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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by krushdripper(m): 1:01pm On Feb 17, 2018
I don't see anything that warrants the kind of pride Nigerian girls like to carry, them go dey form special with low intellect, weak hearts..


Only to come and spend your money and play with your emotions na im dem sabi.. Na your toto or big breast or big yansh wan gimme money make i provide for you and the family? I think naija guys are already wisening up sha..

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by labake1(f): 1:06pm On Feb 17, 2018
IYANGBALI:
a mo ra wa o,ta ba ri ra wa kiss kiss



So you offended Seun that's why you were banned from your other account
O gán o
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by hadjipapiey(m): 1:07pm On Feb 17, 2018
WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

Nice 1
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Bester44(m): 1:12pm On Feb 17, 2018
Viicfuntop:
I tell him but never use the word love. Rather I flirt with him so that he comes to me on his own. For example I stare at him a lot and once our eyes meet, I look away. That’s just the trigger that a guy needs to walk up to me.


Ok that’s a lie. I die inside.

A girl did that to me many times, and I didn't make a move. Then she moved close and said 'good morning, bro.' I then stopped her and asked for her name. Then we became friends. I didn't woo her o.

I later saw a rich woman with her and I asked if that's her mother. She said yes. Then I made this joke: " I bin dey think of how to marry a daughter of a rich woman. She will just das us a house on wedding day. Will you marry me?"

Her reply: lol. I'm engaged to a man na

Do you think this gal wants me? I like her though.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Viicfuntop(f): 1:15pm On Feb 17, 2018
Bester44:


A girl did that to me many times, and I didn't make a move. Then she moved close and said 'good morning, bro.' I then stopped her and asked for her name. Then we became friends. I didn't woo her o.

I later saw a rich woman with her and I asked if that's her mother. She said yes. Then I made this joke: " I bin dey think of how to marry a daughter of a rich woman. She will just das us a house on wedding day. Will you marry me?"

Her reply: lol. I'm engaged to a man na

Do you think this gal wants me? I like her though.


Firstly,answer this, why didn’t you make a move the first time?
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by IYANGBALI: 1:18pm On Feb 17, 2018
labake1:




So you offended Seun that's why you were banned from your other account
O gán o
you can't even keep a coded secret. Shioooooooor
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Bester44(m): 1:22pm On Feb 17, 2018
Viicfuntop:



Firstly,answer this, why didn’t you make a move the first time?

If a girl insults me, I will need days to get over it. If a girl turns me down, I may not woo another one in the next two years. This is as a result of my experiences with women. So, unless a woman says she likes me, I will never think she likes me.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Martin0(m): 1:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
trustyshoess:
Sure
oh thank you very much it a pleasure.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Martin0(m): 1:33pm On Feb 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:

Good. How are things your side?
oh we are lucky.
tinz gud.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Slikbae: 1:44pm On Feb 17, 2018
It's not about who sometimes.

I have been so deeply in love with a guy before. It was my first relationship and I was a timid shy girl. He treated me badly and we broke up and even after he broke my heart I still loved him and never said bad things about him. Kept dying in silence and he knew I still loved him.
It was later he told me we should get back together but I didn't need him anymore. I love him still but there's no guarantee he won't break my heart again.

So sometimes it's not ego.
Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside. grin

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there grin

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Feb 17, 2018
Coitus:
I can't say shiit. Not Nigerian guys mentality. If the guys doesn't say it, i ain't saying it. We all have individual differences, as for me all I care is about the ¢a$hmo₦£¥, I always have my mind on the next odogwu wink

Na your Types dem dey use do Money Rituals
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Slikbae: 1:47pm On Feb 17, 2018
I'm a lady and I agree with you. Most Nigerian ladies are shallow. As a girl, whenever I tell other girls I'm broke the first thing they say is, "can't you ask your bf for money"?
WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 17, 2018
WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

Lol & don't forget Nigeria is a 10th world Shithole nation. So everything has to be done in a Shithole ways.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by bayocanny: 1:48pm On Feb 17, 2018
Ellabae:
I feel bad whenever I see him but sometimes I have to summon courage to tell him. Good or bad smiley
Good
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Slikbae: 1:49pm On Feb 17, 2018
Hahahahahaha
Viicfuntop:
I tell him but never use the word love. Rather I flirt with him so that he comes to me on his own. For example I stare at him a lot and once our eyes meet, I look away. That’s just the trigger that a guy needs to walk up to me.


Ok that’s a lie. I die inside.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Ayus34(m): 1:53pm On Feb 17, 2018
Coitus:
I can't say shiit. Not Nigerian guys mentality. If the guys doesn't say it, i ain't saying it. We all have individual differences, as for me all I care is about the ¢a$hmo₦£¥, I always have my mind on the next odogwu wink

I understand your point....but if the guy can express his feeling,ladies should have equal Right, our society is so funny and most especially the guy, many abuse this,thinking the lady is flirt which is not, I see such lady as courageous and honest..... Its high level of hypocrisy and dishonesty to see what you like and pretend as if you don't....as a guy I always see it as a privilege.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by AzuNas: 2:01pm On Feb 17, 2018
Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside. grin

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there grin
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Gangster1ms: 2:03pm On Feb 17, 2018
Slikbae:
It's not about who sometimes.

I have been so deeply in love with a guy before. It was my first relationship and I was a timid shy girl. He treated me badly and we broke up and even after he broke my heart I still loved him and never said bad things about him. Kept dying in silence and he knew I still loved him.
It was later he told me we should get back together but I didn't need him anymore. I love him still but there's no guarantee he won't break my heart again.

So sometimes it's not ego.
Ur case is different.. u did the right thing and i understand cos i know how guys can be.. they'll take advantage especially if they are not matured enough.. but like u said, sometimes it's not ego.. the keyword is sometimes.


