I was on my own when my mom said her pastor saw a vision about me, that I must never marry as any woman I get married to will be the one to end my life. I was in my last year in the university then and I had a girlfriend whom I had to break up with.

Fast forward to middle of last year. I got a good job, brought an SUV and began to build my house. And all of a sudden, my mother starts talking about marriage. I had to remind her about the prophesy that I mustn't marry if I don't want to die by my wife's hand. My mother started rejecting it. She said the prophesy can be changed, that she would fast and pray. I told her I was sticking with the prophesy. Since then, she has been on my neck to bring a woman home.

Last week, she brought a friend's daughter home and introduced us. The lady is 22 and has just graduated from a university in the US. When I did my little findings about her, it turned out that she has an history of violence, even back in the States. I told my mother about this and reminded her about the prophesy but my mother baffled me by trying to convince me to marry her. She says she wants a grandchild and I told her I could get a woman and pay her to be a surrogate mother. My mother said she wanted me to marry properly and have children by my legal wife. She has been on my neck and frankly, it is beginning to irritate me.

I have decided to report her to my uncles because I think she is forcing marriage on, in spite of the prophesy, because her friends' children are getting married almost every Saturday. I don't want to die.

I need your advice.

You're not interested in marriage!!!! Point taken next thread!!!

Your mum can't live your life.. you have to find your own path..

@op... pray about this yourself now and let God reveal the truth to you himself... don't swallow what most of what this 'prophets' says... hook, line and sinker all the time

Seems like the prophecy has taken flesh and visited you

In other words, you don't want to get married...

I pity those who ll allow pastors the shatter their lives for them

So make i waste time read dis tin nd advise u,,,
i dey come!

is your mom's name Susana

Yeye prophecy!

letterman:
I was on my own when my mom said her pastor saw a vision about me, that I must never marry as any woman I get married to will be the one to end my life. I was in my last year in the university then and I had a girlfriend whom I had to break up with.

Fast forward to middle of last year. I got a good job, brought an SUV and began to build my house. And all of a sudden, my mother starts talking about marriage. I had to remind her about the prophesy that I mustn't marry if I don't want to die by my wife's hand. My mother started rejecting it. She said the prophesy can be changed, that she would fast and pray. I told her I was sticking with the prophesy. Since then, she has been on my neck to bring a woman home.

Last week, she brought a friend's daughter home and introduced us. The lady is 22 and has just graduated from a university in the US. When I did my little findings about her, it turned out that she has an history of violence, even back in the States. I told my mother about this and reminded her about the prophesy but my mother baffled me by trying to convince me to marry her. She says she wants a grandchild and I told her I could get a woman and pay her to be a surrogate mother. My mother said she wanted me to marry properly and have children by my legal wife. She has been on my neck and frankly, it is beginning to irritate me.

I have decided to report her to my uncles because I think she is forcing marriage on, in spite of the prophesy, because her friends' children are getting married almost every Saturday. I don't want to die.

I need your advice.

We can work this out, it includes re-evaluating the prophecy and understanding what the Lord is trying to say to you explicitly, i believe the message is incomplete and needs to be subjected back to checks. Yes, there are scenarios where the initial prophecy your mum shared may stand, but know that first, there is a God that grants mercy, and makes way for his children to be satisfied with goodness...Can we talk in private about this and find a lasting solution to this issue? You'll get your answer within 3-5days and confirm all that you need to do...

Oya Mynd44 ...please come and comment before the sunset oh

I would suggest you stick to your mum advice.

How is your mum selfish?

The woman has probably realized that sham of a prophecy from a con artist, but you know, she just can't come out plain with the truth.

Wonna hear the truth? Prophecy be damn!