MizMyColi:


Ahhhhh


I see I discuss with the female version of Zicoraads, yeah?

Okay.


You are right my sister.

I have seen the truth in all you say.

You see, as a lady that is hoping to get married, I should see myself as lucky to even be considered for marriage by a man.
I should also be more than happy to sacrifice my life, my earnings and my life work to him.
Infact, I should love him and serve him with my blood if it ever gets to that.
I should also respect him, I have no right to feel under appreciated if I ever get married my sister.
No matter what he commands, I should be able to abide by it.
Anytime he wants sex, I must always be ready and willing to give him all the workable styles.
I also have to ensure I am a good cook, this will make it so that he never looks at other women.
and if perchance he cheats on me, I have to forgive him and search myself to see what I have done wrongly.

My dear, may god bless us with husband this year 2018 oooo.
It is well.

To my future husband, if you are reading this, please know that I love you with my teeth, my oesaphagus and all my intestines, in other words, I love you with my life.
Please do quick and come to me. Time is going. I don't want to be a lauging stock in the community.
Thanks My Lord.

You have killed me .

Husband is the alpha and omega. The sun rises and sets on his buttt. Don't worry yourself. Some ladies live their lives solely to be harvested in marriage. To them, marriage is salvation.

ImaIma1:


But not all ladies who washed their boyfriend's clothes,dirty dishes, bedsheets and all are married.

A guy cannot take us for granted because they want us to prove that we are wife materials. A lady should be able to add value is other ways other than becoming a maid.

Ladies are not single because they refused to be used. Personally, i didn't do any.

You keep defending what not to be defended. Well, see them at Shiloh 2025, still single and hopping around the altar with that i want a husband or i die now dance step


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ImaIma1:


You have killed me .

Husband is the alpha and omega. The sun rises and sets on his buttt. Don't worry yourself. Some ladies live their lives solely to be harvested in marriage. To them, marriage is salvation.

Our society as a whole does not help one bit.
Well, I hope they evolve, except they do not wish to live THEIR lives to the fullest.

Zykod:



Really? I've become famous for my " acts "

Gerrarohere

MizMyColi:


Our society as a whole does not help one bit.
Well, I hope they evolve, except they do not wish to live THEIR lives to the fullest.

As a married female, i think you should help the younger ladies by depicting it from the bright side. The way marriage is perceived as a hell-hole by many ladies is appalling, their insecurities and fears stinks to hell. Only insane men can tolerate their garbage as many ladies looking towards marriage feel it's a prison cell where there's no option to live and be happy, its unhealthy, we also don't want ladies who won't be happy in marriage....abiu i lie my sister donnaD?

ImaIma1:


Gerrarohere

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I add 5 more years, Shiloh 2030


Gimme a husband or i die, anyone, crippled,ugly,broke, just gimme anyone

Zykod:



As a married female, i think you should help the younger ladies by depicting it from the bright side. The way marriage is perceived as a hell-hole by many ladies is appalling, their insecurities and fears stinks to hell. Only insane men can tolerate their garbage as many ladies looking towards marriage feel it's a prison cell where there's no option to live and be happy, its unhealthy, we also don't want ladies who won't be happy in marriage....abiu i lie my sister donnaD?

u are on point.I saw this post and quietly left the thread am in no mood to start arguing with them.as they lay their bed so will they lie on it.it's only a coward that let's fear rule him or her.

donnaD:

u are on point.I saw this post and quietly left the thread am in no mood to start arguing with them.as they lay their bed so will they lie on it.it's only a coward that let's fear rule him or her.

A lot of young ladies are heaping sad stories upon sad stories telling themselves marriage is a prison, imagining the worst for themselves, the place satan wants to trap their minds.

They don't imagine falling in love with a man that will love and care for them. No, it's the one will treat them bad they keep imagining themselves with, the devil has captured many people through negative and wrong thoughts.

While they maintain this unhealthy thoughts, they can't relate with the opposite gender our ot fear, fear beocomes a significant deciding factor for them, it rules them, becomes their gods, factors into every decision they make, before the fear clears up, good men don waka pass, their left with shaft, have little or no choice, reduce their expectations, and start saying al men are scum. As usual, na hair dressing saloon the devil dey start the spread of this evil doctrine that marriage is hell, i wish them luck.

I expect to see them at Shiloh 2035 crying for any kind of husband danding like this like their lives depends on it then...In life, time counts...time...