Most times it's ego smiley

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Feb 17, 2018
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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by mcvities(m): 2:21pm On Feb 17, 2018
There are a lot of things surrounding this question, a friend had a girl give him signs and later approached, they started a relationship and even when they have issues, the girl will be the one to apologise. There was even a time the girl contacted an STD, the guy came to me and I gave him some recommendation which took care of it, I didn't ask whether he was sure the girl is not seeing another guy since he didn't have the disease too. It later turned out that the girl was into an intimate relationship with another guy. My friend felt so bad and ended the relationship. That's why I don't blame guys who are skeptical when confronted with such.

I have my own experiences too both the verbal and non verbal ones and currently facing one now, I didn't act on them then because I wasn't ready to build and nurture any relationship. Other things occupied my mind then and it fetched me a lot of enemies. I had to adjust and became friends with some of them. I think what I will be doing now is if I am interested in you too, I will act but carefully so as not end up as my friend.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Feb 17, 2018
Catalyst4eva:
They feel bad especially when they have showed u enough green light and u didn't respond positively, at a time the love turns to hate; very serious one oo, such that she quarrels u all the time over little things even things that doesn't concerns her.

I swear na true u talk lol

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Hhenryy: 2:39pm On Feb 17, 2018
WowSweetGuy:
Question for ladies but na guys go still full thread. I think Nigerian ladies are kinda too preserved in a low way, not intellectual,not too smart and dont know how to really communicate but are very good at asking boyfriend for money and dressing up to go get fvcked somewhere. Thats all

You are very correct bro, they are not intellectual at all. What we see on this forum is a true reflection of how they really are. Let's look at the ratio of male to female registered users, you will see that the percentage of ladies is very small.

It's simple, you can't find many of them here or twitter either because they can't cope. But they are abundant on Instagram and Facebook where they can post series of pictures of themselves with different pose just for likes and attention while making very little or no comments.

The ones you find on Twitter and NL engaging and contributing actively are the few intelligent/intellectual ones amongst them.
Just take a look at the front page of this topic, only one or two ladies responded even though the op was actually directed to the females.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by horia: 2:45pm On Feb 17, 2018
Gangster1ms:
Na their kind dey feel frustrated easily and bitter... it kills them inside. grin

Guys if u notice a woman loves u but she is feeling too big to express her mind, don't help her, i repeat, don't help her.. it's so much fun watching her die in her ego.. i even flirt with them to give them hope but still i don't help the situation... if she no wan talk then make she stay there grin
girls won't like this. lipsrsealed
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Feb 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:

Only if he respects me too.
Your butthole needs to be bleeped.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by vivie01(f): 2:49pm On Feb 17, 2018
earthcrust:
It happens to all women, it is natural but very frustrating wen u try to communicate to a man by actions and he does not seem to understand and respond accordingly to encourage d lady come more closer.Don't forget that it is unnatural for a lady to walk up to a man and tell him ILOVE you. In conclution, Men shld be smart to enough to understand women body language. andrespond wiswisely with respect

You are right.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:52pm On Feb 17, 2018
Holamscoh:


Your butthole needs to be bleeped.

By whom?
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by lovethchioma(f): 2:55pm On Feb 17, 2018
Catalyst4eva:
They feel bad especially when they have showed u enough green light and u didn't respond positively, at a time the love turns to hate; very serious one oo, such that she quarrels u all the time over little things even things that doesn't concerns her.
oh my God...this is so true... cheesy


I'll rather die in silence than tell a guy that I love him o. If he can't see the signs, then he should just go away.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Johnsown1(m): 2:57pm On Feb 17, 2018
Nobodys:
far from it.....it's impossible...I know why am using dat word ....it's actually impossible dear.
I can vividly remember in my primary days when our teachers told us to 1 divided by 2 is systematically and vehemently impossicant but my secondary school studies annulled the assertions, even my lecturers even said that nothing is impossible mathematically and psychologically it only weighed on the ward or wards to improve its modules. Bible even confirm the impossibility made possible.
so dear nothing is impossible it depends on u
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by vivie01(f): 3:00pm On Feb 17, 2018
Fabulousgal:

I wish every guy would be matured enough to respect a woman's feelings wen she makes the moves.
Some guys see it as an opportunity to want to 'dig' bc dats the first message it sends.
Lets try to change our orientation and mindset abt a woman's moves.
I raised this as a topic somewhere n i was surprised to see ladies criticise the act, bt i got more support frm the guys. I am pretty sure that some of the experiences d female folks had wasn't funny n dats y they prefared to die in silent.
Guys make una still help us to make this a reality. We also need to have wot we wish for.

So true!

Some ladies would rather die in silence than to first talk love to a man. The emotional pains most times do outweigh the gains.

Also, how many married men can conveniently say that the woman they are married to now was the one that first approach them? Male folks' got ego please. Even if they agreed with the lady their conventional mindset wouldn't allow them do the right thing in the long run.

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Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Johnsown1(m): 3:09pm On Feb 17, 2018
vivie01:


So true!

Some ladies would rather die in silence than to first talk love to a man. The emotional pains most times do outweigh the gains.

Also, how many married men can conveniently say that the woman they are married to now was the one that first approach them? Male folks' got ego please.

but the lady in question can embed her presentiment and premonition in a way such that the second person can comprehend instead of emotionally decaying secretly.
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:

By whom?
Me off course
Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by vivie01(f): 3:14pm On Feb 17, 2018
Johnsown1:


but the lady in question can embed her presentiment and premonition in a way such that the second person can comprehend instead of secretly decaying inside.

There's no way the lady wouldnt have made her feelings known, except the man in question pretends not to see it or is not interested.

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