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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by dapomola09(m): 10:16am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. grin What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.
shut ur dirty freaking gutter u called mouth with ur absurd teeth,i wish to kno d leprosyass bleeping ur like,mumu

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by elda2303(m): 10:16am On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

Dude if you love her take the above advice...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by pafisayo(m): 10:18am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. grin What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Which law ? What made an ordinary quote a law ? What’s the basis of even confirming if the quote works all the time.
It’s like saying the patient dog eats the fatest bone.. so when a baddas bulldog is done with the flesh and decides to stick with the bone what will your Local dog do ?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by zubydave(m): 10:19am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.
No be only rule of thumb, na rule of toe. Its not all the time one attracts people of same pedestal with them, there are exceptional cases; if not very rich or smart people we all know in the world today would have married someone of their very kind. OP, like someone suggested, get her books to read and that would sharpen her reasoning.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by tonyhoney: 10:19am On Jan 21, 2018
mig007:
Just quit the relationship because it's obvious you don't love her.
He doesn't love her, He only fancy her backside and boobs. He should marry an ugly intelligent lady and go for a beautiful sex doll. That solves his problem.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Banter1(m): 10:19am On Jan 21, 2018
stilldoingokay:



local govt studies?

never head of that,


and how old is she, some times age matters OK.


and is not everybody that is interested in whatever going on in the world.
its called Local Gov't Administration. That's what the Late Northern Premier Sir. Ahmadu Bello read.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by streamsofjoy(f): 10:20am On Jan 21, 2018
Blackhawk01:


Awwwwwwwnnnn. I'm proud of you. kiss

Op, be the change you want in her. Reading is the key point, help her build a reading habit and you should work on her circle of friends. She needs to be surrounded by intellectually sound people.

It's not by like that o, will she like to change? does she agree that she needs to boost her IQ? How was she brought up? Does she like u enough to be humble enough to learn from u? These and many more are the questions u need to ask. It's not by dumping a book on her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by mamuzoOMAH(m): 10:20am On Jan 21, 2018
This is easy sha. U just need to stop her from watching Zee world, Telemundo and Africa magic epic. Those stations make someone dumb. Also encourage her to visit nairaland more. Nairaland is a home of intelligent people. Sometimes unserious, they give out useful and intelligent ideas. Tell her to visit the Politics, Foreign Affairs, Health, Religion Science and Technology Sections more. Plus others that may interest her. NNairaland will give her two sides of the story, so longs as she is open minded, she will then reason critically and eventual come to a conclusion. Tell her to Start watching CNN, Channels, NAT Geo Wild, supersport and other stations that will make someone sensible. Also like someone stated above, give her books to read. Buy her good books. Ben Carson, Steve Harvey and the likes. so Kong she's obedient and dedicated, she will improve. In all these, just stop her from watching Zee world, Telemundo and Africa magic epic.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by deturla: 10:20am On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

You can only take a horse to the river, you can't force it to drink - Mohammadu Buhari 1661

What if she doesn't like to READ BOOKS?

OP should look beyond intelligence and focus on other qualities abeg!

Shey he did not know she was not intelligent before he started dating her?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Opoki(m): 10:22am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

You can develop her. If she loves you, you will see how quickly she will blend. Chk this page on IG @MyGanjaMind

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Cyrealmusic(m): 10:23am On Jan 21, 2018
Teach her how to be intelligent .
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Ekun123: 10:26am On Jan 21, 2018
You said local Govt Studies is a useless course. it simply shows that are limited in your knowledge. Anyway, there is no way she will not be good in something. Either working with hands or cooking or other things. You will be able to advise her to further her knowledge in this area and go with your life.
You may feel like disposing her because she is your girlfriend. Ask yourself, if she is your "so-much anticipated intelligent wife to be". Will you dispose her? BEING A MAN IS NOT GETTING EVERY YOU IMAGINE IN HER, IT IS BEING ABLE TO MANAGE WHATEVER YOU FIND DEFICIENT IN HER. AFTERALL, YOU DON'T KNOW IT ALL, THAT IS WHY YOU ASKING QUESTION HERE.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by elda2303(m): 10:26am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. grin What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Don't u think its possible a meaningful r/ship wasn't what he wanted initially, he probably just wantd 2 bleep her cus he felt she would be easy but along the line he fell for her for whatever reason or simply because she has good manners & wants to keep her. So in essence u pointing out his inability to think deep could actually go either way.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by mamuzoOMAH(m): 10:26am On Jan 21, 2018
had one girl who was madly in love with me then. Beautiful and hot with a nice ass. Kept on pressuring me then. Wanted to give it a try but her intellectual level was too low. I couldn't cope with it. She couldn't even keep a convo. If it wasn't Snapchat, makeup and body show off, she wasn't interested. I tried my best all to no avail. I just sha enjoyed d Bleep, and walked away.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by OyiboOyibo(m): 10:27am On Jan 21, 2018
How old are u? pls give me ur GF number
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by nothernstar: 10:28am On Jan 21, 2018
Marry her at your own peril. Beauty is of the mind and inside. Every other thing outwardly is jara. The beautiful ones are not yet born. Don't kill yourself for this one.





