Zykod:



As a married female, i think you should help the younger ladies by depicting it from the bright side. The way marriage is perceived as a hell-hole by many ladies is appalling, their insecurities and fears stinks to hell. Only insane men can tolerate their garbage as many ladies looking towards marriage feel it's a prison cell where there's no option to live and be happy, its unhealthy, we also don't want ladies who won't be happy in marriage....abiu i lie my sister donnaD?

I think the bulk of the work in this case lies with the guy I quoted.
You remember I quoted a particular guy's comment on this thread.
Now if that is what it means to be married in this year 2018, with all parts of my intestines, I say NO.

Being married to a guy with such mentality, for me, it is not just a hell-hole. It is a sink-hole. I should not be the cure to his inferiority and insecurity complex.

We want both the ladies and guys to be happy if they decide to get married, but you know....

It should be a matter of two HAPPY people coming together.

It should not be a case of one depending on the actions of another to help him feel good and create happiness....

My kind of person can't live with him.
mbanu.

You do not see me as wife material because of my qualities of kindness, being a true lover, valuable companion, girlfriend and the likes...
You see me as wife materal because I can wash your clothes, your dishes, and even clean your poo.

Obobs, you are on your own o

One should not lose their sense of freedom and the will to be themselves and be truly happy because of marriage.
and even if you choose to lose some of your freedom, let it be because you chose to do so, out of deep love and respect for your spouse and family, not because you were coerced or emotionally manipulated to do so.


Sometimes, really, I fail to see the importance of all that bride price and list brouhaha especially among the Igbos.
It is what makes some male folks treat their supposed better half as properties.

MizMyColi:


I think the bulk of the work in this case lies with the guy I quoted.
You remember I quoted a particular guy's comment on this thread.
Now if that is what it means to be married in this year 2018, with all parts of my intestines, I say NO.

Being married to a guy with such mentality, for me, it is not just a hell-hole. It is a sink-hole. I should not be the cure to his inferiority and insecurity complex.

We want both the ladies and guys to be happy if they decide to get married, but you know....

It should be a matter of two HAPPY people coming together.

It should not be a case of one depending on the actions of another to help him feel good and create happiness....

My kind of person can't live with him.
mbanu.

You do not see me as wife material because of my qualities of kindness, being a true lover, valuable companion, girlfriend and the likes...
You see me as wife materal because I can wash your clothes, your dishes, and even clean your poo.

Obobs, you are on your own o

One should not lose their sense of freedom and the will to be themselves and be truly happy because of marriage.
and even if you choose to lose some of your freedom, let it be because you chose to do so, out of deep love and respect for your spouse and family, not because you were coerced or emotionally manipulated to do so.


Sometimes, really, I fail to see the importance of all that bride price and list brouhaha especially among the Igbos.

It is what makes some male folks treat their supposed better half as properties .

Not true.

MizMyColi:


I think the bulk of the work in this case lies with the guy I quoted.
You remember I quoted a particular guy's comment on this thread.
Now if that is what it means to be married in this year 2018, with all parts of my intestines, I say NO.

Being married to a guy with such mentality, for me, it is not just a hell-hole. It is a sink-hole. I should not be the cure to his inferiority and insecurity complex.

We want both the ladies and guys to be happy if they decide to get married, but you know....

It should be a matter of two HAPPY people coming together.

It should not be a case of one depending on the actions of another to help him feel good and create happiness....

My kind of person can't live with him.
mbanu.

You do not see me as wife material because of my qualities of kindness, being a true lover, valuable companion, girlfriend and the likes...
You see me as wife materal because I can wash your clothes, your dishes, and even clean your poo.

Obobs, you are on your own o

One should not lose their sense of freedom and the will to be themselves and be truly happy because of marriage.
and even if you choose to lose some of your freedom, let it be because you chose to do so, out of deep love and respect for your spouse and family, not because you were coerced or emotionally manipulated to do so.


Sometimes, really, I fail to see the importance of all that bride price and list brouhaha especially among the Igbos.
It is what makes some male folks treat their supposed better half as properties.

Ofcourse this is not the case @ You see me as wife materal because I can wash your clothes, your dishes, and even clean your poo.


If you've been around the forum actively in the past 8 months or so, you'll notice the fears of ldies gravitates towards marriage been a hell-hole and it beats me where the hell they get their gospel from.


I've carefully followed even the intelligent ones here and you can hear their insecurities loud, their fears, they project more genativity than positives when marriage is concerned.


