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A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Mocalypse: 12:27pm On Feb 08, 2018
Lawyers and smart thinkers in the house, what are your deductions/opinion/suggestions in this type of scenario?


Lalasticlala, ishilove, Mynd44 and Dominique please do the needful.

Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Feb 08, 2018
Hmmmm, this is a consensual sex NO DOUBT.
But some girls can be so devilish.
He shouldn't curse or abuse her.
He should just apologies for not stopping, that he only wanted to cum too.
And after then, he should let her be jejely.

This kinda gals can send a nigga to jail.
Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Mocalypse: 12:58pm On Feb 08, 2018
Some of the tweeps registered their anger concerning this issue

Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Mynd44: 1:07pm On Feb 08, 2018
This case is weird and strange.

1. Before she came, she explicitly told the guy that nothing will happen. I don't know why guys forget that. She had alreaey said no before she came, when you coerce someone to change his or her mind, it is rape.

2. The issue of consent withdrawal after penetration. Even in America, states are divided on this issue. Only eight states in America actually considers continuation of sex when consent has been withdrawn after penetration rape. The other states find it to be rape if the penis goes out of the vagina and then goes back in so it is slippery but under Nigerian law, I doubt it can be called rape.

Based on these two points, yes, the guy can be charged for rape based on coercion but consent withdrawal after penetration, we will need higher authorities to clear it up

But under UK laws, yes, it is rape under both points.

But the again in point two, "After she finished coming, she started hitting my cheat and saying I should get off her……she started saying no no" so after she said "no" she even tried hitting him to make him stop yet some people think this cant be called rape?

No wonder a huge number of Nigerians outside Nigeria are in jail for rape related offences
Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Feb 08, 2018
The lady is a wicked soul,she suppose to face firing squad, imagine, U don't want the guy to release his own akamu.
Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by donstan18: 2:10pm On Feb 08, 2018
Mynd44:
This case is weird and strange.

1. Before she came, she explicitly told the guy that nothing will happen. I don't know why guys forget that. She had alreaey said no before she came, when you coerce someone to change his or her mind, it is rape.

The word "RAPE" v'got nothing to do with the combination of COERCE and CHANGE OF MIND .

Coerce: To restrain by force, especially by law or authority; to repress; to curb. The "Law" and "Authority" added there shows that it's sometimes can be legal, it's totally far from rape.

Rape: The act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent or against their will. It was a consensual sex.

So you don't call it rape, but sexual selfishness.

Mynd44:

2. The issue of consent withdrawal after penetration. Even in America, states are divided on this issue. Only eight states in America actually considers continuation of sex when consent has been withdrawn after penetration rape. The other states find it to be rape if the penis goes out of the vagina and then goes back in so it is slippery but under Nigerian law, I dout it can be called rape.

Based on these two points, yes, the guy can be charged for rape based on coercion but consent withdrawal after penetration, we will need higher authorities to clear it up

If reverse were the case, will it be rape?

Mynd44:

But under UK laws, yes, it is rape under both points.

But the again in point two, "After she finished coming, she started hitting my cheat and saying I should get off her……she started saying no no" so after she said "no" she even tried hitting him to make him stop yet some people think this cant be called rape?

No wonder a huge number of Nigerians outside Nigeria are in jail for rape related offences

It's not rape.

Did he forcefully get her undies torn before sex?

Did he threaten her before sex?

Why must it be after she must have reached orgasm?
Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 08, 2018
Rape is an unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat. So it is a rape technically

However, this is a case of banging in progress so we in the brotherhood of men beg to differ

Here is why

Ladies are always angry when a guy fail to drive them to sexual climax and sometimes use it as an opportunity or excuse to cheat, thus we think it is of utmost importance that men also get to reach climax during sex grin
Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by Mynd44: 2:57pm On Feb 08, 2018
donstan18:


The word "RAPE" v'got nothing to do with the combination of COERCE and CHANGE OF MIND .

Coerce: To restrain by force, especially by law or authority; to repress; to curb. The "Law" and "Authority" added there shows that it's sometimes can be legal, it's totally far from rape.

Rape: The act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent or against their will. It was a consensual sex.

So you don't call it rape, but sexual selfishness.



If reverse were the case, will it be rape?



It's not rape.

Did he forcefully get her undies torn before sex?

Did he threaten her before sex?

Why must it be after she must have reached orgasm?

I cant be here giving long lectures abeg.

Re: A Case Of Rape Or Selfishness? by donstan18: 3:16pm On Feb 08, 2018
Mynd44:

I cant be here giving long lectures abeg.
When you go to rome, you behave like a roman, not otherwise. cheesy cheesy

We are Nigerians cheesy

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