Help a Friend of Mine, who has been a Friend with this lady for some time now. They gist almost about anything, assuming the girl knows everything about him and he also knows everything about the girl. Lately he observed that she has been passing him some green light beyond friendship (Which he has been ignoring), eventually she confronted him with her proposal via WhatsApp Chat, and he pretend he didn't see the message which he knew she will still repeat it in person when they meet. The problem is He doesn't want the relationship to go beyond friendship and he doesn't want to hurt her by turning her down, any diplomatic tactics is welcome.

Waiting for the elders...

The same way men are being turned down.
Nothing special.

codelord:
Help a Friend of Mine, who has been a Friend with this lady for some time now. They gist almost about anything, assuming the girl knows everything about him and he also knows everything about the girl. Lately he observed that she has been passing him some green light beyond friendship (Which he has been ignoring), eventually she confronted him with her proposal via WhatsApp Chat, and he pretend he didn't see the message which he knew she will still repeat it in person when they meet. The problem is He doesn't want the relationship to go beyond friendship and he doesn't want to hurt her by turning her down, any diplomatic tactics is welcome.

when else she tell u physically, listen attentively to her. den "call out her name nd tell her u understand her feelings bt u don't just feel dsame FULL STOP. if she further more by askin why, "in a relaxed tone nd smiling face, "tell her u need an imperfect someone dat she is just to perfect for ur liking". she go laugh or smile. if she keep pushing for d impossible, let her knw "u would really appreciate nd love it if u guys could remain friends", say dis in a serious way lik u mean it, show d expression. den u could end it by sayin "Am sorry, I hope u wont hate me bt love me more as ur friend....after d bruhaha.. mke sure u dont stay long with her, tell her u av got to leav nw with a fake or real genuine reason.



Note: do not , under any circumstance, blame the girl or anything about the girl for why you're letting her down. Otherwise, she'll hate you for making her feel bad about herself (as well as for not realizing how amazing she is).
Also do not blame yourself, otherwise she'll view you as weak or flawed for having these foibles that made you unable to be with a woman. Instead, blame circumstances outside your or her control: u can tell her, you just ended up meeting someone and everything happened so quickly and you hadn't expected it, or your time has just suddenly gotten too densely packed and you just aren't able to be doing dating right now.

FvckShiT:

-Don't fůcking turn her the Fuçk down.Make er your "Fuçk buddie"

Sex seem everything to you.

kimbraa:
Sex seem everything to you.

-Fůcking wrong! SƏX & MŒN €¥

If don't want someone just tell the person. How else do you want to do it?

FvckShiT:

-Don't fůcking turn her the Fuçk down.Make er your "Fuçk buddie"

My nigga is back
Fvck sup homie??

luminouz:
My nigga is back Fvck sup homie??

-Fůcking hello bro! Where d Fuçk you been

FvckShiT:



-Fůcking hello bro! Where d Fuçk you been

Been on a bloodyfvvkin survivors quest....u know d morafvcking situation in dis fvvked up naija na

U been in some fvckshit jail all this while?

Hykis:


when else she tell u physically, listen attentively to her. den "call out her name nd tell her u understand her feelings bt u don't just feel dsame FULL STOP. if she further more by askin why, "in a relaxed tone nd smiling face, "tell her u need an imperfect someone dat she is just to perfect for ur liking". she go laugh or smile. if she keep pushing for d impossible, let her knw "u would really appreciate nd love it if u guys could remain friends", say dis in a serious way lik u mean it, show d expression. den u could end it by sayin "Am sorry, I hope u wont hate me bt love me more as ur friend....after d bruhaha.. mke sure u dont stay long with her, tell her u av got to leav nw with a fake or real genuine reason.



Note: do not , under any circumstance, blame the girl or anything about the girl for why you're letting her down. Otherwise, she'll hate you for making her feel bad about herself (as well as for not realizing how amazing she is).
Also do not blame yourself, otherwise she'll view you as weak or flawed for having these foibles that made you unable to be with a woman. Instead, blame circumstances outside your or her control: u can tell her, you just ended up meeting someone and everything happened so quickly and you hadn't expected it, or your time has just suddenly gotten too densely packed and you just aren't able to be doing dating right now.

Thanks Man, this is the most intelligent response so far.

Demogorgon:
Waiting for the elders...

wait a minute im village elders are they on lalaland

If you don't intend to eat chicken, no need grooming a chick

codelord:
Help a Friend of Mine, who has been a Friend with this lady for some time now. They gist almost about anything, assuming the girl knows everything about him and he also knows everything about the girl. Lately he observed that she has been passing him some green light beyond friendship (Which he has been ignoring), eventually she confronted him with her proposal via WhatsApp Chat, and he pretend he didn't see the message which he knew she will still repeat it in person when they meet. The problem is He doesn't want the relationship to go beyond friendship and he doesn't want to hurt her by turning her down, any diplomatic tactics is welcome.

Gradual Withdrawal - It always works !

Simply turn her down and she'll be good.

codelord:
Thanks Man, this is the most intelligent response so far.

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