good morning!
This issue have been bothering me alot. my gf thinks she's 2years older than me but she's actually 8years older but not obvious when we both together as she has a very young look.
now we are dating to get married as we love each other beyond imaginations...... I'm scared the truth will come out one day and I might loose her for good. how do I confess now that it's early before things go bad

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You shall say the truth and it shall set you free. She will find out such lie whether you tell her or not.Just tell it to her the way you posted it here and give her the same reason.

I don't understand

pyyxxaro:
I don't understand

which part

praiseneofingz:
which part

The lying part

why did you woo her in the first place? is it because of lust, infatuation, or your heart yern for her truly

pyyxxaro:



The lying part

oh okay.

Shedrack777:
why did you woo her in the first place? is it because of lust, infatuation, or your heart yern for her truly

my heart wants her truly and I never knew she is very older.
we were already dating when she told me her age and I was dumbfounded but it never changed my feelings for her abit.
I just lied she's 2years older than me

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praiseneofingz:
my heart wants her truly and I never knew she is very older.
we were already dating when she told me her age and I was dumbfounded but it never changed my feelings for her abit.
I just lied she's 2years older than me

ok! i got you. what you'll do is, tell her the truth, but let her know that ain't changing any of the feelings you have for her. try to pet and convice her that you really love and need her as a wife.
but don't ever tell her if she's not ok with the age she might decide her mind.
hope this works?

Bro marry her if u do love her

Shedrack777:
ok! i got you. what you'll do is, tell her the truth, but let her know that ain't changing any of the feelings you have for her. try to pet and convice her that you really love and need her as a wife.
but don't ever tell her if she's not ok with the age she might decide her mind.
hope this works?

thanks man.
maybe I will get drunk to do this lol

You must be very

Just tell her bro so u don't regret anything later on

Gf or sugarmummy?

Go and look for another. You lies just lost her.

Tell her asap

Start by telling her you have another family

When she stops shouting, tell her you were joking then that you're 8 years younger.

She will take it well

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Tell her the truth before she finds out herself

There is no two ways about it

Although, I have to be honest about something, I am amazed at how you manage to pull this off without her noticing the difference in your behavior. i mean your maturity level

You lied to her at the onset because you feared she was gonna reject you?

Hmmmm! 8 years older?, girlfriend? And you are planning for marriage?.... may God speaks to you

If u love her dnt tell her until after marriage or u dnt tell her at all.

She will nt be able to continue wit d relshp after u must hv told her. because she will always think dt u wudnt be able to marry her.

the lady would have known by now, saying she doesn't know if like giving urself hope. It's still better u tell her sha, She probably love you that's why she is turning blind eye to it.

Some ladies u old pass with 8 years self, their eyes don open pass u not to talk of the one older than you with 8 years. Tell her bro but she knows

Ask yourself if you would forgive her if she lied about her age.

Whichever way, follow your guts.

There is no right or wrong way to anything, life is all about perspectives

praiseneofingz:
thanks man.
maybe I will get drunk to do this lol

no! you have to be in your right frame of mind. just be ready to take some slaps if need be. kpele

praiseneofingz:
good morning!
This issue have been bothering me alot. my gf thinks she's 2years older than me but she's actually 8years older but not obvious when we both together as she has a very young look.
now we are dating to get married as we love each other beyond imaginations...... I'm scared the truth will come out one day and I might loose her for good. how do I confess now that it's early before things go bad

You are sick...you love her abi? really? guy better coordinate ooo

Shedrack777:
no! you have to be in your right frame of mind. just be ready to take some slaps if need be. kpele

kai

kinglover:
Hmmmm! 8 years older?, girlfriend? And you are planning for marriage?.... may God speaks to you

amenl

greiboy:
Tell her the truth before she finds out herself

There is no two ways about it

Although, I have to honest about something, I am amazed at how you manage to pull this off without her noticing the difference in your behavior. i mean your maturity level

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lala should push this thread from na I need more opinions

praiseneofingz:
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I mean I am surprised your gf did notice that she is 8years older than you? Ladies are often emotionally mature than men