God forbid i woo any of them, especially when Nairaland romance section is their tutor, my lady, i always believe in one thing, which is we can't see everything from the starting point, many yong ladies carry too much baggage and fears about marriage, its unhealthy for the guys, and it will drain guys that intend to ask them out because they have a defective thinking/reasoning and are conditioning themselves for divorce even before a hook-up, you need talk with the younger ones orfollow their mentions, it beats my mind who will end up marrying them.


Whenvev anyone loads up defensive mechanisms against " acts ", i see such as unhealthy and not safe for loving, this is the case with many ladies thesedays. Well, their fears will keep ruling over them till they let go of it, the problem aint the men, many men are now ripened for the harvest, the ladies still wallowing in their fears and insecurities, amidst their many physilogical issues....


Even men don't want unhealthy marriages. The clarion call for cancellation of bride price is a lie, a call raised recently by many ladies for their selfish and stvpid reasons. Bride price or not, any unhealthy marriage can be dissolved...

JULIE1925:



Abeeeg, lemme think about it first..



Uumm.. I wont clean that mess.. Besides, i didn't go to his place to do the chores ..

What did u go there for?

Tallesty1:

Not true.

She doesn't know, the feminists and the sophisticated ladies are caling for cancellation of bride price so they'll be taken as full equals as the male folk with none the grater, but these entities forget or rather do not want to accept, God made the male folk the head, whether we like it or not...

MizMyColi:


Ahhhhh


I see I discuss with the female version of Zicoraads, yeah?

Okay.


You are right my sister.

I have seen the truth in all you say.

You see, as a lady that is hoping to get married, I should see myself as lucky to even be considered for marriage by a man.
I should also be more than happy to sacrifice my life, my earnings and my life work to him.
Infact, I should love him and serve him with my blood if it ever gets to that.
I should also respect him, I have no right to feel under appreciated if I ever get married my sister.
No matter what he commands, I should be able to abide by it.
Anytime he wants sex, I must always be ready and willing to give him all the workable styles.
I also have to ensure I am a good cook, this will make it so that he never looks at other women.
and if perchance he cheats on me, I have to forgive him and search myself to see what I have done wrongly.

My dear, may god bless us with husband this year 2018 oooo.
It is well.

To my future husband, if you are reading this, please know that I love you with my teeth, my oesaphagus and all my intestines, in other words, I love you with my life.
Please do quick and come to me. Time is going. I don't want to be a lauging stock in the community.
Thanks My Lord.

mycoli the much I know about you, u re not this thing u just typed here but if for any reason I have made a mistake judging and it turns out u are this.




Pls come ASAP, we need to get married

HeyBee27:
I will run away,cant take care of that shiiit.What was he thinking before messing up the whole place?he better clean his shii himself.mtcheww

somebody's future wife! ish....... omo tan!

hmmmm, the gas cylinder is ready to explode o.

Alezy:
mycoli the much I know about you, u re not this thing u just typed here but if for any reason I have made a mistake judging and it turns out u are this.

Pls come ASAP, we need to get married

Interesting..

Please tell me the much you know about me..

I will clean the kitchen, after which I will give him a serious warning because next time, i will make sure he cleans the kitchen himself

The guy must be the Lazy type..

I cook, clean and do almost everything that needs to be done. I don't joke with my hygiene.
I like everything around me clean always.

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Ofcourse this is not the case @ You see me as wife materal because I can wash your clothes, your dishes, and even clean your poo.


If you've been around the forum actively in the past 8 months or so, you'll notice the fears of ldies gravitates towards marriage been a hell-hole and it beats me where the hell they get their gospel from.

They get the gospel from Nairaland guys who show no sense of decorum, the ones who see women as a thing to be conquered, the ones who see them as good for nothing slay things.


[quote]I've carefully followed even the intelligent ones here and you can hear their insecurities loud, their fears, they project more genativity than positives when marriage is concerned.

Do you blame them? For real?

God forbid i woo any of them, especially when Nairaland romance section is their tutor, my lady, i always believe in one thing, which is we can't see everything from the starting point, many yong ladies carry too much baggage and fears about marriage, its unhealthy for the guys, and it will drain guys that intend to ask them out because they have a defective thinking/reasoning and are conditioning themselves for divorce even before a hook-up, you need talk with the younger ones orfollow their mentions, it beats my mind who will end up marrying them.

If God has forbidden as you say, why are we having this discussion? Please remind me bro...