jara.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jan 21, 2018
Cyrealmusic:
Teach her how to be intelligent .

Some type of mumuness are not teachable grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by IYANGBALI: 10:29am On Jan 21, 2018
My sex doll midehi2 is very very beautiful and intelligent than your babe

Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by mgbadike81: 10:30am On Jan 21, 2018
Cowbuoy:
For a Chinese man once said...



"Beauty without Intelligence, na the Pussy go suffer pass"... grin
that quote was made by president Mugabe and not your nameless Chinese man.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by McAustin92(m): 10:30am On Jan 21, 2018
samething is happening to me..my girl's below average intellectually.... but still she's the best of all ladies that had ever crossed my path...beautiful,humble,calm,submissive and very innocent.. we'd been dating since 2014 and we'd never had a single issue ever since...which made me realize she ain't pretending.... I myself I'm not perfect.and still she sees perfection in my imperfection..cos I'm the kinda guy that don't normally gives a lady all the attention she craves for....I'm not romantic enough but bedically I'm sound....so my girl is the best and I will try my best to build her up to my taste atleast

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by kazzy4u(m): 10:31am On Jan 21, 2018
see question. ur d one dat goin to change her to ur taste
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by pweetiedee(m): 10:32am On Jan 21, 2018
ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

I don't think you are smart.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Ignatio(m): 10:32am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

You know this statement is dumb, right?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by boiz2men(m): 10:32am On Jan 21, 2018
Nasarawaboy:

Op, as the person above me stated, get her books to read, it could work you know! As for me ooo, I can't and will never marry an ugly girl simply because she's intelligent. A dull pretty lady can be worked upon, but an ugly intelligent lady? Well..... Take her to heaven and bring her back, if she ain't pretty she ain't pretty. I just hate ugly girls. Op pity your children, give them a pretty mum they can be able to flaunt. Am not saying she should be miss Nigeria, am saying let her be presentable, let her be someone you can confidently introduce to someone.
But wetin I sabi sef


How about introducing her to people and they hold you at high esteem for her beauty but not for long until she opens mouth undecided


Would you want a pretty patience Jonathan for a wife?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by sammylink: 10:32am On Jan 21, 2018
My brother don't be deceived. No woman is intelligent in marriage. They are all daft in marriage. I know of women with Phd who behave a little above babies. You are even lucky that she is well mannered.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by pweetiedee(m): 10:32am On Jan 21, 2018
donstan18:


Rule of which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.

The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.

"dates". It is date sir, not dates.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:34am On Jan 21, 2018
dollyjoy:
I think you are right m

She's absolutely wrong... Let's stop being selfish and irrational. Read this post...


donstan18


which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.

The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Cowbuoy: 10:34am On Jan 21, 2018
mgbadike81:
that quote was made by president Mugabe and not your nameless Chinese man.

OK...
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ubunja(m): 10:34am On Jan 21, 2018
pweetiedee:


I don't think you are smart.
do i care?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Snow02: 10:35am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

I like them pretty and dumb TBH if you're smart what do you need a smart girl for!?? haven't you heard of the term "opposite attracts"??
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by NifemiOlu(m): 10:35am On Jan 21, 2018
A recent research shows that there's what we call brain plasticity which means brain can 'grow'.
Get her to read life books and watch British movies (many people find them boring, you know why now).
You can bring up debate topics, teach her analysis and evaluation. She will come good. It takes though.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Mypeople2(m): 10:37am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

Sir, it is very very rare for you to see extremely beautiful ladies that are intelligent and well behaved.The best thing to do is reduce the intimacy by 80% and invest it in having meaningful discussion with her.Also buy her some books or tell her to read certain articles from the internet .In addition,reduce the number of Nollywood ,Telemudo and Bollywood movies.The amount of those movies you watch is inversely proportional to your level of intelligence. Please do not abandon her because fate brought you together for a reason. She will be forever grateful to you for being her helper

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