

Na wa oooo
Babe wetin con still sup for ma side? Yan me jor!

Op, them plenty na, females of ALL ages. Even married women sef will pull the scam.
Talk about local romance scam.
You meet today and the next day they're trying to swindle you out of chop money. The irony is that if you give the first time, thinking you're building a relationship of sorts, sorry na your name.
After the first collection, watch how she'll avoid every form of physical meet and will instead regularly message to try and swindle you one more time. Rinse and repeat for every man on her list.

Martin0:


Na wa oooo

Babe[b] wetin con still sup for ma side? Yan me jor[/b]!

You were talking too dirty on dat dp matter. And i dnt talk dirty on thursdays

izaray:
You were talking too dirty on dat dp matter. And i dnt talk dirty on thursdays

Hahahahahahahahahah

izaray:
You were talking too dirty on dat dp matter. And i dnt talk dirty on thursdays

So na make u nor reply,na wa ooo my dear,be free with life ooo, nor allow human thought not to keep u happy ooo!

Thursday's ke na wa ooo! Women of galilee!

To slap this guy just dey hungry me. How can someone be so dumb! The girl will just be making jest of you and calling you mumu while gisting with her friends. Nonsense.!

ladies = liabilities

anything above 28 , just mark register and go,

to ease ur conscience, think of what other guys might have gone through during her prime

You are a potential maga, she saw it and took advantage of it, truth is she has a boyfriend.