Whenvev anyone loads up defensive mechanisms against " acts ", i see such as unhealthy and not safe for loving, this is the case with many ladies thesedays. Well, their fears will keep ruling over them till they let go of it, the problem aint the men, many men are now ripened for the harvest, the ladies still wallowing in their fears and insecurities, amidst their many physilogical issues....

And so the battle of the sexes begin..

Even men don't want unhealthy marriages. The clarion call for cancellation of bride price is a lie, a call raised recently by many ladies for their selfish and stvpid reasons. Bride price or not, any unhealthy marriage can be dissolved...

Let me ask you, what is your reason for bride price continuation?

Can't two people can't just meet each other, date for sometime, then agree that they should come together in a legally binding way?

Hashimyussufamao:
Owo epo

LOL! LWKD

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Let me ask you, what is your reason for bride price cancellation?

Zykod:



She doesn't know, the feminists and the sophisticated ladies are caling for cancellation of bride price so they'll be taken as full equals as the male folk with none the grater, but these entities forget or rather do not want to accept, God made the male folk the head, whether we like it or not...

Let me tell you a story, true story.

There was a lady, and there was this over brilliant, kind, tall light skinned, powerful (as far as being a real man goes), rich guy...no, wealthy guy

They were friends, and they loved each other.

One day, there was a discussion between them.

The lady asked him his view on feminism, and he said he is not a feminist and not a fan of feminism, because "you see these feminist, they always looking angry"

So the lady says, but you speak with so much enlightenment when you speak on women matters.

He then goes on to say, I am an Equalist.

The lady is all waowed because she has never heard of such before.

She then says that she aspires for equality when she marries, not some dude who wants to impose himself on her.

He smiles and says to her, when we come together, I will treat you more than equals do.

I would put you first.

The lady was stone surprised, and vowed to put her man first, and she also hoped to marry the ONE who will put her first....otherwise, no need for marriage

.............
My dear, learning of this story reminded me that the whole essence of marriage is love, to live fully and to love.
Define love, true love, try to live by its tenets and you will find that most of the talk we have had on this thread has been a bit of unnecessary.

Zykod:


Let me ask you, what is your reason for bride price cancellation?

I had hinted at my reason.

Tell me, what's your reason for wanting its continuity.

Zykod:



Let me ask you, what is your reason for bride price cancellation?

it makes no sense.

MizMyColi:


Let me tell you a story, true story.

There was a lady, and there was this over brilliant, kind, tall light skinned, powerful (as far as being a real man goes), rich guy...no, wealthy guy

They were friends, and they loved each other.

One day, there was a discussion between them.

The lady asked him his view on feminism, and he said he is not a feminist and not a fan of feminism, because "you see these feminist, they always looking angry"

So the lady says, but you speak with so much enlightenment when you speak on women matters.

He then goes on to say, I am an Equalist.

The lady is all waowed because she has never heard of such before.

She then says that she aspires for equality when she marries, not some dude who wants to impose himself on her.

He smiles and says to her, when we come together, I will treat you more than equals do.

I would put you first.

The lady was stone surprised, and vowed to put her man first, and she also hoped to marry the ONE who will put her first....otherwise, no need for marriage

.............
My dear, learning of this story reminded me that the whole essence of marriage is love, to live fully and to love.
Define love, true love, try to live by its tenets and you will find that most of the talk we have had on this thread has been a bit of unnecessary.

You're enlightening the younger ones, so it's not a waste, you summarized what i've been saying all along...


Stay and remain blessed

MizMyColi:


I had hinted at my reason.

Tell me, what's your reason for wanting its continuity.

No valid reason for discontinuity, males and females have been predestined roles, no need fighting it...

Humanistme:


it makes no sense.

Okay, enjoy.

Zykod:



No valid reason for discontinuity, males and females have been predestined roles, no need fighting it...

name your valid reason for continuing it na

MizMyColi:


Interesting..

Please tell me the much you know about me..

Okay, rephrased....the little much I know about you. Can't still tell anyway. That's kinda personal

Humanistme:


name your valid reason for continuing it na

lemme

divinehand2003:
A good Wife-material will clean the whole thing and even ask for his dirty clothes to wash also.

Shes your maid or your slave abi? Wash fire!!!!! I will leave it and take my drinks, eat whatever he gives me and tell him Good night.

When am not married to you, I will start washing your clothes as what na?

The ladies that washed, cooked, cleaned, made his bed and was sure that she has met her better half and my guy still marry another person wey no lift spoon for him house.