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ok basically this is a true story btw a girl has a friend known each other since they were kids been goin out for like 2 years nothin broken, the love is clearly there, even hopin to get married. bt then pastor tells the girl dat she must break up with him,
i know its easy to say obviously the girl should leave bt if u were in that shoe wat would u do??

I will be right back

wat? i dnt understand wat u mean

It's about time these fake Nigerian pastors stopped sticking their beaks in the affairs of others, and also stopped playing God!

If I was the girl, I'd tell that fake to go to hell, and burn to ashes!

hhmmmmmm it happened to me bt then how do u know if the pastor is fake, what if its real??//

princessde:

hhmmmmmm it happened to me bt then how do u know if the pastor is fake, what if its real??//

Knowing a fake or real is up to you. The question is why you choose to have a man or woman just like your self to speak to God for you. Once you develop your own relationship with God, then you can live without waiting for someone to tell you to hook up or break up.

Remember this nothing is guaranteed except death so live your life what ever happens happens

ure right,

I don't see how its anyone else's business but yourself who your choice of a boyfriend should be.

It's your choice, do whoever or whatever makes you happy.

The girl should take it into prayer with God. If she gets the feeling that breaking up is what God wants. Then she should try and break away. It will be hard and painful but it will probably be for her own good in the long run, honestly - it happened to me.
If she doesn't she may face consequences.

I have a true story regarding this:
I was in a relationship with a guy I loved very much (for about a year). It was not a bad relationship or anything, we cared for each other and did wholesome things together. I thought I was going to marry this guy!
Suddenly one day, after I prayed, I just got this nudging feeling that I should break up with him. I knew deep down that it was God's voice but I chose to ignore it. I did not want to lose my boyfriend and I wondered why I would get such a painful instruction. I rationalized excuses within my mind.
After about two months since I got the instructions, my boyfriend cheated on me and gave his virginity to a random girl he barely knew, a girl he met at a party. He lied to me and manipulated my emotions but I eventually found out the truth. I was devastated and slightly depressed for several months after it all happened. We ended up breaking up - something I should have done when I was 'told' to do it.
If I had listened to the 'voice', I would have avoided all the pain, anger and bitterness that came from my ex-boyfriends actions. I guess God was trying to spare me the pain, he is such a loving God. I was such a short sighted girl.
Next time I hear get that 'nudging feeling' concerning a relationship - i will 'pick' race from that relationship!

Girl846:

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Suddenly one day, after I prayed, I just got this feeling that I should break up with him. I knew deep down that it was God's voice but I chose to ignore it. I did not want to lose my boyfriend and I wondered why I would get such a painful instruction. I rationalized excuses within my mind.
it.
If I had listening to the 'voice', I would have avoided all the pain, anger and bitterness that came from my ex-boyfriends actions. I guess God was trying to spare me the pain,

erhmmmm how did u know twas Gods voice?

what did it sound like?

THE FIRST FOUNDATION OF LOVE WAS SET BY GOD ALMIGTHY WEN HE SAID:FOR GOD SO LOVED THE, THAT LOVE IS EVER INCREASING. GOD DOES NOT SPEAK TO ONE PERSON AND LEAVE THE OTHER CONFUSED.JUST BE REST ASURED THAT HE WIL OR MITE HAV GIVEN U A GLIMPS OF IT AND THEN MAKE A SEASONED M.O.G CONFIRM IT.OR HE WIL MAKE U GET AN IREVOCABLE CONVINCTION ON THE PASTOR'S DELIVERY. GOD KNOWS WATS RITE FOR OBEY IS BETA THAN SACRIFICE![/color][color=#990000]

ikamefa:

erhmmmm how did u know twas Gods voice?

what did it sound like? 

I cant describe it exactly. Its a tiny voice in your head and you will feel it and know it. Its kind of like your when conscience speaks to you?

That wasn't god, that was you having doubts about your relationship!

indie22:

That wasn't god, that was you having doubts about your relationship!

I know this may seem far fetched to you, but if your walk with God is right, you will be able to 'hear' his voice concerning certain issues.
Any strong Christian will tell you that! Its not something that is out of the ordinary, God 'speaks' to people in different ways.
Because trust me, I was having no doubts whatsoever at that point in our relationship.

Never, I love challenges

maybe the pastor thinks the guy is not bornagain,or their friendship is of a sinful nature. cos if their relationship is Godly ,the pastor will not ask the girl to quit the relationship.

indie22:
That wasn't god, that was you having doubts about your relationship!

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